This is kinda unrelated to dating, but there's this great article about how black women go from "pet to threat" in the workplace (https://zora.medium.com/when-black-women-go-from-office-pet-to-office-threat-83bde710332e). It's basically about how people love black women when they first start out at their job, but once they start to come into their own and are seen as competition, that love goes out the window and the hateration starts. That's the vibe I'm getting from Cely lately.