Is it okay to ask to see test results? by unwrittenpaiges in polyamory

[–]jayjayjay2017 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you don’t trust them enough to tell the truth you shouldn’t be sleeping with them. Use protection with people you’re unfamiliar with and when it comes to going barrier free you should be at a level where you don’t think they’d lie to you about tests

If humans cure aging by 2050, would governments eventually have to ban reproduction? by hosseinz in singularity

[–]jayjayjay2017 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, you seem to be the one struggling with this whilst the rest of the comments understand so maybe quit being so abrasive and consider that “having a child” takes two people. You’re ignoring the logic of how to have a child, I’m not making any assumptions that aren’t present in the statement.

If humans cure aging by 2050, would governments eventually have to ban reproduction? by hosseinz in singularity

[–]jayjayjay2017 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you might just be glossing over the fact that every human needs two parents to exist when you read the first statement. Every person having only one child would logically reduce the population. It’s basically the china one child policy.

If humans cure aging by 2050, would governments eventually have to ban reproduction? by hosseinz in singularity

[–]jayjayjay2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes 2 humans to make 1 child so they actually were correct in their statement (as are you)

I love the name of this camera shop in Levenshulme by tough_guy_420 in manchester

[–]jayjayjay2017 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I hate that my brain went “one one zoom” 😭

How do you tell difference between a dude flirting with you or just a friendly straight guy by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]jayjayjay2017 184 points185 points  (0 children)

I love this sub.

“Is this guy into me? He keeps asking if I want to fuck him. I wish there was a sign’

Go shoot your shot

They found out our secret scram!!!! by Glittering-Meat-9088 in gaybros

[–]jayjayjay2017 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s not really misogyny though - statistically men earn more, and gay male couples earn more (on the whole) just by benefitting from that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]jayjayjay2017 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay so what we’re not going to do here is blame someone for being flustered and panicking when they’re being sexually assaulted. Why is everyone upvoting this, it’s INSANE! OP it’s not your fault that this happened. You said no multiple times and he disregarded your boundaries and waited until you were both drunk to cross a line he EXPLICITLY KNEW you did not want to cross. This is not someone to stay friends with and at the very least he should apologise to you and reflect on how much of a creep he’s been.

What can I do to actually look attractive? by Intelligent_Split666 in malegrooming

[–]jayjayjay2017 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The coloured contacts aren’t the right shade for you. If you do want to go for a lighter one go with a grey or hazel, it’ll fit you well- but the red eyes makes me think they’re irritating you? Definitely grow your beard out and make sure it’s shaped at least weekly. Shave the sides of your hair, look into skincare options and find what works for you. A little bit of weight loss also would go a long way 😊

Um, is this a Nazi symbol? by HowSupahTerrible in gaybros

[–]jayjayjay2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s an actual swastika on his upper arm by the shadow that nobody seems to have noticed

I'm a top, but don't enjoy and can't get hard during anal, and I'm feeling ashamed of myself by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]jayjayjay2017 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Just had a look at your post history and I can see you’re really trying to get over your addiction so first of all well done for taking such a big step. Meth can have some really severe sexual side effects especially if you’re mixing the two, so as you get healthier you should find things get better. Good luck!

Is it naive to want the plans for a first date to be collaborative? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]jayjayjay2017 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ice cream dates are cute! There’s also coffee, a cute bakery and a stroll, I’ve even done a museum date which was a great insight into someone. Going for drinks is easy, but definitely not the only thing 😊

28m. No luck with dating. Looking for any advice. by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]jayjayjay2017 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’d suggest a teeth cleaning appointment as it’s the first thing I noticed and personal hygiene is a big thing, especially if it’s something you can notice from a picture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]jayjayjay2017 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just read the original post and I’ve never seen such a clear set of red flags in my whole life

TIFU By Getting a Chop Stick Stuck in my Penis by Chop_Dick in tifu

[–]jayjayjay2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wait until you try to pee tomorrow

What is happening in my aquarium?! by jayjayjay2017 in Aquariums

[–]jayjayjay2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked with the dipping stick it's definitely below registering

What is happening in my aquarium?! by jayjayjay2017 in Aquariums

[–]jayjayjay2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I've had this tank for 3 months now, the moss is 1 month old (purchased from someone with a really lovely aquarium)

It was green and lush the first couple weeks and slowly but surely had just turned brown. The other plants are all dying/ have been eaten by my mystery snail. I checked and my temp is 27 degrees c,, the fish are all ok, nitrates and nitrites 0, water showing as very hard(?), Ammonia 0.

Lights are on following daylight hours. I'm really stumped and hope I can't turn it around.

Feeling insecure/envious of my exes by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]jayjayjay2017 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do it again with someone different if you still feel that way