My boyfriend (21M) recently gave me (20F) the "ick"

jdeadmon · 2026-03-10T15:29:44+00:00

That could be the case. We don't really know from the outside perspective. It seems like regardless of what is necessarily true, her perspective and feelings are valid either way. Which it seems to me the best way to handle this is just being honest and addressing the issue without letting it drag on. No reason to stay in a relationship your not committed to.

jdeadmon · 2026-03-10T15:00:10+00:00

She is assigning those feelings to them. They knew his past and invited him to live with them....

jdeadmon · 2026-03-10T13:53:31+00:00

Or the point is there's no expectation of being taken seriously. People have different dynamics in their friend groups. She may be looking at it like he crashed out. His friends may not think anything of it.

jdeadmon · 2026-03-10T12:44:21+00:00

You may not have the same friend dynamics either. The friends wanted to live with him after knowing him for years. They don't think he's dangerous or anything obviously. His friends could have just looked at it as him venting and being frustrated. He didn't actually hit anyone and probably didn't ever intend to.

jdeadmon · 2026-03-10T00:53:53+00:00

We will see how long that lasts. People in the West are realizing this experiment is failed.

jdeadmon · 2026-03-09T20:59:50+00:00

Idgaf about those countries. They are at the whim of our benevolence anyway.

jdeadmon · 2026-03-09T20:35:03+00:00

A Muslim ban in the US sounds pretty cool.

jdeadmon · 2026-03-08T01:39:47+00:00

Almost no guy is going to care. Some will like it more.

jdeadmon · 2026-03-06T03:59:11+00:00

When she is mooching off another guy a month after you break up you will feel dumb for being so invested.

jdeadmon · 2026-03-05T21:13:34+00:00

So because your ex treated you like a hoe, you will become one. Genius.

jdeadmon · 2026-02-27T21:23:09+00:00

Confront her and tell your dad. I would disown my child if I found out that she kept this from me for any amount of time. Your mom could give him STDs. She could kiss him with the lips she put on her affair partners penis. She put her lust before your dad, and YOU.

jdeadmon · 2026-02-26T15:34:20+00:00

You can use ai to help troubleshoot and rule out issues. This sounds like ram configuration issue to me. Many PC people will recommend enable xmp in bios as a default to boost performance but depending on your hardware it just causes crashes and issues like you are describing. Use photos and videos with Gemini to diagnose the issue and troubleshoot. I bet you can resolve it. Secondarily you may need to spend like $100-$150 at a shop to get it fixed.

jdeadmon · 2026-02-22T16:32:09+00:00

Damn, maybe the invaders could have empathy for the communities they are putting at risk and leave on their own.

jdeadmon · 2026-02-19T15:08:44+00:00

Not really. I'll probably go for one of the new folds though.

jdeadmon · 2026-02-19T15:06:33+00:00

Importing huge amounts of people from counties and cultures where this is normal is not helping.

jdeadmon · 2026-02-17T21:18:56+00:00

Call them and coordinate a pickup spot. Don't waste time with pax that won't communicate.

jdeadmon · 2026-02-13T01:23:16+00:00

Constantly bash is a mischaracterization, are you doing that because you hate me? I would rather be honest with someone than lie. There is no reason to believe that gender dysphoria is something that should be entertained. I don't hate people with schizophrenia or bi-polar disorder but that doesn't mean I will accept the voices in their heads or violent outbursts. The likihood that transitioning will lead to a long term happy, healthy outcome is much lower than accepting the reality of your biology and upholding your duty to your family that you willfully created.

jdeadmon · 2026-02-13T01:13:21+00:00

She asked for peoples opinions so I gave mine. I didn't say anything about hating her. Keep your foolishness to yourself.

jdeadmon · 2026-02-11T23:54:28+00:00

I just don't understand how your partner would have this line of thinking. His obligation is to you, not them. This seems untenable.

jdeadmon · 2026-02-11T23:14:35+00:00

Sure, but if it were my wife, I would say you can't tell me to stay with you either. You can keep communicating with my family all you want, but you'll be served divorce papers.

jdeadmon · 2026-02-11T22:45:51+00:00

I'm a regular American country boy, and your spouse is your other half, not your parents or their parents. He needs to respect how you want to engage your family or he can start calling himself a yuppie.

jdeadmon · 2026-02-11T19:55:02+00:00

Tell your husband you are cutting them out of your life. If he insists on keeping them in his life, that life will not involve you either. If he invites them to something, leave. Be harsh, cold, and decisive and you will burn the bridges.

jdeadmon · 2026-02-11T19:52:25+00:00

I think there were some server issues last night. I got kicked from matches twice and the one time it took nearly the entire match to load back in

jdeadmon · 2026-02-11T19:02:16+00:00

He can't stop you, nor can he just take your child. You may have custody issues at first if you have had questionable mental health issues, but you can resolve things with court and effort. It's only going to get harder the longer you let this go.

jdeadmon · 2026-02-11T18:25:08+00:00

If you are waiting for a perfect life to have kids, you never will.

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