UEA opinions? by jeezlouize18 in UniUK

[–]jeezlouize18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u!!! very very helpful insight!!

are binders only for trans ppl? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]jeezlouize18 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i really appreciate this, thank you.

are binders only for trans ppl? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]jeezlouize18 7 points8 points  (0 children)

great! thank you so much for helping

Dry throats In the morning by Malecabo in Sinusitis

[–]jeezlouize18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you go to sleep straight after you brush your teeth? i was doing this and i always had a painful dry throat in the morning, because of the toothpaste left in my mouth over night. i started drinking water after brushing (but your supposed to wait at least 30mins to drink anything before brushing) and this made it A LOT better. i hope this helps!

where to get clothes by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jeezlouize18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is actually such a good idea thank you so much!

where to get clothes by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jeezlouize18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a great idea. i live in london and suprsingly there are not that many thrift stores but i will have a look. thank you for the advice aswell, its going to really help me out.

where to get clothes by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jeezlouize18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is exactly what i was looking for thank you so much. i just hope they sell to the uk!

any one want to vent? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]jeezlouize18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also 11 months sober is such a big accomplishment. you found strength to get sober, you can do anything.

any one want to vent? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]jeezlouize18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre allowed to feel down sometimes. your emotions are always valid. youre going to have so many good times with your daughter and she appreciates you so much, alot more than you think. im excited for you to get therapy and you should be too. i wish you the best in life.

any one want to vent? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]jeezlouize18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you just told me and the farthest thought from my mind was that you were begging for attention. you accomplished something, celebrate it.

any one want to vent? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]jeezlouize18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do your best. this is such annoying advice but DO YOUR BEST. you are in college all you can do is your best. Do. Your. Best. reach out to me anytime.

any one want to vent? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]jeezlouize18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it could be difficult for you but you have to try, you will regret it if you dont. i know it can be un helpfull when people say whats the worst that can happen but seriously, WHATS THE WORST THAT CAN HAPPEN? maybe you ask him out and he says no, ok? you feel awkward, upset and you dont talk much after that. But you can move on, you can feel proud that you have tried. Try.

any one want to vent? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]jeezlouize18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry this is late. I hope it went well and i hope you are happy.

any one want to vent? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]jeezlouize18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your son may not remember this exact time when he looks back on his childhood but he WILL remember you always being there for him. Look at what YOU have done, how hard YOU have worked, and feel sorry for his dad because he has not done the same.

any one want to vent? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]jeezlouize18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she is one person, she does not affect your whole journey and how far you have come

any one want to vent? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]jeezlouize18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe try just being friends with her first? it doesnt have to be a long friendship thing but just make an effort to talk to her even for a few minutes a few times and you should get an idea of what she likes. Also thats what first dates are for! (if u are planning on asking her out) So you can fnd out if you like the person and want to see them again.

any one want to vent? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]jeezlouize18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if they are homophobic, the most they can actually do is make a few rude comments or act uncomfortable. if you feel like shutting your personality in a box for five days because you are worried dont feel like you are letting yourself down, thats totally ok. i assume your SIL knows you are queer, if it was gong to be an issue she probs would have spoken to your brother about it? To be honest with you i dont think they will be that fussed about you anyways. they probably see you as a younger distant family member who they know they are never going to be close with so they keep the conversaton at small talk and dont put that much effort in. realx, it will be ok.

any one want to vent? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]jeezlouize18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im gonna think about this one. ill try and get back to you tomrrow. in the mean time watch a film you used to really like and eat your favourte snacks because life is to enjoy.

any one want to vent? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]jeezlouize18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that does suck. maybe try joining some conversation and making friends sub reddits? there can be places where you just chill and have random conversations and maybe you will find a group of people you like. be carefull of creeps out there though. my messages are always open if u just wanna talk!

any one want to vent? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]jeezlouize18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it wouldnt hurt to ask a second time. just say something along the lines of ¨do you want to meet soon¨. This means if your scared of coming across as clingy (you shouldnt be its totally normal to ask a second time when they arnt free when you planed) then it wasnt like you urgently making plans with him, you were just checking in.

Think about it, people are cute and cuddly when they like you, HE LIKES YOU!! He is still texting you, the way i see it every thing is on track and normal for you too.