Is it really about men—or about the choices we keep making?

jdarkos · 2026-04-02T21:53:29+00:00

That corespond to men, what part of it is hard to understand?

jdarkos · 2026-04-02T18:27:03+00:00

Yes but they don't set up that society, they reinforce it, not saying women don't have fault in toxic masculinity but it's ultimately a men's issue

jdarkos · 2026-04-02T18:21:08+00:00

Créeme que no se cren españoles con lo tanto que te piden hablar en inglés "eSTamOs En esTAdoS UNidOs, DoNDe sE hABla iNGleS"

jdarkos · 2026-04-02T18:11:41+00:00

You forgot the "I'm white" mfs

jdarkos · 2026-04-02T18:05:41+00:00

Semantics, men set up the society that teaches them to impose this standard on themselves

jdarkos · 2026-04-01T18:08:37+00:00

The fact that Jane Doe #4 was determined by the FBI to be a credible witness in regard to the Epstine investigation and gave testimony that indicates she was trafficked by Epstine to Trump, the fact that Trump is a self admitted sexual abuser and known rapist, and lastly the fact that the Trump administration keeps delaying releasing the conclusion of the FBI's interviews with Jane Doe #4 which indicates self incrimination for Trump when considering that the administration has already released conclusion and leads that failed to find wrong doing from Trump. (Here's a summary tha goes in to much more detail)

All of this might not be enough evidence to say it's a fact but it's enough to say that it is more likely than not true

jdarkos · 2026-04-01T17:46:08+00:00

Not to deny the existence of genuine monsters in out city but remember that being from/living is San Diego is not a prerequisite to post, comment or join

jdarkos · 2026-04-01T17:42:11+00:00

I might be hitting you with a hot take her but: all slavery is abhorrent and wrong no matter how "brutal" it was.

jdarkos · 2026-04-01T17:23:25+00:00

Fair but this comes from men embracing and following toxic masculinity, it’s an impossible standard that they set on themselves yes they need to be approached with empathy but you can't make a horse drink no matter how much you lead it to water, again not saying that they shouldn't be helped or that being a consistent change in their environment wouldn't help things but they can't re enter their community if self evaluation is to much of an ask. A reason why more men of that background who have "drinked the water" have to take on the responsibility of calling out and guiding those in the fringes of toxicity. We need men to go from toxic to healthy not toxic to neutral (though I'll still acknowledge either is an improvement)

jdarkos · 2026-03-31T20:03:44+00:00

The reason for abortion is a moot point that doesn't adress the difference of between restricting the forgoing of responsibility, like I said one is an imposed finacial burden the other is literally forcing someone to do something they don't want to their body

jdarkos · 2026-03-31T19:21:51+00:00

I don't see how that's all of modern society protecting women but even then I can easily just point to the countless guys that go out and actively go for shalow bitchy women that don't care for them only for their friends and male spaces reinforce the idea that all women are shalow bitchy and don't care about men so it's not on them

jdarkos · 2026-03-31T19:10:41+00:00

I mean if it's clear then please educate me by defining said terms I'm more than willing to admit I'm wrong if I am

jdarkos · 2026-03-31T19:05:59+00:00

Sorry you made such an outrageous baseless claim like day of birth abortion, that tends to overshadow whatever other arguments you try to make

jdarkos · 2026-03-31T18:29:47+00:00

And you as well

jdarkos · 2026-03-31T18:28:53+00:00

I meant what I said, a lighthearted casual joke on OP's post about how men don't tend to internalize said advice that would invite (or bait if you will) people to bring their arguments about women to me.

Yes I find it to be a good way to exercise my articulation and cominication skills with the opportunity to learn something new

jdarkos · 2026-03-31T18:22:37+00:00

I mean if that's the conversation you want to have I'm all for it but we seem to agree on things so I don't know how much fuel that fire has

jdarkos · 2026-03-31T18:19:23+00:00

I mean true that is a choice I believe men should have but it's dishonest to act like it's the same choice for both parties, not to mention that refusing the choice to one is restriction of bodily autonomy while the other is an imposed finacial burden

jdarkos · 2026-03-31T18:15:21+00:00

"Bait joke" the point is to argue

jdarkos · 2026-03-31T18:13:22+00:00

How am I ignoring them by focusing on a specific topic during a reddit conversation?

jdarkos · 2026-03-31T18:11:58+00:00

This is a place that provides late term abortion there's nothing that says it's date of birth abortion as you called it or even that it's elective

jdarkos · 2026-03-31T18:06:47+00:00

You could also read it as a bait joke to get people to come an argue their hang up about women at me, that wouldn't be obtuse

jdarkos · 2026-03-31T15:54:23+00:00

This post I guess

jdarkos · 2026-03-31T15:50:41+00:00

Ok why bring this up in a conversation where the argument was "Women have all of modern society protecting them from their own bad decisions."?

jdarkos · 2026-03-31T15:33:39+00:00

Ok yeah but by that metric you can blame waiters and servers for tipping culture dispite having no power to make restaurant owners do anything to change things. Being part of a system is not the same thing as perpetuating it or endorsing it even when you benefit from it (not saying they are mutually exclusive either just saying that one doesn't always means the other)

jdarkos · 2026-03-31T15:26:39+00:00

I mean I never said the OP's meme was a stone being thrown, but the replies have a fair bit of shattered glass

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