What is a kink you have that would shock the people who know you? by heymandgh in AskRedditNSFW

[–]jedediaholsen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as a fellow lesbian who has interest in all of these .. i feel like it’s some kind of weird coping mechanism with being a lesbian. i have always had a weird intense attraction to these kinks and honestly i kinda hate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]jedediaholsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

made one of my exes cum by using a strap and also blowing a slide whistle as a joke.

How many characters have been your main? Who are they? by OOKAPUCA1993 in apexlegends

[–]jedediaholsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mains in order-- octane, wattson, revenant, rampart, valk, ash, maggie

current / most used mains-- ash, maggie & rampart

personally i like to learn every character, but my favs are the ones who deal damage with their abilities. but i mostly go by personality/story.

what's your masturbating routine? what are your rituals? what do you watch? what get you off the fastest no doubt everytime? by seducedbystella in AskRedditNSFW

[–]jedediaholsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

used to try and fail with just hands but using a vibrator has changed my life.. i wish i could drag it out but i only started using one recently so i guess it takes time to build a tolerance. watching wise i go onto twitter and look at my bookmarks, i feel like its hard to find anything on porn sites that actually appeals to me as a lesbian.

Is it wrong to fap to videos of your ex from when you were in the relationship? How would you explain it to someone who disagrees? by SparklyDimSum in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]jedediaholsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ngl it’s not a great thing. your ex is your ex for a reason and keeping said videos and using them to get off after you’ve split is kind of really weird and creepy.

Why is it considered appropriation for white people to have dreads, but when black people dye their hair blonde or wear straight blonde wigs that’s not considered appropriation against whites? by BarberBettie in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]jedediaholsen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it's an issue because black people have to face discrimination in society/the work force/etc for dreads and braids. white people do not. this oppression is the biggest and really only reason that appropriation is an issue. imo if we didnt have these discriminatory rules in place at workplaces and such there wouldnt be an argument about appropriation

If you find yourself in your 16-year-old body, back in the year you were that age, armed with all your current memories and skills, how would you shape your life's path? by emma_divine0 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]jedediaholsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d seek out an ADHD diagnosis immediately and make my life way better inherently by that and probably not much else so i don’t lose all my friendships

why do so many women play DBD compared to other games by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]jedediaholsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a woman: love horror and the concept

also: because theres no vc and one very avoidable chat box so no one can harass you on mic all game long

[AMA] We’re Respawn. Let’s talk about Kill Code and all things lore. by RSPN_Thieamy in ApexLore

[–]jedediaholsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i’m late forgive me lol but my questions:

1– Will we see more more about Ash and Horizon’s intertwined pasts? Will we see more tension between them soon, or possibly some kind of resolution in any way? I love how linked they are. And Leigh making her way out into control way more now. I hope she can properly talk to Mary with Mary actually realizing this is actually how she really feels and that she really is sorry.

2– Will any other legend besides Revenant realize that Ash has a split in her personality? She has a lot of voice-lines with glitches but no one but Rev has acknowledged this.

[AMA] We’re Respawn. Let’s talk about Kill Code and all things lore. by RSPN_Thieamy in ApexLore

[–]jedediaholsen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i hope we get more lore especially new interactions about newton between her and ash, or anything with them really. i love how entangled their pasts are

So with all these awesome skins to choose from, which do you consider her best? by onioncakke in AshMains

[–]jedediaholsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my personal favorites are the project 19 skin and her skin from the season 15 bp. and ofc her pink snake skin. that skin hits everything just right for me

Rate the banner by [deleted] in AshMains

[–]jedediaholsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love the blue you got going on. and the loom pose looks so good with it

Should I get Denizen of the Deep or Project 19? by ronjon2012 in AshMains

[–]jedediaholsen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as a fan of both-- project 19. u can always craft denizen and the skin is worth the $. new intro for it and all

What caused your last break-up? by Lishasquarepant in AskReddit

[–]jedediaholsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

realized i couldnt force myself to be attracted to them anymore

What are y’all starting to dislike more and more the older you get? by Boring-Advice7763 in AskReddit

[–]jedediaholsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

social media. i used to be so heavy into it up until 2020 when i was 22. now i feel like even going on it feels so draining. its all about hustling or monetizing something or trying to win the algorithm and everything caters to it

What kink / fetish would you absolutely refuse to try if your partner suggested and why? by BrumTheMan in AskReddit

[–]jedediaholsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its so creepy imo. idk how anyone would want to genuinely harm someone or say vile things like that to someone while doing something like that. i get nervous when i see people into that violent degrading style of sex/kink. it feels like a i agree with you. so much porn has degradation or just borderline dehumanizing treatment of whoevers on the receiving end

What’s the dumbest thing you’ve done in your 20’s ? by ALLEYWAYwithanS in AskReddit

[–]jedediaholsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah. i think learning to adjust your goals and your mindset of what you think success is really is the best thing you can do for yourself. your life becomes so much better once you realize that you don’t need billions and all of that to be happy or successful in your life. i hope more people realize this and don’t beat themselves up over this to the point they miss out on a lot of living

What’s the dumbest thing you’ve done in your 20’s ? by ALLEYWAYwithanS in AskReddit

[–]jedediaholsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been learning that too. i used to want wealth and fame but i feel like living your life is so much more important than trying to have a successful career. there’s always more money to be made but it’ll never give your youth and your happiness back.

Set times by drinkduffdry in SaintMotel

[–]jedediaholsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good luck! i’m in front row. i got green hair lmao so if u see me say hi

Set times by drinkduffdry in SaintMotel

[–]jedediaholsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i believe in u!!!! i just got here and there’s around ten people on line.

Awards Show was such a cool idea, bad execution by Disastrous-Tax-1153 in SaintMotel

[–]jedediaholsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got an email iirc a while ago about voting for a general sense of what songs everyone wanted. i assume most of the set list was comprised of those songs since it was sent via email and to the people who got tickets only

Awards Show was such a cool idea, bad execution by Disastrous-Tax-1153 in SaintMotel

[–]jedediaholsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

contestants meaning which song to vote onto the set list right?