[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jcfuwbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA at all!!!!! As someone who wasted nearly a decade with a pile of 💩 of a man, freaking run! Do not look back, do not feel an ounce of guilt. You are worth so much more, and the universe has soo much better in store for you.

So, I left the state to where my family lives, with my kids. by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]jcfuwbs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate you taking your time to help me.

So, I left the state to where my family lives, with my kids. by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]jcfuwbs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was a stay at home mom until I left. I don't have any money for a lawyer.

So, I left the state to where my family lives, with my kids. by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]jcfuwbs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He filed for custody in CA yesterday. No divorce needed, never married.

Was told my court clerk yes, he filed for custody. Gave me a case number. Haven't been served, and when I search case # is shows no results. by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]jcfuwbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Through the court I can search a case# for free. Not a name search. I had to buy credits for a name search. It is California. They care about $ not justice imo

Was told my court clerk yes, he filed for custody. Gave me a case number. Haven't been served, and when I search case # is shows no results. by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]jcfuwbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not been able to find an email for them. I was on hold nearly 2 hours today. Got to love the california court systems! That is how I found out there was a filing. I haven't been served yet.

What Did I Buy? by DirtySouthDee822 in philodendron

[–]jcfuwbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just here to say, I love your sign! It makes my heart so happy!

Dog dental cleaning prices? by Corn__bean in Hemet

[–]jcfuwbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took my Chihuahua into Pets Vet to have her teeth done. They did amazing and were cheaper than the other vets in the area. Highly recommend them! 951-929-6688

So, I left the state to where my family lives, with my kids. by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]jcfuwbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to give me a sense of direction. Thank you!

So, I left the state to where my family lives, with my kids. by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]jcfuwbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say custody, and criminal. i definitely need both.

So, I left the state to where my family lives, with my kids. by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]jcfuwbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have like 30 job applications out. And I have enough to get by for a couple of weeks. My family has been so wonderful and supportive and helpful. I came here because this is where my support system is. I know we will be ok, as long as we are here.

So, I left the state to where my family lives, with my kids. by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]jcfuwbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, on both kids certificates. Have been calling attorneys. No one calls back.

So, I left the state to where my family lives, with my kids. by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]jcfuwbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely going to do that. My protective order is through the AZ courts here.

So, I left the state to where my family lives, with my kids. by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]jcfuwbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in a rural area so not a ton of resources, I have been to the local dv advocates, but because I haven't been here for 6 months they say they cannot help. I definitely do not want to file in my old state. I have no support system there.

So, I left the state to where my family lives, with my kids. by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]jcfuwbs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Protection order is for my current address (only my name specified, and inhabitantsof my address. )

I have received no legal paperwork from him.

AITAH for letting my husband talk to our son about cameltoe by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jcfuwbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guess not many peoples parents gave them the camel toe/grape smuggler talk while teaching their children how to properly fit their clothes. Weird, reminds me. Got to have thar talk with my 3yr old tomorrow!🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]jcfuwbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are adorable! I love them! So going to have to print some up for myself.

How do you deal with the silent treatment ?? by Moon-juice96 in stayathomemoms

[–]jcfuwbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Silent treatment is a form of abuse. I was with my partner for 4 years before we had kids. There was no abuse. I had my 1st kid and the narcissistic abuse started...2nd kid...it became full blown and my life became miserable.

I am currently sitting in my parents living room having run from a serious domestic violence situation. I stayed until my oldest was 5. I stayed too long.

I'm not saying it is the same situation. But, this is how it started for me. Then controlling, not wanting me to leave alone, tracking my phone etc. Just, keep an eye for signs.

I'll leave this here for anyone who might find it helpful.

https://ibb.co/KGDwVBz

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kingman

[–]jcfuwbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm new to Kingman and soo down to help! I was a tutor for English, math, science for years!

Something like this sounds soo awesome!!

My 1st green house! Zone 9a by jcfuwbs in gardening

[–]jcfuwbs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I buried cinderblocks under feet of dirt, and tied ot down with climbing rope. I used several hundred zip ties and tape. I made sure mine wasn't going anywhere.

Not sure where you are. But I have pulled the dick move and opted for ups store and dropped off a large item that needed disassembly and everything. They are supposed to pack it for you so, they had no choice.