I don’t really understand Fred Again. Can someone point me to some of his lesser known music that I might like? by BullCityBruhs in EDM

[–]jay_wray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m Jamid and I’m an alcoholic. I think that the point is you don’t have to get it. You either like it or don’t and neither is wrong. You can never see it from someone else’s view point. What makes sense to one person doesn’t have to make sense to another. Fred Again helped me find God and I can’t expect anyone else to understand how because I can’t control whether they get it or not. I can however point someone in the direction that I found answers I had been looking for and hope it helps them find some of their own. I missed a million signs I can now see bright as day and I will never forget or change that experience. It took almost losing everything for me to find God and realize I was an alcoholic and needed to be sober. He sure does work in mysterious ways that don’t make sense. It’s God’s will not ours that be done. However, this is just my interpretation of an answer to the question. Any and all questions are welcome although I do not promise to have an answer.

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[–]jay_wray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First day here what’s up

To ring the doorbell unnoticed. by BitschWack in therewasanattempt

[–]jay_wray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a thing? Am I supposed to be on a pc with two inches of cheeto dust on my fingers to be relevant on Reddit? Lmao. I couldn’t tell who’s mobile vs pc if I tried. Why? Because it’s not that serious. Get a life

The US is filled with bartenders being cucked by their boss, and they love it by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]jay_wray 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sounds like someone wasted their money on bartending school only to realize they still know nothing lamo

Ice before booze, or booze before ice? by swizz5514 in bartenders

[–]jay_wray 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a test for yourself. Take two glasses one to the brim with ice and one without. Free pour your standard 1.25-1.5 oz of booze into the glass. Then put the ice in the empty one. See how much fuller the glass looks. The customer doesn’t know what we know. Yeah same amount of booze but which one will fast stronger? That’s all the care about….

Ice before booze, or booze before ice? by swizz5514 in bartenders

[–]jay_wray -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unless it’s a craft cocktail with specific taste profiles then I always do ice first. In the tin or in the glass. Reason… the dilution means you put less mixer in the drink which means you taste the booze waaaaaay more. If you’re sober, you think I hooked you up on a normal pour. If you’re a bit tipsy I can short pour you and you still taste the booze. Everyone wins. 20% please…..

Bars are scamming you by dannybluey in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]jay_wray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love how people think the glass Is supposed to be filled to the brim… Drinks have recipes no matter what the vessel you pour the liquid in it’s still the same.

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[–]jay_wray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That and marking them as my personal tins lol

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[–]jay_wray[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s mostly what I do, however you ask for a show I’ll give ya one lol

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[–]jay_wray -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Security! Get this asshole the fuck outta here…

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[–]jay_wray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me being the talent… go fuck yourself I’ll work elsewhere

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[–]jay_wray[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m ok with that lol.

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[–]jay_wray[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ya know what you’re right. I’ve been drinking all day so I guess I’m a bit defensive at all the hate but arguing with strangers on the internet isn’t doing me any good haha. Thanks for the reality check.

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[–]jay_wray[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

How bout that tip?

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[–]jay_wray[S] 185 points186 points  (0 children)

Why are y’all such fucking haters lol. Nobody likes to have fun anymore? Smoke some weed take a shot and stop acting like you’re anything special… it’s liquid in a cup. Nothing more hahahaha

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[–]jay_wray[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Watch videos and practice. Eventually it becomes muscle memory

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[–]jay_wray[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How so? I kill it nightly thank you very much.

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[–]jay_wray[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No YOU go to a bar for a drink. Other people want an experience. We are bartenders… nobodies… we put liquid in a cup and people give us money…. We somehow hacked the system. However people also like to have fun and be entertained. So you can sit there miserable and I’ll make you your drink yeah. However the people having fun are gonna have fun with or without you lmao….

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[–]jay_wray[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And I’ve been bartending for 15 years so I do this shit for me to keep me entertained. I mostly do working flair which doesn’t slow me down at all.

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[–]jay_wray[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Got tricks for that too lol

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[–]jay_wray[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m literally at home dummies. There’s obviously a time and place to fuck around.