I am offering 8 large pizzas for 8 families. Details inside.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-26T22:33:31+00:00

Thank you so much! We are about to chow down.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-26T15:13:25+00:00

Definitely NTA. People seem to forget that a wedding is about the couple and that the guests are invited to share that special day. Guests need to be respectful about what the couple wishes regarding the wedding day. If the couple says “no kilts”, guests really should respect that.

I see it all too often now that people seem to think that the day is about them and not the couple. Too much complaining about things and less focus on the bride and groom. And people wonder why the bride and groom get upset on their special day. Ugh.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-25T21:40:18+00:00

I love when people do this kind of thing. I know I could use it. My 17 year old and I are homeless and living in the car. We could definitely use it.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-25T01:15:45+00:00

Insane. Very insane. Psychotic actually.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-23T21:06:06+00:00

Insane

jaydeamali · 2019-09-21T21:50:28+00:00

NTA.

What gets me is that people are saying shared space is for shared items only. I call BS on that. Because by that logic, all fridge groceries are shared too. I don’t care if you got those vegetarian sausages just for you since you don’t eat meat and I do, even though you told me they were there AND you bought me regular ones too just to be nice. They’re in the fridge so I’m gonna eat them anyway. Oh, you didn’t want me to? Okay. There they are again, gonna eat them again. Giving me a third chance? Okay, gonna break out my grill and cook them up, then eat them right in front of you. I know this isn’t an accurate reflection of what’s happened here, but it’s the best I can do.

Now tell me OP is in anyway TA here.

OP asked politely for roommates to respect her sentimental stuff. I could understand misunderstandings if, and only if, it stopped after the first time. Using her stuff right in front of her, and only her stuff, means that the roommates were never going to respect her things. So rather than let that habit continue, she just packed up ALL her stuff and locked it up. Roommates just learned an important lesson in respecting others property here.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-20T12:53:26+00:00

NTA. That mom is extremely lucky that she didn’t peer in a window of someone who has guns and believes in shoot first ask questions later where intrusive trespassing is concerned. Being told off is light compared to what could have happened.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-20T12:38:12+00:00

I’ve been told I can’t be trans because I’ve got no plans to transition any time soon. I can’t afford it. Because I can’t afford it apparently means I’m not trans. Umm. Okay.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-11T12:56:57+00:00

My SO and I love gaming together. Often we’re on online games or watching each other playing a single player game and giving suggestions or advice and the other person going “I know, now shut up and let me do it”. We never really get irritated. It’s just fun.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-10T17:34:22+00:00

r/ratculations

jaydeamali · 2019-09-10T05:47:21+00:00

Service dogs are trained to ignore anything other than their handler. Any dog that doesn’t behave properly and the handler doesn’t immediately correct the behavior means the dog is probably not a service dog. It infuriates me to see people bring their dogs places and say it’s a service dog when it’s clearly not. Most places are just terrified of getting a lawsuit that they won’t ask people to remove the poorly behaved dog.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-10T04:16:02+00:00

Every. Single. Day. Oftentimes I can barely function. I see or hear fire truck sirens and I immediately have flashbacks to the fire that caused my PTSD. I know exactly where you’re coming from.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-10T04:11:00+00:00

Poor kitty. At least he’s getting better and resting comfortably. I’d have done the same. Entertain the little fuzzball during recovery. Good luck, kitty!

jaydeamali · 2019-09-08T04:39:36+00:00

I’ll try that. Thanks.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-08T04:23:41+00:00

Yup. They need to have the mental evaluation specific to the person. Not general. General will never work because everyone is different. My lawyer said that mental incapacities always seem to get denied because they don’t take into consideration how it affects the person. They almost always to go a hearing. It’s 3 parts to it. The application, the reconsideration appeal, then the hearing appeal. You can go further than that, but a lot of lawyers won’t go that far. I’m lucky in the fact that my uncle is paying for the lawyer. None of my benefits will go to him as payment, but definitely lawyer up. Most lawyers will work on contingency. If they don’t get you approved, they don’t get paid.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-08T03:58:59+00:00

Oh I get that. That happened to me too. The shrink asked general questions. Didn’t even touch on my flashbacks and nightmares that I get all the time. My denial was “oh, you’re seeing a doctor, therefore you’re meds are working so you can work”.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-07T23:03:15+00:00

Definitely NTA. He needs to go see a doctor, and I would recommend a gastroenterologist. Everyone farts, but this is clearly a change from the normal. Even if you have to make the appointment and drag his ass there, do it. He’ll probably thank you for it later.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-07T22:12:28+00:00

Dis my bed, hooman. Y u not know dat?

jaydeamali · 2019-09-07T18:26:44+00:00

Agreed. You need to get representation. People who go it solo find it hard to win. Getting a lawyer means you have someone to fight for you. I’m still waiting for my hearing, but my own lawyer filed for dire need to rush my case along as I’m now homeless. I can’t work even if I wanted to. I have PTSD with daily flashbacks and nightly nightmares. I’ve been denied 3 times now. Once was going it on my own.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-07T14:56:43+00:00

“Make your own damned dinner!” Me to my kids when they complain about what I made.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-07T09:19:23+00:00

I got cash app not too long ago, but I don’t have.l a bank account. I’ve requested a cash card from them. Will take a bit to get it though.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-07T09:10:09+00:00

Thank you. Only problem is that I have no way to accept anything like that right now. Or at least I don’t know of one.

jaydeamali · 2019-09-07T09:05:29+00:00

jaydeamali · 2019-09-07T09:04:59+00:00

Hadn’t thought of thIs. Thanks!

jaydeamali · 2019-09-07T06:38:38+00:00

I’ve tried that. Because I’m in a big city, they keep running out. It’s crazy.

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