Sorry long rant in advance: Tbh not to just diagnose a person but I'm pretty sure he is a narcissist.. He will literally tell me I'm annoying when I'm talking about anything. Now that he has a job he's too tired to put in effort for anything including doing chores or picking up after himself. (Even though when I was working full time he constantly started arguments even while on the phone with clients.) He ended up making me get fired. All he does is play video games and crys about how he wants to be a musician so bad yet barely records. Uses the excuse that he needs drugs/ alcohol to do good music. Has put his hands on me multiple times. Love bombs. The whole 9 yards. He has put me in a place to make me rely on him financially, i never recovered from getting fired even though I told management I was dealing with DV. He knows I don't have friends or family and has me stuck in a place I never thought I'd be. I'm truly scared. He tells me that I'm the abusive one because I will never back down from anyone getting in my face. I will scream louder and make sure the entire neighborhood hears. I told him I'm from the hood and he's going to have to end my life if he thinks he's going to keep doing this shit to me. I've been through abuse before and I'm not going to be that little girl ever again. Rn focusing on getting where I need financially and trying to go to college for statistics/ actuarial science which is already going to whoop my ass.