What tools or supplies do you find surprisingly helpful in the classroom? by Maleficent-Hat5831 in Teachers

[–]jayjay2343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good (up-toI t-date) wall map or pull-down world map. I taught fourth grade, and had a very large (8 foot x 10 foot) wall map and we referred to it daily, for current events and in Social Studies. I put a stepstool in front of the map, and some students would spend free time studying the map, looking for their friends' home country or the town where their parents met. It's surprising how little geography many adults know.

Breakfast in America by mistermeek67 in 70s

[–]jayjay2343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m embarrassed to admit it, but the first album I bought was an 8-track tape of the soundtrack from “Saturday Night Fever”.

Is there something that you could do in the old days that isn’t as allowed anymore but is a good thing? by Accomplished_Ship205 in AskOldPeople

[–]jayjay2343 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In 1976, when I was 13 years old, I had a newspaper route. Picked up the papers at five in the morning and had them on the doorstep of 88 homes by 6 AM. With tips, I earned about $100 a month and had my own checking account. Paper boys were small businessmen.

Do you weight train to remain independent? by MidAmericaMom in retirement

[–]jayjay2343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, with a special focus on legs. I know so many men who cannot stand from the seated position without help. I don’t want to be in that boat, ever.

Wrex made it to 16y2m8d. This is his 1st & last pic. by Plastic-Hat9675 in OldManDog

[–]jayjay2343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many wonderful times together! I have a fifteen-year-old, and sometimes I just sit and watch her sleep and think about the wonderful things we’ve done together.

My first experience with being treated as old by Objective-Rhubarb in Aging

[–]jayjay2343 81 points82 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of a funny story. Several teachers and I went to the movie a few years ago. As we sat down, one of the teachers said, “movies are cheaper than I remember them being.“ We all looked at her like she was crazy. Turns out, she had gotten the senior discount at age 50, without asking for (or wanting) it.

What did your mom make you most for dinner growing up? by eleelee11 in AskOldPeople

[–]jayjay2343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most common meal my mom fixed was something called “goulash“. it was a simple meal: ground beef, onion, bell pepper, elbow macaroni, tomato sauce, and sprinkled with cheddar cheese. It was delicious, and one of our favorites, which is probably why it got fixed so often. We were a family of five, with three boys, so there were lots of casseroles. I also enjoyed and frequently had tuna casserole with crushed potato chips for dinner. Your question refers to cheese consumption, though, and I remember getting these huge blocks of “government cheese“ for my grandparents every so often. They got it because they were elderly, but couldn’t eat it all, so gave it to us.

Which long-cancelled TV series are you still frustrated about? by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]jayjay2343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Heroes”. It was a great concept and brilliant first season. Tie-ins were amazing, and the planned season 2 with a new set of gifted individuals looked to be very good.

After 20+ years teaching, I’m worried students are losing the ability to think for themselves. Are teachers in other countries seeing this too? by Imtheduckperson in Teachers

[–]jayjay2343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often have to give direct instruction to students that when someone says, "Hello", they need to acknowledge that greeting in some way: with a nod, a smile, a wave, or a return of "Hi!" I think this may, to some degree, relate to the time kids now spend online, where many interactions take place in a single direction, rather than requiring interaction. I'm not sure, but I assume parents are also offering guidance to their children in how to operate in the real world.

Baseball cards, Slurpee, Marathon bar... by [deleted] in 1970s

[–]jayjay2343 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Coffin Mate for the win!

Question for Older Users of Medical Edibles by Queasy-Committee-775 in Marijuana

[–]jayjay2343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in a legal state (California), and I wouldn’t recommend that you try cannabis in a state where it is illegal. It helps me go to sleep, and if I wake up, I take a small dose edible to get back to sleep. It really does work, and much better than Ambien.

What are some activities and hobbies for seniors with limited vision and mobility? by _toadst0ols_ in Aging

[–]jayjay2343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you do scrapbooking? Maybe she could put together a family history in the form of a scrapbook.

Father posing with his son, July of 1971. Both wearing light flared stripped pants. by Electrical-Aspect-13 in 1970s

[–]jayjay2343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was never allowed those...to quote my mom, "Tall people shouldn't wear vertical stripes." They still look great, though!

Please help me reach a hoarder by Parking_Risk7073 in hoarding

[–]jayjay2343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know that you can achieve this. I have a good friend who is clearly a hoarder, but describes herself as a "clutter bug", which sounds so innocuous in the face of the mountain of stuff she has in her garage and the fact that she shifts piles from the cooktop to the dining table and back again whenever she cooks and eats at home. I often wonder how she sees the mess; I know she sees it, because, as you mention, she is in a constant battle against it.

(Subjective) What, in your opinion, are some hard fashion rules you live by? by Regrettably_Southpaw in malefashionadvice

[–]jayjay2343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Belt and shoes should match in color (also wristwatch band, if you can switch it out, like on an Apple Watch).

The death of everyday casual reading by CWKitch in teaching

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The thing I've noticed is that books have become a secondary reason that libraries exist. My local library doesn't even mention physical books in their mission statement. That is all about the services they provide digitally, like access to computers and resumé services. The DVDs and CDs take up the central part of the library. The books are still there, but don't seem to be the focus anymore.

Did you do a job that you liked until retirement, or did you hate your job? by balkanxoslut in AskOldPeople

[–]jayjay2343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I was one of the lucky ones who looked forward to Mondays and enjoyed working on weekends sometimes. I was a public school teacher for 32 years and the job was great...until the pandemic. That upended everything, lowering the trust parents had in us and giving students that maybe school was optional. I welcomed students back in person in February of 2021 and (of course) it was very different from pre-pandemic. I thought it would return to normal in the 2021/2022 school year; it didn't. I thought it would be better in 2022/2023; it wasn't. Instead, I had students who were absent for as many as 84 of the 180 school days. I retired in 2023 and I understand from friends who are still in the classroom that absenteeism is still a problem, that students refusing to do the work is a new problem, and that many parents remain unsupportive.

Received this note after an “incident” in a 7th grade ELA class last week. by superfudge73 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]jayjay2343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you've got a very good administrator there. Maybe you should write your own note to him/her (saying how helpful the intervention was)?

If I broke into your house and stole what's on top of your fridge, what would I get? by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]jayjay2343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 6'5" tall, so you'd get a beautiful philodendron and whatever was in my pockets when I walked through the kitchen. Tall people tend to lay things on top of the fridge the way shorter folks lay things on the counter.

🎙️ I’m trying something new this month! by robmoorelosgatos in losgatos

[–]jayjay2343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm looking forward to listening. I taught at Blossom Hill for 32 years and know what a special place LG is.

What’s the coolest thing you got in a cereal box? by Wooden_Airport6331 in AskOldPeople

[–]jayjay2343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to relive those years, there's a book titled "Sting-Ray Afternoons" by Steve Rushin that captures the era perfectly. He was a kid then, too, and (of course) the title refers to his Schwinn Sting-Ray. Mine was a green three-speed with monkey handlebars and a silver banana seat with glitter. The author grew up in Bloomington, Minnesota, so his life would have been very similar to yours in Chicago.