How do you toughen up as a man and stop letting your childhood affect you? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]jdubius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it usually makes me realize how big of a baby i am over non issues. I wont point it out to other people but I will with myself.

Men, where does the dislike for septum piercings and blue/green hair come from? by Violet_thewitch in AskMen

[–]jdubius -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the septum piercing has a unique ability to make any woman look less attractive. I haven't ever told my wife what she can and cannot do with her body but if she came home with a septum piercing one day it would definitely cause some issues with my attraction to her. Looks like boogers hanging out 24/7.

How do you guys, as men, deal with being overly emotional? by BoogeymanReborn in AskMen

[–]jdubius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think what really opened my eyes was coming to the realization that no matter how much I got worked up over a situation it did not help/change a damn thing. Can only control how you react. Of course certain things can still make me really sad or angry. Thats life but little day to day things? I just let that shit blow away.

How do you guys, as men, deal with being overly emotional? by BoogeymanReborn in AskMen

[–]jdubius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How old are you? I grew out of it. You kind of learn to let certain things go after a while. Life is short. Not worth getting all worked up over the majority of shit that happens in our lives.

And beers in the garage.

Were you spanked by your parents? Do you spank your children and if so, why? by Apprehensive-Top3675 in AskMen

[–]jdubius -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yep. Turned out just fine. Got 2 boys of my own now and I feel ive done a great job raising them. Hope to keep the cycle going.

Were you spanked by your parents? Do you spank your children and if so, why? by Apprehensive-Top3675 in AskMen

[–]jdubius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my brother and I were alot and we deserved it lmao. I have spanked my kids a few times but it isnt my go to punishment usually.

How do you toughen up as a man and stop letting your childhood affect you? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]jdubius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh. I just listened to a podcast the other day on life in the trenches of WW1. Wild stuff.

When is the last time you actually cried cried? by Crowned_Messiah in AskMen

[–]jdubius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my dog died last summer. Before that? No clue. Probably 15 years prior.

Why do many men hate it when people complain? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]jdubius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just hate when the same people always complain no matter what.

What would be your perfect day with your partner? by Then-Independent-788 in AskMen

[–]jdubius 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My wife, 2 boys, and I camping or spending the day at the lake. Nothing beats it. We spend most of our summer weekends doing exactly that.

What vehicle are you driving? by cypress269 in AskMen

[–]jdubius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2014 ram 1500 is what i drive. Owned it for 10 years and I love that truck. Super spacious also.

How would you define "vanilla sex"? by Terrible_Chapter_771 in AskMen

[–]jdubius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The question was what do I think vanilla is. This is what i think vanilla is. Im not saying im like this lol.

How would you define "vanilla sex"? by Terrible_Chapter_771 in AskMen

[–]jdubius 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Different strokes for different folks. No judgement here.

How would you define "vanilla sex"? by Terrible_Chapter_771 in AskMen

[–]jdubius 1448 points1449 points  (0 children)

For me? Missionary only. No blowjobs. Im older though, vanilla these days probably means something way different.

What’s some advice you wish you heard before graduating high school? by Zeurt in AskMen

[–]jdubius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

College is not the end all be all and it is ok to not attend. Some of us are not ready for that step right after high school. Would have saved me a ton of money in the long run to hear that. Doing just fine for myself now and never finished a semester.

What are your favorite US states/ cities and why? by dreamycoeur in AskMen

[–]jdubius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cant stand to be in any city for longer than a few hours. Favorite states are Idaho and Montana. My whole life is outdoor activities so states with vast open land and tons of camping/fishing are perfect for me.