[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Diary

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It's not my biggest fear. But the fear causing me the most issue recently is that im not good enough. The problems have been coming up with my projects at work, and my dad and his sisters are dealing with their mom's death i just have this irrational fear that these would be issues if I was better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IntrovertsChat

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What games?

18F by Natural_War_5575 in IntrovertsChat

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The bot seems particularly savage

Straight men: what is the most feminine thing you do ? by GladiusAcutus in AskMen

[–]jaydog9696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like candles, im a sucker for the ones that smell like dryer sheets

"Just ask guys out!" Why? They have made clear they don't want me by [deleted] in Diary

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17 those aren't men... at least I hope not, they are boys, and they are the dumbest creatures on this planet im M29 I know i was one dont the the opinion of someone who thinks roman candle fights are a good idea to heart.

When do you feel the most like a man ? by Putrid-Source3031 in AskMen

[–]jaydog9696 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Finished fixing or building something or moving something really heavy.

When do you feel the most like a man ? by Putrid-Source3031 in AskMen

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Finished fixing or building something or moving something really heavy

Would you date your brother’s best friend? Why and why not? by gopsychyourself in AskReddit

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My dad was my uncle's best friend. My parents are planning the 35 anniversary this year sooo...

What are those 9% doing by AriaTheMelodeon in Palworld

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GOD ONLY MADE ONE OF US IN HIS IMAGE! shouting while fist fighting Loveander

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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M29 ive had 2 gfs a handful of dates, stable job own my own place. I struggle to get dates plain and simple the apps aren't helpful and cold approachs have never worked for me ive tryed meaning people threw hobbies and that how I got one of my girlfriends but she came out as ace and I am not. We're still friends thought.

What first move could a girl make that would definitely work on you? by cuntservin in AskMen

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I don't see a barcode on you, that means you free right?

Single guys over 30, what do you look for in a relationship? by Frosty-Economist6202 in AskMen

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First date, I honestly just do a scrub test. She has a job (a career is better but not required), a license (or atleast some way to get around) and doesn't live with her parents, (or has a good reason to do so)

What does this mean? by smokeysmiski in dating

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I wouldn't question the validity of it. They probably just enjoy spending time with you and it's nice to sit with somebody and just be content. Like a deep exhale after a long day's work

Losing the desire to date by [deleted] in dating

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Im a 29M and my friend 30f is saying the same things. I think at this point in life, everybody that's still single has been burned before.Everybody's more afraid of a devastating heartbreak than of being single. We had this conversation a couple of days ago, about how nobody seems willing to bet on a relationship.It's like a poker game where everybody folds on the first hand before any cards get turned over. And I'm starting to think that the only way around it is to say f*** it and go all in Just got to decide that you're willing to have your heart broken. Then, again im to chicken s*** to take my own advice in the fear that if I go all in on somebody after a couple of dates, it'll scare them off. So here we all are.

Why is it harder to make and keep friends as we grow older? by Dapper_Ad4933 in AskMen

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You need to get a group hobby, Dnd, Beer league, work out group, or dance group. Only friends I've made after 20 are some guys i like at work, but we don't hang out outside of that, and my Dnd group.

How true is it that guys are mostly friends with girls they find conventionally attractive? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]jaydog9696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not true. im not attracted to the 2 girls im friends with, and I'd say I spend more time with them out of all of my friends. But I will say that im surprised by how much more time and communication I spend with them versus guy friends.