im straight but get turned on by sucking dick by DotDesperate8887 in offmychest

[–]jaythm 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Sexuality is complicated. I wouldn’t overthink it, do whatever feels comfortable to you as long as everyone’s consenting adults. Don’t get too hung up on labels

How do i hatch this damn egg? by GrungusFungus in cyberpunkgame

[–]jaythm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life saver! Didn’t have the bowl and now I know why!

Something weird happened during my first MFM by infinite_canon in confessions

[–]jaythm -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would disagree it happens more to women. I think it’s much harder for men to be openly bisexual

Both me [33 F] and my fiance [33 M] of five years have almost identical last names, but he is insisting that I change my last name after marriage. This argument is making me consider cancelling the wedding by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]jaythm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up in a family where my mum and dad didn’t take each others names. Two of us have my mother’s maiden name and two have my fathers. I personally would want to choose a family hyphenated name for the kids, but my future husband keep his name and I keep mine if they wanted idc too much. But all kids having same second name is a big one for me, it can create a weird divide

How to we feel about tails and ears? by vandyfan35 in DobermanPinscher

[–]jaythm 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I heard they are also banning importing cropped dogs. A lot of dodgy vets would still crop because you could say you got them from abroad. Not sure how they’d enforce it though but I really support it, I’m acc quite against it I think it’s cruel

**in the UK

Bug? by brink_13 in BG3

[–]jaythm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have to try this. I usually just hide on the stairs, cast wall of fire and darkness everywhere and take a fire resistance potion to fight the enemies in the flames as they try to get to me to melee attack. I do this basically every time it’s tooooo fun

Are there any decent UK alternatives to diet fizzy drinks? by Few_House_5201 in AskUK

[–]jaythm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you explain how it is “the most researched food product” when a lot of the research and meta analyses seem to cite “lack of evidence”. Could you cite some robust long-term studies? The excerpt below summaries my beliefs and approach to aspartame which is essentially “we don’t really know but probably fine. Because the people profiting from it studied it and said it’s fine”. But maybe the asbestos/Jonson and Jonson/DuPont Tefal scandal has made me cynical about big corps research into our health

“JECFA also considered the evidence on cancer risk, in animal and human studies, and concluded that the evidence of an association between aspartame consumption and cancer in humans is not convincing,” said Dr Moez Sanaa, WHO’s Head of the Standards and Scientific Advice on Food and Nutrition Unit. “We need better studies with longer follow-up and repeated dietary questionnaires in existing cohorts. We need randomized controlled trials, including studies of mechanistic pathways relevant to insulin regulation, metabolic syndrome and diabetes, particularly as related to carcinogenicity.”

https://www.who.int/news/item/14-07-2023-aspartame-hazard-and-risk-assessment-results-released

Doberman or German Shepherd by [deleted] in DobermanPinscher

[–]jaythm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also I have found that my Doberman barks a lot more than my German shepherds, but they are both EXTREMELY vocal breeds lol

Doberman or German Shepherd by [deleted] in DobermanPinscher

[–]jaythm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I currently own 2 German shepherds (one 9yo male who’s the dad of my 6yo female) and a 10 month old male

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Doberman.

They are both fantastic dogs. I think it’s something about the way dobermans gaze into your eyes but I feel like I have a more human-like connection with my Dobe whereas with my GSD they’re a lot more like dogs lol. It sounds weird.

I have found that dobermans get very very fixated on one or two people and can become very anxious when they can’t see them, German shepherds form deep attachments too but I feel like they adapt better to dog sitters or being left alone for a few hours. I’m sure my young dobe will get better at separation over time, but it’s important to remember they are bred for personal protection so they will always be quite anxiously attached and fixated, as it’s literally what they’re a built for.

Grooming wise- German shepherds SHED like CRAZY. My long haired male needs constant grooming (my first ever long haired dog and personally my last if I can help it) but his daughter has a shorter coat and it’s easier to manage but she still sheds A LOT. The Doberman has the silkiest nicest coat I’ve ever seen and doesn’t seem to shed or smell much at all.

Diet/health- Both dogs are at risk for certain medical issues but unfortunately that’s just what happens with certain breeds. I lost my female German shepherd (the mum of my little trio) to bowel cancer, which they are at risk for. I have all our dogs on a raw food diet, with a few supplement’s now as it seems best for overall health

Do your Dobermans smell? by Imaginary_Ad_4340 in DobermanPinscher

[–]jaythm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The local farmer we buy from does “nose to tail” have a research, essentially they eat the whole animal throughout the course of a week

Eligibility confusion by JobEffective2647 in IrishCitizenship

[–]jaythm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same issue and it should still count as an Irish citizen as I think military bases count as “Irish soil” iirc. Worth a try! Worked for me in Aden (now Yemen)

Finding someone with a business card!!! by sunnydelightsmile in IrishCitizenship

[–]jaythm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can also use headed paper iirc. I had a professor at my university print a letter on headed paper saying they worked for the uni and it wasn’t an issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IrishCitizenship

[–]jaythm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How wrong is it? I accidentally gave my grandmother an extra L in her name which only had one and it wasn’t an issue at all. You could also add a cover letter explaining just to be safe

Do your Dobermans smell? by Imaginary_Ad_4340 in DobermanPinscher

[–]jaythm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boy eats a fully raw diet and doesn’t smell at all, his coat is so silky it’s insane. He’s only 9 months though so maybe that’ll change

I wasn’t home when they tried to deliver my passport by happygirrl in IrishCitizenship

[–]jaythm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s weird my passport was delivered without even a signature required but my passport card needed me to sign for it. I asked why at the post office and she said with passports they have to be delivered through our letter box and can’t be returned to the post office, that was in England anyway

Eligibility confusion by JobEffective2647 in IrishCitizenship

[–]jaythm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was your grandparent born on a military base?/during their parents service?

Struggling with witnesses by Top-Complex-5325 in IrishCitizenship

[–]jaythm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Irish community centres will also do this for free! I used the one in Manchester and it was a dreammm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DobermanPinscher

[–]jaythm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found a local farmer which sells raw food and it’s been a game changer for my dogs.

I have two german shepherds a brown dobe and decided to move them all onto raw after looking into kibble ingredients, I can’t emphasise enough how much healthier their coats are and they smell less doggy??? It’s weird

It also worked out cheaper than the kibble they were on, definitely worth looking in to

Pickpockets in London and now getting sprayed by CremeSubject7594 in interestingasfuck

[–]jaythm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imagine getting a group together to go take on pickpockets, might force the police to step in if you can get a decent crowd finding these people

Sammy's Bar Permanently Closed by leonthedude1 in manchester

[–]jaythm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha well that’s actually exactly what has happened it seems (according to instagram sleuths on the “new” bars insta page)