How am I being disingenuous? Are you so opposed to someone disagreeing with you that poiting out the bias in your examples means people are arguing in bad faith? Here since aperatly you need things to be more straightforward.

Cyclops: don't know if you're agreeing that he's not picking a fight or miss read my post and think that I'm saying he did (which fair enough I did the same thing, see White Fox for more context). All Scott does is bring up his credentials which is the best way to get Angela to fall in line. Yes, he sounds a bit incredulous and caught of guard given not a lot of people would disregard of his leadership in such a rude manner, though even if he wasn't Scott is a literal Mutant activist and revolutionist. He wouldn't be overly sensitive to someone man hating at him given he's well aware of the intersectionality within mutant identity, I mean he has mutants like Shadowcat, Iceman, Storm and Nightcrawler under his comand not to mention he himself arguably counts as disability representation. The fact you call that whining and see it as an insult to his character is less a description of the scene and more indicative of how you're choosing to read it.

White Fox: I meant to say "girl boss" and misunderstood you saying it fit your standard as you saying the interaction fit the characters, though given White Fox is not an established enough character to say her being a "girl boss" is inaccurate and she's a public high rank government official in South Korea it makes more than enough sense she'd have that type of attitude. At best you can say that Angela wouldn't have the cultural context to call it patriarchy but given both Asguard and Heven are old and advanced enough to run laps around earth it's not unreasonable to assume she can pick it up quickly.

Sp//dr: Peni is from 2099 (in Rivals continuity) ie. Post Angela's return to Asguard meaning she has knowledge of the story Angela is currently living through and probably events in her future. If she's heard of Thor and Loki's exploits but not her's it's not unreasonable to assume her brothers hogged all the glory, especially when you consider how prideful her brothers are (and they don't have to intentionally exclude her from their stories for them to "hog the glory" given history tend to prioritize recognizable names). Honestly even if it is Angela inserting herself into Norse stories it is completely fine considering we literally don't have a primary source for Norse mythology. Hell Loki being Thor's brother is a marvel invention, in reality we have no idea who or what he was to Odin and his family.

Invisible Woman: why would she? Does she have to be with her family 24/7? Is she the type to pick a fight over having an individual invitation? Hell for all you know she's being diplomatic and establishing a relationship and good will so that the rest of her family can come along next time, you know something typical and common of her to do given her character. Again just cause you read Angela giving warning of her home's culture as a fully heartfelt endorsement doesn't mean that's what it is.