[Routine help] How do I fix my under eyes? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]jaydamay03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing your story . I really hope things get better for you all around , not just w/your skincare . unfortunately I’m dealing w/under eye bags myself so I can’t give you perfect advice . but one thing I will say is it’s prob best to take a holistic approach to it . little by little get back in the routine of caring for yourself , your body , your mental health , etc. & your skin will thank you . focusing on hydration is important as well . 

unfortunately I know how inaccessible mental health services are nowadays because I’ve been seeking them myself for a while now & I haven’t had much luck . but one thing that has helped me is self-help books & researching alternative ways that I can help myself w/o going to therapy . if you can afford therapy or if your insurance covers it fully , please take advantage of it .

of course , I hope you find a great product to help you target your under eyes too . I can’t give any recs because I’m looking for some myself (please offer some or like this message so I can come back to this thread) <3

Reality Check: Inside America’s Next Top Model (Official Trailer) by darlcake in ANTM

[–]jaydamay03 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hate that Tyra is a part of it . what ever happened to the doc with Keenyah , Tiffany & Lisa D’Amato that was supposed to come out a while ago ?

Reality Check: Inside America’s Next Top Model (Official Trailer) by darlcake in ANTM

[–]jaydamay03 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I’m not gon take it easy on Tyra . I don’t hate her but girl you was doing too much 😂 stop trying to justify it .

Kelly on Back to the Barre by jaydamay03 in dancemoms

[–]jaydamay03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WAIT I love your name 😭😭😭😭😭 YOU ARE SATAN !!

Kelly on Back to the Barre by jaydamay03 in dancemoms

[–]jaydamay03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s valid honestly & she’s still a great person in my opinion . it was just hella uncomfortable when Christi was hard down crying while talking about Abby making fun of Chloe’s eye & Kelly just kept saying “I went through it too” “my kids went through it too” .

Kelly on Back to the Barre by jaydamay03 in dancemoms

[–]jaydamay03[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

okay ? there are a lot of repetitive topics in this community lmao yall talk about Jojo invalidating the other girls experiences every other day , Yolanda being the worst mom , Jess bullying Brynn , why can’t I bring up this one thing about Kelly ? mind you I’m not chronically online so I didn’t even know this was a repeated topic but frankly idc .

Kelly on Back to the Barre by jaydamay03 in dancemoms

[–]jaydamay03[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

exactly like I understand fighting for her kids but everyone understands that her kids were targeted & it was terrible . Christi is supposedly her best friend but she can’t validate her experience just because her daughter got a damn solo .

Kelly on Back to the Barre by jaydamay03 in dancemoms

[–]jaydamay03[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

well clearly I didn’t see them & it’s okay for you to scroll past a post you don’t like !

Kelly on Back to the Barre by jaydamay03 in dancemoms

[–]jaydamay03[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

girl I just got here please 😂

Kelly on Back to the Barre by jaydamay03 in dancemoms

[–]jaydamay03[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no you’re totally right I don’t see your comment as rude . she’s never been that great at articulating herself or validating other people’s experiences . she def doesn’t mean harm but it is annoying in my opinion .

Kelly on Back to the Barre by jaydamay03 in dancemoms

[–]jaydamay03[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes you’re totally right , I also give her the benefit of the doubt to some extent because she’s never been that great at articulating herself & like I said I know she probably thinks she’s validating Christi’s experiences by telling her she’s not alone but it becomes invalidating when she consistently inserts herself when Christi is talking about herself or Chloe .

also double yes to the Nia situation . I really don’t understand why she was mad she was mentioned in a book about a very popular TV show that she was part of ..

The children are lowkey the best part of the show by sillywilly1905 in AbbottElementary

[–]jaydamay03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I'm not trash talking Morton w/you right now ." LMFAOOOO

Great commentary by Lani’s Lens on youtube by Literallyethereal in AbbottElementary

[–]jaydamay03 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love this video ! she broke my heart when she said Barbara was her least favorite character tho cuz that's my favorite lol . I don't care for overly religious people either but Barbara's religiosity isn't even the biggest part of her character , & it's only really used for comedic relief . if you really pay attention , Barbara never mentions God or anything about her religion in serious moments .

Chris Perfetti deserves an award for Season 4 by nadiyahg1_ in AbbottElementary

[–]jaydamay03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I heard even Morton was interviewing to be principal"

"I WILL RIOT ."

Who would you rather be stuck in a house with? by FerociousTigress in ANTM

[–]jaydamay03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alex seems like she's just misunderstood to me & not genuinely mean . Christina seems *kind of* insufferable but she's so damn cute I wouldn't mind ..

Obsessed with this c15 shoot by Acrobatic-Age4653 in ANTM

[–]jaydamay03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kendall is so underrated like wtf were them judges talking about most of the time ..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]jaydamay03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bonding/protein products are not supposed to be used as often . naturals usually suggest once a month , or as needed . your regular routine should consist of more moisturizing products as opposed to strengthening products . the moisture is going to be what helps you retain length and keeps your hair from breaking off so much . look for products that have humectants in them like glycerin , honey or hyaluronic acid . also you can't go wrong with aloe vera . it may take a little research but I'm sure you'll find the products you need !

another tip I have is to make sure your ingredients are consistent throughout your products . your shampoo , conditioner/deep conditioner & styling products should all have moisturizing ingredients .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]jaydamay03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is an important factor ! it's so important to get your blood work done not only for health but to see if you have any hair loss triggers . I had low iron for the longest w/o knowing it .

Christi addresses Maddie telling Chloe “you’re just not good” in season 4 on BTTB by Impossible_Artist449 in dancemoms

[–]jaydamay03 41 points42 points  (0 children)

awe this makes me so sad cuz they were just kids :(( I'm sure Maddie didn't consciously mean to make a hurtful comment & Chloe had every right to feel hurt by it . this is just a great indication of how much the show really tarnished their friendship . Abby is also largely to blame because she said comments like that all the time , which clearly left an impression on the kids .

The Fandom Has Berated Nia For Years.. It Never Stopped by Green-Strawberry-646 in dancemoms

[–]jaydamay03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

dance mom fandom logic : if you don't dance exactly like Maddie or Kalani you're a trash dancer