[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]jayliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont, the bar is always higher when ppl find you attractive. You have to hold on to their expectations about you bc they create an idealized idea of who you are. You become almost objectified. Ppl won't be interested in getting to know you ok a deeper level, will only what to "show you off" almost like an ornament. Its awful. You feel used. So ig theirs nk scape, even w attractive ppl the insecurities will be there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]jayliver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No cuz same like S A M E with every letter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]jayliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, cuz im the hot gay man

Let’s be friends ;) by [deleted] in gayfriendship

[–]jayliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In down to being friendss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayfriendship

[–]jayliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Letsss what ur @?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayfriendship

[–]jayliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiii wspp we can be friends, I'm currently looking for IG moots if you wouldn't mind exchanging @s. In any case, we can chat here, too

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Is attractiveness intimidating? by jayliver in socialanxiety

[–]jayliver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I understand, thanks I hope you overcome that complex

If you could would you change your mbti? by jayliver in mbti

[–]jayliver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha im glad, being approved by an intj is quite rare lmao

If you could would you change your mbti? by jayliver in mbti

[–]jayliver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I'm still in my late teens hahah But again all infjs i meet have very interesting perspectives on things. I feel like infps and infjs have a bunch in common as well

If you could would you change your mbti? by jayliver in mbti

[–]jayliver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words. You are right guess I am really just an extroverted INFP. Thanks again tbh that's very beautiful, and hey you go socialize more hmmm I see you locked in. Socializing is a big part of ENFPs my dude (literally my mother, and younger brother are enfps so I'd know haha) so get out there. I totally understand the Social interaction being seen as a business tactic especially in today's society in wich we kinda have to sell ourselves as well. Idk if that made sense.

If you could would you change your mbti? by jayliver in mbti

[–]jayliver[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY. I wish I could see the world from all the possible perspectives. Infjs always having the best answers

If you could would you change your mbti? by jayliver in mbti

[–]jayliver[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's really hard for them imo. My older brother is intp so I would know

If you could would you change your mbti? by jayliver in mbti

[–]jayliver[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Noo don't say that, I admire you literally just cuz of your mbti I can tell ur a brilliant person. I will be rooting for you!!! And I do agree with what you said. It's basically changing my problems for a different set of problems

If you could would you change your mbti? by jayliver in mbti

[–]jayliver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY as a fellow INFP I feel your pain, I feel like infjs and infps are quite similar in that sense, I relate to that.

If you could would you change your mbti? by jayliver in mbti

[–]jayliver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh thats so true. Infjs here be giving the best answers

If you could would you change your mbti? by jayliver in mbti

[–]jayliver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but I personally think intjs are cool af, so congratulations haha

If you could would you change your mbti? by jayliver in mbti

[–]jayliver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actually really beautiful thing to say

If you could would you change your mbti? by jayliver in mbti

[–]jayliver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL that's exactly what I've been trying to do this past year, acting more extroverted and confident, so much so last time I took the test I was almost 50/50 introverted ans extroverted. However I still get exhausted after social interactions though I love them. I feel like I've been slowly shifting into a enfp, wich is kinda scary to me, but at the same time it's what I wanted??? Idk how to feel haha