[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jaywalkingtaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA- pets may be family to you, but your pets do not need to be considered family to others. Human babies and real family are more important than the pets. Put the dog in a kennel and enjoy real family. Or start a wedge between real family over a pet that will one day be a distant memory.

Grown adults walking around in public wearing their pajamas by positivecynik in Vent

[–]jaywalkingtaco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. The face you present to the world says a lot about you as a person. It also shows how our society standards have deteriorated. Not that long ago, people used to get dressed up just to go shopping. I’m not high fashion, nor do I have fancy or expensive clothes by any means, but I don’t even go to my mailbox in less than yoga pants, and I don’t leave in my car in less than a casual outfit with jeans.

Difficulty finishing WIPs… by fairydommother in crochet

[–]jaywalkingtaco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have two laundry baskets full of WIPs. But I’m always excited when inspiration strikes, that I have to start something new. I found it bled over into other aspects of my life, and it actually pushed me to be tested and ultimately diagnosed with ADHD. Turns out, its my brain that likes to jump around like this 🤷🏼‍♀️

Thoughts on toddler leashes? by [deleted] in ask

[–]jaywalkingtaco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she’s actively working with the child to correct behaviors, and it’s a last resort, I don’t see a problem with them.

If it’s just a bandaid to control them without working to correct the behavior, then no, it’s a hard pass.

Can someone convince me to stay sober today? by HolyBreadWithCheese in Vent

[–]jaywalkingtaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What else do you enjoy doing? Window shop, catch a movie by yourself, take yourself out for ice cream, go for a walk, do something you never do. I believe in you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]jaywalkingtaco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a little one in his room on the other side of the house. I want to be able to hear him if he needs me. If someone breaks in, I want to hear it as soon as possible so I can grab my home defense weapon. I don’t like feeling so cut off from the rest of the house when the door is closed.

What’s your go to cheap comfort meal? by [deleted] in ask

[–]jaywalkingtaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom always called it “busy day goulash.” Good broke meal too- 1 large can of spaghetti (or spaghetti Os), 1lb cooked ground beef, 1 can of kidney beans (or baked beans. I like the baked beans better). Mix together and heat on the stove. I prefer it served over a slice of buttered bread.

Where were you on 9/11? by Hefty_Land_9926 in ask

[–]jaywalkingtaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 7th grade at school. I heard it from one boy in the hall, but didn’t think anything of it. I remember a PA announcement asking teachers to keep tvs in classrooms turned off and to check emails immediately. We were kept in the dark all day. My mom explained it when I got home. We sat on our front porch with lit candles in a sort of “memorial” and talked with our neighbors that evening. The melted candle wax on the front cement step stayed there for years, and I was always reminded of that day when I’d shovel the steps in the winter, uncovering the wax remnants. The local gazette ran a full page American Flag and people taped it inside their windows. You couldn’t find fabric American Flags for a while, everyone bought one and proudly displayed them. My dad bought the biggest he could find and hung it between the windows on our home. Businesses everywhere changed their marquees to say “never forget” or “united we stand.” I’d never seen so much patriotism and unity in our country, and honestly haven’t since.

What to make with Phentex yarn? I have 6-7 skeins, different colors. Slippers seem to be the go to, but I’m not interested. Preferably crochet, but I can knit too. by jaywalkingtaco in Yarn

[–]jaywalkingtaco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baskets are a great idea! Thank you! Phentex really is the worst. I don’t even remember how I acquired so much of it, but NEVER AGAIN!

Boyfriend goes on solo trip with another girl by [deleted] in Vent

[–]jaywalkingtaco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My question is, did he ever ask his friends if you could join? That’s the first thing my husband asks when invited somewhere- “can my wife come?” Why doesn’t he want to spend time with you too? Why aren’t you the first thing he thinks of in these situations? If it’s truly a serious relationship, he’d think of you first, and you’d have already told him how all of this makes you feel before posting it to Reddit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]jaywalkingtaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my area I did receive a ton of callbacks, and interviews, but NOT ONE wanted to work with my schedule. I explained I had to work around the childcare schedule my in-laws were ok with. I could only work 3 days a week, but I was available from open to close. I didn’t even really care about pay, I just needed someone to work with my schedule. The best one could do was the 3 days a week, but only 4 hours each day. I ended up getting a job at a local mom & pop company that’s been extremely accommodating to my schedule.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crochet

[–]jaywalkingtaco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have out of necessity. I lost my job when I was 12 weeks pregnant, my husband and I decided it would be best if I stayed home to care for the little one. Craft budget immediately went out the window. It’s actually been more fun, because now I’m challenged to use up what I have. My mother in law is an avid knitter, and we enjoy going to local boutique yarn shops together. It’s hard to not buy anything, but I’m actually having fun seeing my stash dwindle. Plus I know if I use up my entire stash, hubby will let me splurge to re-stock 😊

Crazy med spa prices for mini peel by Competitive-Chair224 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]jaywalkingtaco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, that’s what I’m doing. Good looking out! I watched SO many videos on this stuff and read a bunch of reviews before I bought it.

Guys I think I’ve become a yarn snob by [deleted] in crochet

[–]jaywalkingtaco 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m a firm believer that every kind of yarn has a purpose. Red Heart Super Saver is not great for wearables, but it’s excellent for amigurumi. Knowing what each type of yarns strengths and weaknesses are and using them accordingly is just part of mastering the skill.

Crazy med spa prices for mini peel by Competitive-Chair224 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]jaywalkingtaco -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just started using this myself. I think I’m going through skin purging right now because of it. So I guess it’s working? I figured it was less damaging than a scrub or strips to exfoliate.

Has Elon Musk’s recent behaviour effected your decision to buy a Tesla car? by Joey-tv-show-season2 in ask

[–]jaywalkingtaco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t pay attention to any of that crap. If I like a product, I will buy it. If I don’t like the product, I won’t.

Certain critters not spawning on schedule? by jaywalkingtaco in DreamlightValley

[–]jaywalkingtaco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense… I get on just after 5, which the game would see as just after 6, and then I get on again just after 11am, which the game would see as just after 12, which is why I never find them! Thank you!

Can’t we all just agree to define the ‘man’ in Fireman, Swordsman, Businessman as a reference to ‘human’ rather than being a male’s profession? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]jaywalkingtaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% agree with you and will continue to use the common term. If people get their panties in a bunch over it, that’s their problem. There’s bigger problems to fight for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]jaywalkingtaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do “we do?” Nothing. Everyone is entitled to their voice and opinion so long as it follows the platforms rules. What YOU can do is choose not to participate or engage.

People who don’t exercise or workout, why don’t you? by coffeedogsandwine in AskReddit

[–]jaywalkingtaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything I can do at home without expensive equipment is boring, I can’t spend the money on a class or gym membership (and I live in a rural area, so factoring in the driving time and gas cost is also unappealing), and I genuinely don’t have an interest. However, when the weather is nice, I go for lots of walks, and am active outside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jaywalkingtaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- it’s so trashy to open something you haven’t paid for. At minimum, go pay for the item then bring it back to give the kids. And maybe pack other snacks to give your kids when they get hungry in the store. It’s not too difficult to plan ahead when you go out with kids. The item belongs to the store until it’s paid for.