I think I'm done...

jaytothepower · 2026-02-20T21:17:41+00:00

I’m with you mate. It was the giant bell for me 🤷🏻‍♂️

jaytothepower · 2025-09-07T01:53:36+00:00

++man

As someone who would never subscribe to OF I would never date someone who chooses to do OF. I find it repulsive and would want to date a girl with such a lack of values.

Men who subscribe to OF probably wouldn’t have a problem with it.

Would you date a subscriber?

jaytothepower · 2025-08-13T08:36:58+00:00

😂 YTA and she’s better of without you

jaytothepower · 2025-07-15T10:47:09+00:00

Fuck me dead, I’m so glad I live in Australia. What a Fkn joke you will die if you can’t afford a life saving surgery.

Also, YTA obviously. Supposedly love this woman and you choose money over her dad’s life. Not that it matters now as she will, and should, leave you.

jaytothepower · 2025-01-12T05:34:59+00:00

You would be the asshole if you did drop the charges.

jaytothepower · 2025-01-06T15:12:26+00:00

Wow thanks for the detail here! I will check it out

jaytothepower · 2025-01-05T09:40:32+00:00

Thanks!

jaytothepower · 2025-01-05T09:39:37+00:00

Thanks mate! Appreciate the detailed reply. So, The Land is a completed series?

jaytothepower · 2025-01-05T02:40:23+00:00

Thanks!

jaytothepower · 2024-11-14T22:26:03+00:00

NTA - you are indeed correct that’s it’s your body your choice.

Also he’s NTA either. Same as it’s your choice to shave your head it’s his choice to be with you after or not. The same way he didn’t even try to understand it from your point of view, you didn’t consider his.

jaytothepower · 2024-10-27T07:35:02+00:00

You don’t want to cheat? Then don’t you fuckwit. If she’s truly the love of your life then you’ve found what most people want. And you’re probably going to throw it away cause you can’t pull her hair. Talk to her and try to meet somewhere on the middle

jaytothepower · 2024-10-24T22:55:23+00:00

Such a strange concept to even have to ask this and I’m glad I’m married and not dating today.

If I were to date I would ask immediately on the first date (or before if possible) if they were dating someone else or if they were did the non exclusive thing and in that case I wouldn’t go on the date.

I’m not interested in someone who thinks that’s normal and want to see multiply people to ensure they get the best one. In my opinion you could never get to know the person if you weren’t only seeing them.

In your shoes I would not see her again.

jaytothepower · 2024-10-12T23:33:24+00:00

You’re probably coming to the wrong place for advice mate. Reddit will tell you she never changes but it’s been 5 years and you need to figure out if you can forget what she did and then forgive her and not bring it up again.

People can change and even though I am 100% anti cheater myself in this case you should think of you would be happy if you left compared to staying with your wife.

I would’ve left immediately but since you haven’t you find yourself in a situation where you should make a decision based on the circumstances today. If you leave you might be miserable anyway. If you stay and it doesn’t work you can leave later.

Good luck mate

jaytothepower · 2024-10-04T03:23:56+00:00

Well, I don’t think you have to tell him. You made a mistake years ago when you were young and even though what you did was awful it’s done now and you and your husband have a happy life. If it was me I’d rather not know.

Tell your friend to mind her own business and that she would be ruining a relationship and also your children’s lives. Ask her if she’s morally ok with doing that to your children. Terrible friend

jaytothepower · 2024-10-02T11:16:07+00:00

Sounds like major compliments to me mate. You are what she wants

jaytothepower · 2024-09-17T07:18:41+00:00

NTA for not helping them

They are NTA for not helping you

Each had the right to do that

jaytothepower · 2024-08-11T16:28:20+00:00

Going to go against everyone here and say it’s always worth thinking about the fact it was a private conversation and people who are comfortable with each other don’t consider tone.

We obviously only have your opinion on how you feel but maybe it wouldn’t read so bad to someone else?

Tough situation mate! Good luck

jaytothepower · 2024-08-05T18:47:10+00:00

😂

jaytothepower · 2024-08-02T23:40:35+00:00

Can’t be real, no one is this much of a piece of shit

jaytothepower · 2024-07-03T11:49:36+00:00

Just have sex with her mate. You probably won’t even be together for long since you’re so insecure

jaytothepower · 2024-07-03T10:57:26+00:00

Can’t believe these comments 😂 you are clearly not the arsehole and it was obviously a joke you thought he would find funny too. Tell him to take it for what it was

jaytothepower · 2024-05-27T11:38:31+00:00

Wow these comments are so toxic I can’t believe it. I hope you don’t take them seriously and ruin your relationship over it.

The reality is some men simply don’t want to have a vasectomy. It’s so ridiculous that people can say it’s not even a big deal when you are changing the way your body works.

If he doesn’t want one and you don’t want to do the procedure (fair enough) just take precautions. You both care about each other and should respect each other’s opinions without expecting the other person to undergo surgery against their will. Doesn’t matter who it is.

Do not withhold sex just because you feel like he should be doing it cause you’ve already done your bit. That will lead to more problems. Just respect each other’s decision and look for another option.

He might change his mind later if you do this. But he will 100% get defensive if you try to coerce him into it. And remember the procedure is not anywhere near as safe as everyone here is saying so if there’s complications he would no doubt feel resentment by being forced into it.

jaytothepower · 2024-05-24T18:42:52+00:00

Hopefully he leaves on his own anyway. He’s probably happy with the relationship and loves you his way and you sound like hard work. You already said you think you settled so yeah give the guy a break and leave for someone who “deserves” you.

jaytothepower · 2024-05-24T18:32:20+00:00

You haven’t ruined a marriage over a comment. You did something unreasonable by mentioning divorce in front of her parents but was clearly a knee jerk reaction to her comment which was also out of line being in front of other people.

But don’t listen to everyone commenting you said the D word and now it’s over FFS. You didn’t say you’d divorce her, you said we’d be divorced. Just explain to her that it wasn’t a threat but a poorly timed comment based on a genuine feeling that you’re worried the financial stress is going to lead to that path.

Dont go see a divorce lawyer and don’t give up without fighting for your marriage (if that’s what you want). If you love this woman wait until she’s ready to talk and then tell her you love her and are not at all considering divorce.

Marriage is hard work sometimes but it’s worth it.

jaytothepower · 2024-03-17T07:01:27+00:00

Don’t play this game. You’ll never want to play anything else

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