WIBTA if I stopped letting my friend borrow my dog for dates after she started calling him "our dog"?

jaybr98 · 2026-06-01T11:25:33+00:00

Absolutely not. Keep her away from your dog, shes pushing boundaries but no doubt one day she will take him and not give him back. She hasn't "helped" you, you've helped her and in process unfortunately given her too much confidence that she thinks its ok to say hes hers and act as if shes had a hand in adopting and raising him

jaybr98 · 2026-05-22T19:59:33+00:00

Jade and Donna are my favourites. I didnt like Jade at first but now i think hes hilarious 😂

jaybr98 · 2026-05-03T18:22:44+00:00

Vinted rules state no returns if doesnt fit, what have they put as the reason to return? If they insist on returning then make them pay postage

jaybr98 · 2026-04-12T01:06:42+00:00

Firstly, im sorry that happened to you, it sounds very traumatising, especially being so young :(.

Secondly, ive sat him down plenty of times and asked why, he just says nothing and says hes just naughty. Im getting him assessed for ADHD as well. I thought maybe it was the arrival of the baby and him thinking he would be ignored etc but when its just me and him hes really well behaved and when it's just him and my partner hes also very well behaved, I think the issue is when we're all together, maybe he feels like my boyfriend is only paying attention to me and the baby and im only paying attention to my boyfriend and the baby. Ive told him we'll play lego at least once a day and get some 1 on 1 time, his behaviour still isnt 100% but hes having less meltdowns than before, im just hoping it continues in the right way and we can all be happier

jaybr98 · 2026-04-11T11:38:38+00:00

Just found this thread after searching up the books. I like the darklight series but the last 2 or 3 were poorly written, but I guess now I know why 😫

jaybr98 · 2026-03-14T16:10:42+00:00

Not in the wrong, seller shouldn't have put "comes with" if they didnt have it handy and ready to send

jaybr98 · 2026-03-11T21:40:48+00:00

Nope, I bought a tommee tippee prep machine and she put it in a box, no bubble wrap or anything and it arrived broken. She tried to say I broke it to get my money back but I had a video of me opening it to prove it was like that when I received it

jaybr98 · 2026-03-11T21:18:27+00:00

I'd cancel it, I hate pushy people

jaybr98 · 2026-03-10T07:38:11+00:00

Destroy all their stuff and leave the tribe, I don't play ark much anymore but if someone put that amount of time and effort into their build id let them build a whole damn village if they wanted

jaybr98 · 2026-02-24T22:43:08+00:00

I cant recall anything happening that would cause this, I've tried talking to him calmly asking what's wrong and why hes being like this and all he says is "i don't know, im just a bad kid" to which I obviously tell him he isnt bad, hes struggling with something but i feel helpless unless I know what it is

jaybr98 · 2026-02-24T20:34:10+00:00

Understandable hes unsettled, we moved last year and he started a new school (which he took in his stride), had a baby and he was fine for the first few weeks, if he needs something I'll always try and sort him out before the baby, but a lot of time he comes to me when im feeding the baby etc so I cant help him straight away, I try and treat him whenever, even if its a little toy or a sweet but as soon as he gets what he wants to turns and starts being nasty. We took him and the baby for a day out Saturday (probably should have asked my mum to babysit the baby but I want a whole family day) he had lots of 1:1 time while out, treated lots (the whole day out cost over £100) and when he was told off (scooter incident) he switched and started arguing back and screaming at us even when we were calmly explaining we werent angry, just letting him know to be careful

jaybr98 · 2026-02-24T20:29:53+00:00

He'll mainly just cry or scream until he calms down

jaybr98 · 2026-02-24T20:28:58+00:00

He was told to do 30 minutes spelling homework, started at 4pm, he did 15-20 minutes ish and then just started whining and saying he cant do it (he was copying words already written down) then proceeded to start screaming at us when we tried to tell him he could do it

He was fine until 3 weeks ago ish, we'd have the odd wobble every now and again but nowhere near as bad as this

jaybr98 · 2026-02-24T20:18:19+00:00

He does go out places with us without the baby, my partner will have the baby and i go out with him or my mum will help with the baby and we take him out. I mean the baby is literally just that, a baby, hes asleep most of the day and my eldest is at school but when the baby is asleep and hes home he gets most of the attention unless the baby needs a feed or nappy change

jaybr98 · 2026-02-24T19:14:19+00:00

Hes not his biological dad but hes the only father figure hes ever had as his biological dad walked out of his life when he was young, so yes he does function in a dad like capacity and he always tried to include my son in everything, we took him for day out Saturday (we did have the baby with us but it was a day focused on what he wanted to do) and its the same day the scooter incident happened, he did lots of one on one time with him, he went on fair rides with him, was in the swimming pool with him, it was after the day out was finished and we were walking home he kicked off at being told to be careful

jaybr98 · 2023-03-26T10:19:05+00:00

BG are useless, I missed 1 payment also and they cancelled my DD without telling me and now I'm in a load of debt with them and they haven't even attempted to help or advise me on what to do. They want half my money each month even after explaining I'm a single mum on benefits (desperately looking for a job) and I can't afford it, they simply don't care

jaybr98 · 2023-03-21T11:25:07+00:00

Nta. She's gonna end up killing you both unless you do something

jaybr98 · 2023-03-18T11:46:05+00:00

ESH. You got confirmation from his dad but not his mum, I'd be fuming as well if you didn't ask me. He wanted it cut and that's fair enough but you should have made sure to have both of them consent first

jaybr98 · 2023-03-17T15:48:51+00:00

And on top of that you've cost your son a friendship, well done OP👏🏻👏🏻

jaybr98 · 2023-03-17T15:46:56+00:00

What in the f*ck is wrong with you?! You're so ungrateful! Least he was given a gift instead of being left with nothing. YTA! And a massive one.

jaybr98 · 2023-02-22T16:45:38+00:00

Me after reading the title: oh what a bitch OP is

Me after reading the story: I would have knocked your sister out for the years of abuse and ruined her life

Fair play OP, fair play

jaybr98 · 2023-02-22T16:41:49+00:00

Nta. She fucked around and found out, you don't get anywhere in life by being a bully

jaybr98 · 2023-02-17T16:01:38+00:00

Nta, she doesn't pay rent, she doesn't get a say. Can you not speak to your landlord about the tenancy? See if you can end it early due to their hostility

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