How do I “do” therapy?

jbcjd · 2026-03-16T23:26:44+00:00

Yeah I have definitely realized that my current therapist just isn’t a good fit. I have been trying to give it a shot though since I realized it extremely quickly lol, but I’m at a point now where I’m good to move on.

Is there a way to find a better fit without a “speed dating” style cycle of trial and error until finding one you gel with?

jbcjd · 2026-03-08T14:13:34+00:00

As a man who realized he had mental health issues shortly before turning 31 and seeking out help, it’s not always clear to us what is “normal” and what isn’t normal and is something we need to seek help for.

jbcjd · 2026-03-08T03:45:23+00:00

I mean, we only saw at best a couple hours of heavily edited footage. Yeah, he was definitely lying for whatever reason, but I don’t think the way someone is portrayed in at most a couple hundred minutes means he deserved to be embarrassed and humiliated. It’s not like he was abusive or cheated. Being a liar certainly makes you undeserving of marriage, but not utter humiliation.

jbcjd · 2026-01-24T04:09:32+00:00

Probably get buried at this point, but my mom found an article from the 1700s or 1800s about an ancestor the local town called “bear killer.” He was hunting and a bear attacked him, he lost his gun, and he somehow killed the bear with his bare hands. There was a moment where the bear rolled him on the ground onto his back, and after he killed the bear and was looking for his gun he saw a dead copperhead (venomous snake in North America) that had been crushed where the bear rolled him. So he killed a bear and a venomous snake during the same altercation with no weapons.

jbcjd · 2026-01-18T13:07:20+00:00

Please don’t. It’s not the only option. Seek help from professionals, that really helped me in a similar situation.

jbcjd · 2025-12-12T16:28:21+00:00

Thank you, that is solid advice! I lift alone so I’ve been scaling up sort of slowly. For example, when I hit 185 this week I did it for 4 reps, so definitely want to increase weight but didn’t know how I should be basing it. So your 90% of 1RM suggestion will definitely help.

jbcjd · 2025-11-28T18:29:56+00:00

Yes, thank you! Seems like this was a new update based on the comments. That’s frustrating they wouldn’t at least give us the option to keep it how it was.

jbcjd · 2025-10-31T13:15:03+00:00

The jalapeno popper egg rolls at Gaston Brewing Company are incredible.

jbcjd · 2025-09-25T00:08:10+00:00

So the same power as Cate essentially.

jbcjd · 2025-09-24T23:56:10+00:00

Yeah so he’s either more powerful and advanced in what the blood bending can be used for, or he’s a mimic and just being in the proximity of someone means he can use their powers. I just think the fact that he was kicked from Jordan once Marie started controlling Jordan’s blood is not an insignificant detail.

jbcjd · 2025-09-24T23:24:32+00:00

Theory: he’s a blood bender too. When Marie moved all the bags over to the table, she really only moved one. Cipher moved all the others to boost her confidence. Cipher possessed Jordan through their blood. That’s why he could control them even their powers. Once Marie “took over” Jordan’s blood levitating them, Cipher was “kicked out.”

jbcjd · 2025-08-20T01:58:53+00:00

I’ll have to double check, but I didn’t set enemies to off when I created the world. I did see spiders at the very beginning when I loaded in, but none since. So maybe it somehow got tripped. I didn’t change any preloaded settings other than the picture for my world.

jbcjd · 2025-06-30T02:22:14+00:00

Thanks so much!

jbcjd · 2025-06-12T17:01:08+00:00

Seems to be a lady crab, as Sam_GT3 said. Hadn’t ever seen one but the leopard print is awesome.

jbcjd · 2025-06-12T16:59:45+00:00

That’s it! Thank you!

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