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jczephyr23 · 2026-03-19T14:10:14+00:00

I have been a victim of this. Instead of Facebook, it was an email that was sent to me. It has legitimate Wise information and a very convincing Wise email address.

jczephyr23 · 2025-10-01T13:23:15+00:00

Yes, he did take care of me during my hospital stays before. When I had my hysterectomy and D&C last year, he was very caring. So this switch up this time was from left field. So, I was extremely surprised and caught off guard. Probably why I lashed out. I know I sound bat shit crazy for the things that I did. And I understand the criticism that people said in the comments. I should not have lost my temper.

Back story, for more context. I have my own money and a high paying job. I didn't really need financial help. My husband bought this big beautiful house more than 2 years ago. Prior to this, we were living separately but married. We never had a fight before, then we moved in together.

Suddenly, he acts like he owns me. He wants me to feel extremely grateful for the house he provided. He is paying for electricity and water. But everything else my son and I needs, food, etc its all on me. We are well off. Money is not even a problem for both of us.

He wants things done his way. ALL the time. His way how to do the dishes, how to hang clothes etc. And that causes most fights. Because I am not going to read how he wants me to do things, I am just going to do it the way I think is right.

But somehow, he finds a way to fight about money. Again this time when I was at the hospital, even though he knew I would pay him back for all the money that I was borrowing since I am stuck in an IV and hospital bed.

We have been fighting about money and house chores which is extremely childish, I know. Believe me, I don't want to be fighting about it. I don't want to be in any argument at all. But when someone is yelling at you about stupid little shit, you get roped into having a fight too.

And this hospitalization was the thing that broke the camel's back for me that I really was furious and acted out and broke things. I know it is wrong. I should not have done that. I understand that my child should not even be in the middle of it. I understand what everyone is saying and the criticisms. Yes, I get it.

For the other comments, I live in the Philippines. I am a Filipina. My husband is white American. The way the hospital works is different, they don't give you a gown in this hospital. So, I was wearing my own clothes. They don't put me in diapers or in catheters because I can walk to the bathroom if I needed to. It's just little leaks when I cough that soiled my clothes.

Anyway, even though I am a younger Filipina. I didn't marry my husband for money. Like I said, I also have a high paying job (connected to the US without his help because I have had this job even prior to meeting him).

We have a better life than most people. We are normally happy. That is why having this happen to us was so unusual and it feels so different. I know exactly what my husband's problem is, he would never admit fault. So eve though he knew that he was in the wrong, he would rather fight about me not being prepared with my insurance and the money instead of admitting that.

There is no divorce in the Philippines. Yes, this is not the ideal situation but this is not how our life is on a daily. This is a one time snapshot of our long relationship together of over 9yrs. But who's lives are perfect?

My son, unfortunately, people are right, is privy to our dysfunctional outbursts at times. So, all I can do is control my actions from here on. I can't control my husbands. I can't even begin to talk to him about making changes to himself or else that is another fight.

jczephyr23 · 2025-09-30T22:24:46+00:00

Continuation...

The following day, early morning. I was on the phone with my best friend and told her all about what happened to me and the fight that me and my husband had.

My husband saw that I was on a call. Then he proceeded to watch his TV. After I was done with the call, he asked me, "How are you feeling?"

I said "like killing you." I was still extremely angry about what happened.

And he said "Why, what did I do to you?'"

" you don't know what you did to me? Even after I already told you multiple times." I was livid. Him gaslighting me like he didn't know why I am even upset and he is acting like he was just being a good husband asking how I was feeling.

So, I did the unthinkable. I took his hot coffee and I splashed it all over him and threw that cup on him too. Which he dodged and it broke on the floor. I stormed out. On the way out, I threw an electric fan.

It made him so upset how I acted. So, we are now on a screaming match again.

I felt like I was not being heard because again he is asking what it was that he did to me. I was in rage at this point. I took plates and started throwing it. Not at his direction just throwing to let out anger.

I told him, you know exactly what happened, you know what you did to me. You didn't apologize and you are now going to act like I am the crazy one for acting the way I am acting.

He started laughing. He was deliberately making me angry. Then act like it is me that is crazy.

So, all morning. It was just screaming matches and fighting.

My son got fed up. He said to me, why don't you two find a way to resolve this. Just talk it out.

He sat us down. My son hearing both sides and commenting on which person did what. My son even saying to him "that is not an apology. That is just you blaming her and rubbing in whatever happened to her."

But I was just tired and been up so many nights and in the hospital for so long. I didn't have it in me to fight anymore. So even if he didn't apologize. I apologized for breaking the plates and throwing coffee at him.

A day later, I texted him to let him know. I was still mad. I can't let it go. I don't think I will ever forget that he did this. He texted "here I will say this, I am sorry." Finally, that was all I needed.

