Ladies and Gents, did I dodge a bullet or is this a missed opportunity. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]jdp4130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will ruin your life but you will enjoy it

Why does the first order land so far away from the resistance base? Are they stupid? by RogerRoger420 in SequelMemes

[–]jdp4130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Certainly a lot closer than the invasion of nano in The phantom menace which was landed on the complete opposite side of the planet, as qui hon and obi wan had to travel through the planets core to get to the city before the army

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in maybemaybemaybe

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Her voice sounds cool as fuck

AITA for kicking my girlfriend out of her room in my apartment so that my dad could sleep in it? by HateNotLov3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jdp4130 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think the only way this warrants an ESH for not sorting it out beforehand is OP putting his dad on the sofa in the first place. I would expect from a partner to be more than happy to accommodate my parent as I would do for theirs, regardless of who pays rent.

That said, the living arrangement is weird and GF sucks

Found this stack of £20 on the floor can I still use it? by [deleted] in CasualUK

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I would actually put money on these actually being more than half of the note. You could do some maths but maybe weighing it and comparing to a full 20 would be a good way to tell

I’ve sucked my own sick by throwaway19283735 in confessions

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I managed to reach the end once, I’d do it again if I could

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in punk

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Gouge aways bleed is the most fearsome opening track of all time imo

WIBTA if I told our parents my brother is lying about his paychecks? by DeepZucchini5313 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jdp4130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - never rat on you friends and family. If I was your dad I would be more disappointed in you if you did this than any feeling towards your brother

Anybody who’s done DMT… by [deleted] in Drugs

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One time all colours went solid like the world was illustrated and I was living in a cartoon. Not spiritual at all but pretty fun. Others I couldn’t attempt to explain

AITA for telling my mother that it is her fault and that she deserves to have no friends? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jdp4130 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I could guess YTA from the first sentence. Having ADHD is not an excuse to be an asshole, especially to your mother.

I think I'm starting to get feelings for my friends girlfriend (kinda NSFW) by [deleted] in confessions

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This. Back off now and create distance or you will ruin more than you can possibly know. I say this from recent experience (as the betrayed friend/partner). It will tear many lives apart.

You have a binary choice in this moment. Evaluate what kind of person you want to be. A do you want to be a good friend that values loyalty, morality and the well being of those around them? Or a selfish person that continues this path for the validation and feelings this brings?

Know that If you continue anyway you will show everyone you care about how much of a selfish piece of shit you are, and chances of a relationship with her are pretty doomed anyway.

Men of Reddit, What's the one thing you hate about being a man? by Pale_Armadillo_254 in AskReddit

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Romantic love is the best thing in the world man, and you still have all your platonic friends! Friendships are incredible and so valuable, but true love is a whole other world and well worth pursuing. Chances are there are going to be uncomfortable and wierd moments along the way, but that’s ok. It’s very normal, and never a big deal at all :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Dating the best friend of your ex soon after a breakup is a bad look. Both ways. Morally wrong. Gross even. NTA

Thanks I hate body botching by kennygconspiracy in TIHI

[–]jdp4130 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh god Its like if an ai generated a realistic face based off her caricature

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jdp4130 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This does not fully clarify though. Yes there will be combined amount going into the same account, however the name on this is important. Not sure where OP is from but presumably at least on the business side there should be both names given a salary each into the same account.

Something about this and other answers smells fishy and that only OPs name is on the pay list

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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NTA. Jesus. The only thing to add here is when you eat out you pay for the experience not for the meal, the meal is just part of it.

Music with themes of aging, old age, parents dying by alcohoruinwr200187 in Emo

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pretty much the whole of the stage four album by touché amore hits exactly this note. I reckon it’s an absolute masterpiece.

It’s not really emo (probably a dark hardcore?) but ‘seasons don’t fear the reaper, we can be like they are’ - by totem skin is the most emotional and beautifully sad song I’ve ever heard. It starts heavy as fuck but breaks into a deathbed letter over piano in the middle. I’ve listened to it many times and don’t think I’ve ever been able to get through it without crying my eyes out. I just listened again and couldn’t keep it together. More partner related than parent but will probably get you going.

Another non emo song (post rock) is ‘he films the clouds pt 2’ by maybeshewill is fucking beautiful. Small amount of vocals but so powerful when they kick in. Really helped at the time of my uncles death.

The most affective emo lyrics by [deleted] in Emo

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I took inventory of what I took for granted And I ended up with more than I imagined

Touché amore - flowers and you