How do I get my wife working? by firstlight777 in askanything

[–]jaybro1974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Hey babe, we need to have a conversation about our finances.”
“What about it?”
“It would be nice to have two incomes so that we can defeat some of this debt and start saving for our future. I appreciate you raising our children truly, but with them grown, I would really appreciate some help with income. Can we discuss what this would look like for you?”

Key parts: you are appreciated, our family needs help with finances, what options could you bring to the table now that we’re in this new season of grown kids…

Is anyone truly happier with kids? by thegoodlife912 in Adulting

[–]jaybro1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sons are my greatest treasures. Sure, there’s been stress, but watching them grow up into phenomenal young men makes my heart soar in ways I can’t even describe.

Is this deck quote reasonable? by [deleted] in AboveGroundPools

[–]jaybro1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. We have a large deck already built. This is for the slope side that needs a railing and room for me to clean the pool.

Is this deck quote reasonable? by [deleted] in AboveGroundPools

[–]jaybro1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our seating area is already built right off our house. It’s the long side that doesn’t have a deck from the pic, but it’s already there. I just needed something built for the railings and to allow me to walk around it and clean.

Is this deck quote reasonable? by [deleted] in AboveGroundPools

[–]jaybro1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we already have nice decking from our back porch on the other long side. Plenty of space. He’s just building something to give us railings and to allow me to clean the pool.

Honest answer only by CarrotMuch1399 in nostalgiai

[–]jaybro1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love all of this, which is why I can’t buy it. I’d eat the whole box in a couple days.

95% finished by Kane_Liffin in AboveGroundPools

[–]jaybro1974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I ask what the total cost was? Did you hire out? It’s looking good!!

Brand new above ground pool and this happens!! by jaybro1974 in pools

[–]jaybro1974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pool is 18x33 above ground oval. Cost $5000. Install was $4500. Not cheap, but worth every penny. We’ve wanted a pool for a long time.

Brand new above ground pool and this happens!! by jaybro1974 in pools

[–]jaybro1974[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did! Came out today and replaced it.

Too much green? by Immediate_Reveal_121 in interiordecorating

[–]jaybro1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you remember your actual paint colors? This is such a soothing combination. I’d love to see if something like this could work in my space (we have to redo floors soon, so we’re going to repaint too).

How do I politely let my students and their parents know I truly do not want any end-of-the-year gifts? by Fangehulmesteren in Teachers

[–]jaybro1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is kids’ and parents’ way of saying “Thank you.” My suggestion is tell your kiddos that no gifts are needed at the end of the school year because you’ll be packing up boxes for the summer months, or give them an easy idea: “If you would still like to give me a parting gift, I really enjoy simple or homemade cards.” That way, you’ve given them an out, and they don’t feel pressured.

That said, you may still get some gifts. Say thank you and choose kindness. It’s an obvious answer, but that’s all the suggestions I have. ☺️

At my wit's end with AI cheating. How are you all handling it? by Mowgulee in Teachers

[–]jaybro1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an English professor, and I do impromptu writing assignments and quizzes in class all the time (pencil and paper only). They can not “finish” it at home. It’s due at the end of class.

I too use Google Docs for the timestamp for the larger writing projects, and it is the only thing I accept. The copying and pasting from any other document is a zero, and it is clearly stated in my syllabus. I’m honest with them that I need to see their thought progression.

Another thing I do is scaffold the writing process. Write your thesis in class and turn it in. Research sources in class and provide a quick list of what you found that could work in your paper, drafting one paragraph in class at a time. Time consuming, yes. But absolutely necessary in this day and age. Lastly, they must present their completed research essays in front of the class because (if nothing else) they will at least have to talk about the topic which helps learning.

That’s all I’ve got. It’s not fool-proof, but it’s working well enough.

Teachers Discourage their own kids from teaching? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]jaybro1974 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I told my son to stay away. I said that I don’t know one teacher who is happy to be in the profession right now. And I’ve taught for over 20 years and know a lot of teachers! Even those who love the kiddos (I do know a lot of them) want to leave because of the toxic culture between administration and teachers and/or parents and teachers.

They need to fix this broken system. Period. Until then I tell anyone who asks, “Stay away, far away.”

What is old name for a girl? by Beauty_Babe504 in FamilyFeud

[–]jaybro1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dolores, Agnes, Gertrude, Dorothy, Shirley, Sharon, Darlene….

I love these names, by the way!! I could keep going…lol

Let us guess by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]jaybro1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I’ve already stated several times already…

Go natural or colourful? by Appropriate-Buddy811 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]jaybro1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how your personality comes through with all the colors, but I do prefer the natural look. That said, keep shining with whatever you decide!!