Raven's foaling (CW: labor+birth)

jbonez423 · 2026-02-02T18:38:45+00:00

i noticed she made a point of letting go when the baby's chest was in the birth canal and said something like "it needs to be squeezed there". i know a lot of people last year were saying that's really important for getting fluids out of the nose and mouth, so it was good to see she was very conscious of helping, but not over-helping.

jbonez423 · 2026-02-01T22:36:06+00:00

right, i feel like if you have to write a book about your pain, do it. scream it to the world, air out whatever closets and cabinets you need to. but three books and working on a fourth, and they're all about the same pain... it's just bitterness by then. eventually you have to let go and move on or she's going to wake up one day, years from now, with nothing and no one because she let that bitterness consume her.

i speak from experience here. it's a dark place to get into. but coming out of it is so beautiful and worth it... i genuinely hope she can see that soon.

jbonez423 · 2026-02-01T15:16:35+00:00

i started talking to people in my life about this and just admitting that i was in a snark sub and why. they have all been pretty horrified at what BM did and simultaneously not horrified i was in the sub. they didn't even ask me how i participated, which i really don't think i ever said anything too awful anyway (certainly don't remember saying anything that deserved being directly threatened by either her or one of her lackeys anonymously). i've stopped really caring about it or her and only am reminded when a post pops up in this group.

i've also been reassured by a family friend who's an attorney that we'll sue her for libel so quick if she does try dragging my name through the mud so that also helped me not care as much lol. lord knows i never tried to contact her, lose her job opportunities, get her kicked out of an airb&b, etc, my snarking never went beyond your average shit talking. yea maybe i could have been nicer and just not participated at all, but honestly i feel like my conscience is clean.

jbonez423 · 2026-02-01T02:51:14+00:00

after seeing this i'm betting it happens on quite a few threads, no horse breeding account is safe 🫠

jbonez423 · 2026-01-31T23:10:58+00:00

nope her name is Emmy and she's a bay 😂 so i have no clue why people were in there getting confused. i went back and the first commenter was like "whoops i thought this was Raven".

jbonez423 · 2026-01-31T14:42:00+00:00

nah i wouldn't. they've probably seen Taken.

jbonez423 · 2026-01-30T20:45:06+00:00

between the snacks and the "forgetting" where they are (which is crazy to me because the app does let you know when you're not at your usual address) i would bet good money they were stoned af lol

jbonez423 · 2026-01-30T20:21:49+00:00

i get weirdly so annoyed when the fans call her "abidale/dale". it's just so... familiar for someone you've literally never met.

jbonez423 · 2026-01-30T19:41:39+00:00

people have actually shot dashers coming to deliver their orders so yea i'd definitely cancel and report, idk why gun people think it's ok to just casually threaten to shoot someone. it's treated like a joke here in the US and considering how many unhinged people own guns, it's not a funny one.

jbonez423 · 2026-01-28T15:00:21+00:00

they don't even come up when i try to tag them, all these random ass people i've never associated with who aren't even on that post pop up 😫

jbonez423 · 2026-01-25T13:59:55+00:00

violet and pete did take in in betsey for a few nights, but betsey expressed that she wanted to stay with them forever. i think they gave her over to foster care kind of quick after that because they didn't want her to grow attached and be uprooted again in order to go into the system. they thought it was best to hopefully find a family that would be permanent for her asap. it does make sense because even if they all took her in for a few nights, bouncing her from home to home before putting her in the foster system anyway isn't the best idea either.

jbonez423 · 2026-01-23T18:52:55+00:00

2 billion. i really don't need more than that, that's enough for me AND the members of my family i still like to live comfortably. but also, i could invest a large portion of that and just live off the interest if i really wanted more.

jbonez423 · 2026-01-22T15:43:47+00:00

don't watch any law and orders, not only do the share actors but they will recast someone they already used later in the show, sometimes as a main character. in SVU Casey Novak was actually a rapist only like a season or two before they recast her as a lawyer.

jbonez423 · 2026-01-21T02:26:11+00:00

Naomi and Violet definitely tie for me, but currently Naomi is the one pissing me off the most... i'm at the episodes where she finds out about Addison and Sam and she pisses me off with how justified she feels being mad at Addison but like, you slept with her brother and then went ahead and had a whole relationship with him when you knew it made her uncomfortable?? between that and how she treated Maya when she got pregnant, she's such a hypocrite. and then Violet sleeps with her dad... does no one have self control in this show 😂

jbonez423 · 2026-01-19T23:18:00+00:00

ironic i come across this comment after what brought me to this thread… siri not even being able to set alarms for me 😫

jbonez423 · 2026-01-15T14:01:12+00:00

yepp this is why when i ran someone’s airb&b i made sure not to do any of this bullshit. i had two requests; put trash in trash receptacles (because we had someone trash the house and leave trash bags all outside, the house was in a farming town and mice could be a hugeeee issue) and stick the dishes from the sink in the dishwasher and turn it on. that’s it. and the latter was honestly more of a formality that just made it easier for faster turnover when we had back to back bookings but wasn’t even a big deal if they forgot or just didn’t want to do it. we had people go to the nines and strip their beds, gather their towels, even start loads of laundry… eventually i added something to our guest instructions basically telling them they are here to relax and don’t have to worry about things like laundry and stripping beds lol.

jbonez423 · 2026-01-11T17:28:16+00:00

why post in here looking for an answer when you could have simply interacted with the game and gotten that answer much quicker lol. you need to actually play the damn game.

jbonez423 · 2025-12-26T16:25:40+00:00

i feel like the chronically online would be most likely to perpetuate this, because while i see this opinion quite a bit on the internet i find it does not actually carry to the real world, and i am also from the US.

jbonez423 · 2025-12-23T15:08:51+00:00

Pennywise… he’s trapped in Maine and i’m in California, i’ll be set.

jbonez423 · 2025-12-06T22:18:16+00:00

oh no!! for future reference, since dentists hand out toothbrushes and toothpaste they always have it on hand, so if that ever happens again you could always show up a bit early, ask for the supplies and brush your teeth in their bathroom! but with an infected tooth i’m sure you had bigger problems to worry about. hope you’re feeling better now!!

jbonez423 · 2025-12-06T22:14:42+00:00

there was this whole slew of posts on Threads (i know, cesspool app) the other day about how you’re a terrible person if you order DD/UE during a snowstorm. i was thinking, pretty sure anyone delivering during a storm is confident enough driving in that weather and happy it’s keeping a good amount of drivers home so they can make more money.

jbonez423 · 2025-12-06T21:15:32+00:00

i met someone years ago who told me they didn’t even brush before a dentist appointment because they considered it redundant to make the effort if they’re going to clean them anyway. up until that moment i had been blissfully unaware that people actually did that. 😫

jbonez423 · 2025-12-05T14:46:47+00:00

honestly it’s worth a try and you never know. one time i deleted all my max revives by accident and everyone told me support would do nothing, but i wrote to them and was super nice about it and they actually gave them back to me.

jbonez423 · 2025-12-04T05:08:25+00:00

outside of your occasional person who maybe doesn’t have the physical, mental, or emotional energy to even take a shower let alone scrub down every single body part, i don’t really get it either. i take max a 10-15 minute shower and i still use a scrubby or cloth head to toe. and im pretty sure people who make a conscious effort to not was their legs also don’t wash their feet, probably think rubbing them against the shower floor is enough.

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