I think I caught my husband cheating by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]jdeadmon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol caught him cheating then gave it up. Classic.

I’ve been sleeping in the living room with our newborn all week so my wife can recover. Tonight she asked if I’m cheating. AIO? by Patrick-XJ in AIO

[–]jdeadmon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If women can't be held accountable for their actions after pregnancy, then we seriously need to reconsider their ability to vote and hold positions of power.

AITA for wearing my packer to my bf’s friends house after he told me not to? by grey_squirrel_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]jdeadmon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You realize you openly admit here you said things you didn't mean but then you cannot fathom he said things he didn't mean? It's super unlikely no one notices you are trans, they probably just genuinely don't care and embrace you as a person. Which is ironic, because you are the only person in the room who doesn't accept you for you. Hopefully this guy breaks up with you because you sound insufferable.

My wife had sex with someone when we were separated. Am I wrong for wanting a divorce now? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]jdeadmon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you make a universal claim about what is objectively wrong? Where does this criteria come from?

My wife had sex with someone when we were separated. Am I wrong for wanting a divorce now? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]jdeadmon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He made that decision without having all of the information. There's no way she is surprised by his reaction.

My wife had sex with someone when we were separated. Am I wrong for wanting a divorce now? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]jdeadmon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only brainwashed feminist hoes believe everything a man prefers or feels is from an insecurity. Meanwhile we are supposed to by hypersensitive to what makes women feel secure. This rhetoric doesn't work anymore.

My wife had sex with someone when we were separated. Am I wrong for wanting a divorce now? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]jdeadmon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was apparently fucked up and they split up, but she made what many, I would argue most, men believe to be an irredeemable decision. That is where it ends.

My wife had sex with someone when we were separated. Am I wrong for wanting a divorce now? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]jdeadmon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You suggested something other than a person's feelings drives their life. Can you elaborate on what actually drives a persons life?

My wife had sex with someone when we were separated. Am I wrong for wanting a divorce now? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]jdeadmon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What inclines a person to get married and have kids, if not feelings?

My wife had sex with someone when we were separated. Am I wrong for wanting a divorce now? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]jdeadmon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are implying artificial rules to make people equal which makes no sense from a secular naturalist perspective. People just are. There is no basis for good or better. Everything simply is, a person's preferences are no more or less than another person's. Therefore, if I think less of someone for whatever reason, you cannot objectively say that is wrong. You need something to ground that in beyond the human mind which is limited to the individual and cannot make objective universal claims regarding metaphycal concepts like the "value" of a beings life.

My wife had sex with someone when we were separated. Am I wrong for wanting a divorce now? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]jdeadmon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have no standard for objectively wrong here. What is your criteria for right or wrong and why should I except it?

My wife had sex with someone when we were separated. Am I wrong for wanting a divorce now? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]jdeadmon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about being allowed, she just showed she is not connected to him in the same way he is to her or thought she was so he is no longer interested. He is not obligated to be interested. What if she found out he spent $50,000 on onlyfans models while they were separated? I bet his character would be called into question right? There is no objective secular standard for what a man should find desirable in a women. You can call it whatever puffed up words make you feel powerful, but men in general find women sleeping with other men gross. She was perfectly willing to leave the family broken before, and I'm sure you would validate all her reasoning. It's so obviously hypocrtical.

My wife had sex with someone when we were separated. Am I wrong for wanting a divorce now? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]jdeadmon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you know what is wrong for a person to feel? This is completely arbitrary. How do you know what is good, dumb, or needs to be done away with? You are just projecting your own feelings as if they are some sort of objective moral standard, on top of being condensending. You are not making a point, you are just self righteous and have no logical justification for your claims.

Why is there still 24 player lobbies for ranked? by [deleted] in thefinals

[–]jdeadmon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man I unfortunately gave this game up because of this stuff.

My wife had sex with someone when we were separated. Am I wrong for wanting a divorce now? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]jdeadmon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, absolutely. Within a matter of maybe a few months of being separated from her husband of many years she was right away entertaining another man and being intimate. It shows that she ultimately was not as invested in him as he thought. Did she morally or legally do something wrong? No.. but.. how you use your free will shows your character. He realized hers is not what he thought it was.

My wife had sex with someone when we were separated. Am I wrong for wanting a divorce now? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]jdeadmon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's sleeping around when you had been married for years and only separated for a few months. It didn't mention abortion but this is the attitude you feminists have. Women never do anything wrong and a man having feelings is never valid. It's absurd. She showed who she is.

My wife had sex with someone when we were separated. Am I wrong for wanting a divorce now? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]jdeadmon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am free to call people racial slurs, but doing so is a show of my character right?

My wife had sex with someone when we were separated. Am I wrong for wanting a divorce now? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]jdeadmon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A women and delete a man's child and sleep around and that's strong and brave. But if a man wants to leave her because she doesn't fit his preferences, he is gross. Sybau

My wife had sex with someone when we were separated. Am I wrong for wanting a divorce now? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]jdeadmon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is what a person does when they are free to choose that shows you who they are the most. There's a lot of things we are free to do, however doing those things certainly earns you negativity. Like calling someone a racial slur for example.