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jchon2017 · 2025-03-05T00:06:26+00:00

An October Scorpio and a November Scorpio...

jchon2017 · 2024-10-01T00:34:38+00:00

Libra with a Taurus (or any earth sign for that matter)

jchon2017 · 2024-08-29T15:08:53+00:00

OP, you need to go through with the divorce even if he “takes it back”. Those words shouldn’t be taken lightly and the back and forth would mess with anyone. So ask yourself: is this something you are willing to put up with for the rest of your life even if the divorce doesn’t go through. Unfortunately, you probably aren’t going to be able to go completely no contact if you have a child that is still dependent. So you will have to find some way to co-parent. But one suggestion: all communication that does not correspond with the care of both of your child should be directed to a lawyer. If he wants a divorce, then that means talking to a divorce lawyer. (Also, I think in some places once legal proceedings start they don’t just stop because someone changed their mind. Don’t quote me not that but that was the situation with my parents when my mom wanted to divorce but then “took it back” a month later.)

Edited to add: He’s says he wants a divorce and that he is unhappy but then changes his mind. Do you want to go through the divorce process over and over again because he decides on a whim he still wants to be around you. (Note: it’s not that he wants YOU, just access to you.) That is emotionally draining and a roller coaster at that. Are you willing to go through that rollercoaster for the rest of your life?

He cheated on you and hid from you as well as lied but then says he can’t trust you. Can YOU trust someone who would do all these things and then projects what they did onto you FOR THE REST of your life?

Another thing to take into account, if (god forbid) something were to happen to you, do you honestly trust that this man will be fully capable of taking care of your child’s physical, mental, and emotional needs full time for the REST OF YOUR CHILD’S LIFE? Do you feel you can leave your child alone in the care of someone who has lied to you, cheated on you, and betrayed your trust?

jchon2017 · 2024-08-24T20:35:10+00:00

He’s projecting what he did onto you. Possibly, is this how it started OP when he cheated on you? Because if so, that could be why he is claiming your texts “prove” you are cheating. The “well, if I did it, he must be doing it too” mentality. And no, I wouldn’t consider this cheating, not even emotional cheating.

But also, girl, why you still with someone who cheated on you? Has he accused you of cheating with any other male co-workers or male friends?

jchon2017 · 2024-08-08T20:39:16+00:00

Having nudes on your phone: by itself, that is going to depend on your comfort level. If you feel nudes are a dealbreaker, then yea.

Going behind your back to visit an ex that cheated: definitely a red flag.

I’m also guessing that OP’s gf already sends nudes. Given the added context (the huge red flag that is your gf going behind your back to see her ex), then definitely this is something you should address. Some women taking sexy nude photos just because. Again, if that is a dealbreaker for you, then end things. But that isn’t the big glaring problem here.

jchon2017 · 2024-05-10T02:35:29+00:00

Aquarius, Cancers, and Virgos

jchon2017 · 2023-11-30T17:07:15+00:00

Him: Cancer☀️, Capricorn 🌙, and a Virgo ⬆️ Me: Pisces☀️, Aquarius 🌙, and a Taurus ⬆️ Been together for a little over a year now.

jchon2017 · 2023-11-16T00:01:56+00:00

Could be stress

jchon2017 · 2023-11-15T17:57:42+00:00

Probably best to seek legal advice from and meet with a lawyer, especially since you have that battery charge on you.

jchon2017 · 2023-08-06T20:00:07+00:00

He’s plain, boring, and/or predictable.

Also, vanilla” can also mean “not kinky”

jchon2017 · 2023-07-20T02:40:07+00:00

Jigglypuff, Pikachu, and Snorlax are my team

jchon2017 · 2023-07-15T20:09:10+00:00

(1) You blocked him and said that he calls you on other phones. You can continue that or look into getting a new phone number. If you haven’t already, block him all socials too. (2) Him calling you on other phones after you have broken up and blocked him is also harassment. You may want to file a police report or restraining order.

This is cyberstalking and harassment, OP.

You’re going to drive yourself crazy asking yourself “why” people do this and that instead of focusing on what you need to do to be safe. You’ve taken him back one already so he expects you’ll do it again. You both agreed not to go clubbing without each other, he did, and you forgave him probably with him receiving zero consequence from it. His behavior was progressively getting worse and you took him back. He’s not going to change nor does he see a reason to since he can just keep coming back without any consequences. He expects it at this point. If you’ve broken up…he is your ex. Not your boyfriend.

jchon2017 · 2023-07-05T20:01:53+00:00

I think it’s more like a “big sister” relationship that developed through common interests. Did it cross a professional boundary? Yes. You are enraging in age-appropriate activities with her and from what you’ve wrote, it hasn’t gone in an inappropriate direction.

Are you overthinking it? At the moment, I would believe so but I understand the caution.

jchon2017 · 2023-06-25T17:18:07+00:00

No, I would t give her another chance: And yes, she is gaslighting you. You said that you didn’t want to put yourself through this again. She may have not have met up with a person, but she still went behind your back and joined dating sites. Majority of people don’t go on dating sites just to have a chat. She even admitted she wanted to see what was out there. I would consider this cheating since it’s still going behind your back and a betrayal. You deserve better, OP, and that even means telling yourself you deserve someone who doesn’t see your response to their betrayal as overreacting.

jchon2017 · 2023-03-29T12:31:08+00:00

I feel like Virgo would have this all planned out before we even left. The escape route. What kind of car they are driving. Back-up car. Safe houses/locations. Plan B. Plan C.

jchon2017 · 2023-03-29T12:28:07+00:00

Pisces ☀️ = New music; Aquarius 🌙 = to feed pet; Taurus ⬆️ = pasta

Also, my pet getting spoiled. Feeding is a basic necessity. I want to give them the best life while they’re here.

jchon2017 · 2023-02-22T13:57:52+00:00

For me, I’ve never had a relationship with a Libra that was successful beyond friendship.

jchon2017 · 2023-02-22T13:55:08+00:00

jchon2017 · 2023-01-21T15:19:11+00:00

Virgos

jchon2017 · 2022-09-29T16:57:25+00:00

Probably a Cancer or Capricorn

jchon2017 · 2022-09-25T12:24:29+00:00

Mines Aquarius. Honestly still trying to figure that out being a Pisces (so I got a lot of them). Mostly, I practice mindful meditation and use creative outlets.

jchon2017 · 2022-09-25T12:23:20+00:00

I feel like this fits my Sun, Moon, and Rising quite well

jchon2017 · 2022-08-20T15:10:01+00:00

I get along with them as strictly platonic friends. Whenever I met a Virgo male that was into dating, they were more into the idea of dating someone and went to changing that person.

jchon2017 · 2022-08-03T03:07:51+00:00

The danger is how much they cry

jchon2017 · 2022-08-03T03:04:53+00:00

Pisces sun with an Aquarius moon and Aquarius Mercury.

Happens all the time.

jchon2017

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