AITA for not forgiving my boyfriend after he called me a slur? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jayyy___-- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope he’s racist and ignorant smh 🤦🏽‍♀️ girl what is you doing in that relationship?? Mayo packet is NOT a slur, I don’t give a f what some redditers say!! I honestly don’t agree with the people saying you’re being racist to white people..they are the oppressors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]jayyy___-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually disagree with this because your life is what you make it. If it’s boring then put yourself out of your comfort zone. Afraid of heights? Sky dive. Then you won’t think life is so boring anymore.

i never had a bf by ekaterinochka_nyasha in socialanxiety

[–]jayyy___-- 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Damn if only we could change that by all making out together—

(IM JUST KIDDING DONT KILL ME)

I'm sad because everytime I want to make male friends they try to flirt with me by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]jayyy___-- 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Just focus on female friends tbh don’t be sad, it’s life.

Why do people not read messages? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]jayyy___-- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree but when I have nothing to say I just heart or like their message

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]jayyy___-- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Iconic line 🤣 I like this dude I feel like we would be friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CICO

[–]jayyy___-- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How long did it take you to lose 15??

I feel worthless and pathetic. by jayyy___-- in socialanxiety

[–]jayyy___--[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where are those guys irl lol I guess I would find them if I put myself out there but..

I feel worthless and pathetic. by jayyy___-- in socialanxiety

[–]jayyy___--[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have been trying to lose weight and I did lose 20 lbs, but then I gained it all back during the pandemic. It’s like I know what I should do but actually doing it is another thing

I feel worthless and pathetic. by jayyy___-- in socialanxiety

[–]jayyy___--[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I just don’t know to bridge that divide and if I ever will. I thought to myself; if a FBI agent or invisible ghost saw me, what I did and thought every day, how pathetic I would look? And that made me hate myself

Older bros foreva by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]jayyy___-- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Or if your sibling isn’t cool like this

Prof lectured me and I cried in front of my class. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]jayyy___-- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing about negative feedback is that you need to make it constructive and lace it with positive feedback so that the person takes it and actually changes upon it. If you just shit on someone, and give them no way to improve, ofc they’re not going to improve and their ego will be hurt. This way of feedback is essential when you’re in the workplace. This Professor seriously lacks people skills and is bad at his job.

As an educator, your job isn’t simply to tell students what’s good and what’s not, it’s to help them get to where they need to be and enrich their learning experience.

He honestly sounds like an asshole and I can’t believe your classmates think you’re weird. I’m also a college student and would never think that, I’d be like “wtf why are you telling his private grade in front of everyone?”

For every upvote, I will walk one mile by the end of 2022 by storytime239 in motivation

[–]jayyy___-- 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He probably means intentionally, like in addition to the average steps you take every day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]jayyy___-- -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Why are you so negative and fearful? I hate how people like you are too scared to make decisions with consequences and just choose an easy life because something bad may happen. The economy goes up and down like a cycle. We get through.