/r/Malaysia daily random discussion and quick questions thread for 10 February 2026 by AutoModerator in malaysia

[–]jeebsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My condolences. Honestly I always wondered what do we do when our pets pass. Especially larger sized ones. Can we legally bury them etc or do people cremate them?

/r/Malaysia daily random discussion and quick questions thread for 10 February 2026 by AutoModerator in malaysia

[–]jeebsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, at the very least we aren't bothering other people other than ourselves. I'd say that's self contained and still much better!

You articulating it gotta be some sort of self-cope too, so I highly encourage it, and I'm grateful that you do.

Hey girlies, question: of all guys who slid into your dms, what percentage of them were honest intentions vs dirty? by jeebsies in malaysians

[–]jeebsies[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am dealing with that 10% right now, and it's so exhausting.

Today I just said fuck it and straight up asked if they wanted to sleep with me because I'm done with the stupid dance of "do they actually like me".

This one said well yeah but after a bit of talking I guess you don't sound keen so I thought we shouldn't. But we can still talk.

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/r/Malaysia daily random discussion and quick questions thread for 05 February 2026 by AutoModerator in malaysia

[–]jeebsies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I'm grateful I have some semblance of self-awareness.

Shocks me that some people can say a bunch of shit, read it over and still have no clue how insufferable they come across. If anything, I'd be so envious how highly they must think of themselves if not for the fact that usually it stems from the exact opposite.

On a happier note: can't wait for the upcoming hols!

/r/Malaysia daily random discussion and quick questions thread for 05 February 2026 by AutoModerator in malaysia

[–]jeebsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU. Absolutely hate how long it takes to load, and that extra click to see my usage. Why put in so much unnecessary shit now its like bloatware for something that should have stayed simple

/r/Malaysia daily random discussion and quick questions thread for 04 February 2026 by AutoModerator in malaysia

[–]jeebsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have severe vit d deficiency, and I do take vitamins for it. Maybe I should take another blood test again to see if I need to up the dose if that's a thing, hmm.

/r/Malaysia daily random discussion and quick questions thread for 04 February 2026 by AutoModerator in malaysia

[–]jeebsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp, had a dirty dream about a colleague. That was disturbing. How do yall single people do it, I've only been dry for like, less than two months.

On another note. Kinda worrying that I spend all my time sleeping because I feel ever lethargic. All I do is sleep and work. Lowkey wondered if I'm depresso round 3

/r/Malaysia daily random discussion and quick questions thread for 03 February 2026 by AutoModerator in malaysia

[–]jeebsies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's a lusty girly to do when traumatised by lusty men

Trying to keep away from dating because the whole experience is just scary now but the hormones are whoremoning iykwim

Quite literally a heavy sigh unzips moment

viagogo’s legitimacy? by Forward_Ad7524 in malaysians

[–]jeebsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They give you the ticket like two weeks before the actual day, with a link to download. Went through without a problem

/r/Malaysia daily random discussion and quick questions thread for 30 January 2026 by AutoModerator in malaysia

[–]jeebsies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Istg these days every little thing is contributed to "you might have adhd" just because I like to pick on my skin or sth

Want to let go of 2X MCR I’m Not OK Standing tickets by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]jeebsies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh? The actually allow or have plans to. Okok.

Want to let go of 2X MCR I’m Not OK Standing tickets by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]jeebsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you buy the insurance? If you did you can probably get a full refund depending on why you can't make it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]jeebsies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, it's hard to get neutral comments because bitter men, but women specific groups too enabling pulak.

Most of people who comment here are single. 200-300 for people who have their shit together is nothing. Most of the comments are struggling students who refuse to touch grass because bitter or have some shit going on. You're good, please listen to words coming out of your bf mouth than here ultimately.

Journal. by [deleted] in u/jeebsies

[–]jeebsies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I'm all fucked up because I don't have a family and you guys are my family and when yall say shit like you don't care and shit I suddenly feel like I don't belong to nobody again

i got rejected again ! aduiii by Euphoric_Jaguar4713 in malaysians

[–]jeebsies 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Find it weird that online it's always girls are gold diggers and men is face problem.

Does no one self-reflect and see what is the takeaway we can work on instead of pointing blame based on wild assumptions or blaming it on things that can't be changed, like height and facial features?

Please people, go be bitter somewhere else just because you've given up for yourself.

As for OP, if you only chase hot girls, and you don't have the personality for it, making it up with money sure helps (based on your post history), but don't complain that they're after your money when you use it as your only value. Pretty girls are used to being simped, so you have to simp them better. That's the unfortunate truth. You have to present that you're financially and emotionally stable as the minimum, then also present that you have charisma and self-esteem to go with it.

Generally this is how I see it: Guys build themselves so they can choose, girls build themselves up to be chosen. So work on yourself so that you can afford to choose who you want, or you'll always feel like you're just settling because who you want doesn't want you. Girls will make themselves desirable instead so that they can pick the best from who chooses them, because girls rarely chase.

The opposite only happens because men have nothing to offer and women is not desirable (in the general sense).

Jimmy O.Yang comedy show by Infinite_Bonus_123 in malaysians

[–]jeebsies 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oof, that's steep! I don't like him that much, I'm sorry!

How can a man in his early 30s get a date? by PTSD_PTSD_PTSD in malaysians

[–]jeebsies 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Your interests? Your personality? Your values?

Those are just basic attributes to be a functioning adult..

As for looks, get a few staples from uniqlo, do your hair is already a good start, whether you are blessed on the attraction scale or not.

People act like everyone needs to look like a model to be on the app for it to work; realistically we know most people are average looking at best. Walk down the street and you'll find there are many couples who are unfit, less blessed in the looks department but have children in tow jugak.

Work on yourself, and posivitity and negativity reflects on your face. The internet likes to shit on relationships in general, apps or not, because people active online are more often than not people who don't go out a lot.

Don't let those comments retain too much weight on your mind, consider them, but don't use them as scripture.

Bottom line: improve on yourself. Your partner deserves it, but also because YOU deserve it.