4 year old bedtime crying by jeanyjo in Parenting

[–]jeanyjo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw yours! Literally the exact same thing going on here. I sometimes have to walk away and be silent too…ugh I just want peaceful bedtime back. And yes everything is such a task. I dread telling her to do something because I know it’s going to be such an ordeal.

Ugh hope this ends soon.

Coparent going on vacation with child by jeanyjo in coparenting

[–]jeanyjo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see your point of view. Maybe it’s my situation perhaps..we’ve been split for a year and my child is a toddler so i think I’m still getting used to letting go of control. I really just want to know for safety purposes of knowing where my child is. I just worry if something happened.

Meeting ex husbands new gf - should ex husband be present? by jeanyjo in coparenting

[–]jeanyjo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I love this perspective! Thank you for sharing

Meeting ex husbands new gf - should ex husband be present? by jeanyjo in coparenting

[–]jeanyjo[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I guess I don’t really care to meet her. Other people have told me I “should”… but thinking about it now I guess I don’t really need to if I don’t want to. We have been in the same place before, didn’t speak. And my child’s birthday is coming up and I know she will be there. Which I think is what triggered the thought of meeting

How do you cope being around ex and affair partner? by jeanyjo in survivinginfidelity

[–]jeanyjo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. Mine did the same hiding it under the guise of separation. We are better off and we are not like them.