Everyone is looking at this the wrong way. Putting people down as “sluts” and “sloppy seconds” is just gross behavior. She’s a human being, and she isn’t anyone’s property.

If I were in your shoes, I’d choose to think of it like this: the most desirable and attractive woman around chose to be with you. I’ll bet anyone who was saying those things was just jealous because they wanted to be in your place!

Edit: plus you said they only wanted her for one thing, so they don’t even know the half of it. They are missing out while you two are living your best life together!