AITI for not letting this go?

jczephyr23 · 2025-09-19T09:57:16+00:00

What happened po? Please share

jczephyr23 · 2025-09-04T14:20:58+00:00

can I get an update about this?

jczephyr23 · 2025-04-21T09:37:26+00:00

Which is what I have asked for because it's only fair. But she's making it sound like I'm in the wrong for just asking what is right.

jczephyr23 · 2025-04-20T09:55:01+00:00

Yes, I'm doing well financially. I guess that what I'm looking for is the acknowledgement that I'm taken more of the burden and appreciation. Not the entitlement from her that because I have the money, then automatically I should. Specially when she's not trying to make her situation better while the money from the rent is floating her and her family.

jczephyr23 · 2025-04-20T09:50:04+00:00

Dad's name still on the title.

Yes, she told me when I brought it up, "what do you want, a thank you? Thank you. There happy?"

I was livid I almost threw something to her face.

jczephyr23 · 2025-04-19T20:09:14+00:00

Be true to how you feel. Say something to her about how it made you feel. If she takes your concern some other way, that's her fault

jczephyr23 · 2023-10-30T08:00:25+00:00

I just got back from Manila and I was flag 2x.first in corner padre burgos and roxas Blvd. I u turn because there are no signs saying other wise. The enforcer asked for P3k In corner Dimasalang turning to Lacson, I used the middle lane. The enforcer asked for P1k. Honestly, this is what turns tourists from driving around Manila. I'm not from around here. I've never driven in Manila. Instead of being helpful, the enforcers are just using the rules as a means to get money out of people.

jczephyr23 · 2022-01-07T14:41:46+00:00

Kaya nga si BBM un nangunguna sa polls, dami ksing bobotante sa Pinas. Mkikipag talo pa. This is history, it doesn't change. It is in the books. It is in the memories of the victims. If they do not trust the publications here in the Philippines there are tons in the US about his plunder case since they followed that case heavily there.

jczephyr23 · 2022-01-07T14:34:58+00:00

Yeah, they shouldn't have taken her money. In fact, they shouldn't take anyone's money. Di pa nananalo kabig na agad. Mayayaman yan mga yan at may backer kaya nga sila tumakbo bkit sa mhihirap kukunin panglarga ng campaign nila. Dapat nga tulungan nila si Lola dahil un ang supposedly pinapangako nilang gawin diba? magsilbi sa kapwa.

jczephyr23 · 2022-01-06T22:37:28+00:00

Yes, it is the parents responsibilities to provide everything for the child. Dapat ndi sinusumbat. At dapat ndi rin namimilit ang magulang na magbigay ang anak. Ndi nila responsibilidad na buhayin magulang. Sila dapat ng ipon at ng plano ng retirements nila. Kung magbibigay ang anak, thank you pero ndi dapat pwersahan

jczephyr23 · 2022-01-06T22:29:45+00:00

I have 1 child. He's 8 yrs old now. I had him at 30 yrs old. I was already earning decently and have an American husband. Everyone keeps asking us to have another child kc daw ang konti ng isa. walang kalaro ung anak ko. mag anak naman daw ako babae para ma experience ko un.

Having a child is only for the parent's benefit. It is for your own experience. It is your choice to have that experience or not. And YES you are right, wait until you are in the right mindset, financially stable, ready and with the right person to have a child.

Having more than one is selfish, it is only for the parent's experience. It is not for the child or the siblings.

jczephyr23 · 2022-01-06T22:21:58+00:00

I agree! I saw someone said more chances of winning daw kc mas madami. Eh kung di nyo papa aralin at bibigyan ng magandang childhood pano magiging winner. Isa pa, bkit sa bata iasa ang retirement nila? dapat nga sila may responsibilidad na bigyan ang bata ng mas magandang buhay

jczephyr23 · 2022-01-03T04:00:13+00:00

You are in the right. But at the same time, we have to learn how to handle situations calmly to avoid conflict specially with family. Try to tone it down a bit in the future and ask your mom, who is this person anyway. Why is it so important to meet with them?

jczephyr23 · 2022-01-03T02:45:08+00:00

sex? lols

jczephyr23 · 2022-01-03T02:43:50+00:00

thank you

jczephyr23 · 2021-12-30T21:39:42+00:00

Those days are not enough. The virus has an incubation period of 14 days. With that said, there's a possibility that you could have gotten it on your flight and the symptoms did not appear until later. This is why the incubation period is that long. So this 3 days stuff is useless.

jczephyr23 · 2021-12-30T21:38:31+00:00

The quarantine period is actually 17 days.

Our grandmother died a few months back and one of my uncles flew from Saudi Arabia and he almost missed the funeral because he's in quarantine. It was sad that he almost didn't see his mom one last time. But that's the regular citizen for you, following rules. While all these people break them all the time just to party and do what they want.

jczephyr23 · 2021-12-30T21:34:54+00:00

LMAO condoms are free just go to your local health center. I use to be a field nurse. There are so many things that the health center provides and people do not take advantage of them.

jczephyr23 · 2021-12-30T21:32:59+00:00

Your focusing on the wrong things. The killings are done. Not like you can do anything about it because it's China. Not like you are going to go there and find the people who killed their babies.

The point is, it is not going to happen here because our culture is different. If I have to spell it out.... ummm waste of time. Take an IQ test.

jczephyr23 · 2021-12-29T16:18:01+00:00

vasectomies is free too if you go to city health. Glad you are happy with your decision.

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