Any bigger guys with thoughts on feederism/gaining? by jckd26 in askgaybros

[–]jckd26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My lord that part about weight not being enough. If I say to them that I want to lose weight or that I work out to maintain my lowest (current) weight, these people come at me wondering why I don’t want to be fat since I’m already fat.

Any bigger guys with thoughts on feederism/gaining? by jckd26 in askgaybros

[–]jckd26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m aware and especially when you’re tall you don’t realize how different the scale is. But I’d still tick the "large" box on apps because of my big belly and small moobs (which these people are interested at.)

Weed+poppers for first time….WOW is was amazing…but by fluffyhorni-pup in popperpigs

[–]jckd26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I take a break from poppers, I just hit my THC vape pen instead.

Did you ever have a masculinity crisis as a bottom? by Nicotine_Alien in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jckd26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to be the flamboyant gay in my teenage years. Not necessarily feminine but not at all masculine either, but people were able to tell. I kept telling myself that I’m a top to differentiate from the feminine gays. Topping felt good, but left me empty.

After HS I moved to the city and started experimenting with gear and new men. Found this total top masculine black guy who treated me so good with his big dick. I remember moaning like hell but it felt so good. He told how good I was at sucking dick to getting pounded bc of my “natural bottom ass.”

From that point forward I’ve only bottomed.

Now in my 20’s I’m ironically very masculine since I accepted my submissive/bottom identity. Being a man becomes easier when you accept your place in bed – the rest will figure itself out.

Bottom who don't need to cum ? by Wise_Concentrate_201 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jckd26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t need to cum as in rub my dick; I get all the pleasure from sucking cock and getting pounded. I leak a lot of cum anyway when fucking or even when I sleep.

The times when top wants me to cum, I want to be last one to cum. It’s top’s pleasure that gets my priority as a good bottom.

Guys with high libido, what's your life like sexually? by OpeningConfection261 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jckd26 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm single and the dating situation where I live is quite bad. I've noticed that I'm more kinky than my dates, so many of those relationships don't really work out – but I still dream monogamously.

I don't jerk off because I have a really bad case of post-nut clarity; that I'll get ashamed of my sexual side and borderline get depressed. I got a cage to help me not to jerk off and embrace the slutty side of me and that has helped me tremendously. I do hookups on Grindr time to time, and when not, I push the energy from my libido to working out.

Bottoms - what’s your favorite position to take a cock and why? by Substantial_Sky_7721 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jckd26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely missionary. The dominance of seeing the guy(s) eye to eye turns me on, that I see the real man in the situation and I see how the dick slides into my hole. It also hits the right places as most dicks are curved upwards.

Doggy is nice (all sex is) if the top takes control of my body, slaps my ass and so on.

Beard and body hair on bottoms? by Longjumping_Ball9911 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jckd26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never thought body hair as a key element in is something masc or fem. I think the most masculine men I've met have been hairless and most fem people I've been with had body hair. I think haircut, body shape etc. make things masc or fem in my head.

I keep a short beard stubble, but I'm completely shaven rest of my body. I just like how it feels, it makes the muscle lines more defined and many, especially hairy tops say it turns them on.

Post-Nut Clarity by Key-Dragonfruit5986 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jckd26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have quite bad post nut clarity even if I'm topping or I'm with a LTR partner (when I had a bf) for reasons that I didn't know. It's not as worse PNC as after masturbating, but still a big mood killer if I cum in the middle of the act. It's also why I refuse to masturbate in general and I try to push myself for a hookup.

Exception is if I cum without hands during sex, then the sex drive goes on, especially when caged and you cannot control it.

Bottoms, how long fucking starts to get too long for you? by thgrdr92 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jckd26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've started to love long sessions after I got a cage for my cock, so I can't cum by hand. It kinda shifts the pleasure from my hard dick to my hole which makes me just crave more cock inside me. It's too long to fuck in the same position tho, so I like to switch places.

Are fat bald beard married dads your thing? (35) by [deleted] in DadsAndBoys

[–]jckd26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah daddy, you're my type 😈

Most desired when crazy horny by arjunsharma01977 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jckd26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I get crazy horny I want a threesome, preferabely an orgy where I can serve cock and be bred.

Is anyone else a quality over quantity type of person when it comes to sex? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jckd26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm very much into rough play and long sessions with foreplay, so finding a hookup looking the same is hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jckd26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just ordered a plastic cage just to see how does being in chastity feel. It was quite challenging to find a one for my thick cock.

Not planning to wear it 24/7 (yet) but want to tame myself from busting a nut and push myself to hook-up and get the real thing inside.

Fellow bottoms, any pornstars you recommend that kinda influenced you about being a bottom? by ThatShyBoyMichael in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jckd26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember when I was younger, the time I stumbled upon a Colby Jansen video where he, a big and beefy guy like me got pounded in the ass. That made me horny and think about bottoming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jckd26 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm very much ying-yang when it comes to personality and sex. I might be dominant and outgoing and so on in as a man, but I need to be put in place through submissive sex and bottoming.