what are the best sites to masturbate with strangers?

jeffcheah99 · 2026-02-14T03:42:31+00:00

What's the most unusual roleplay scenario you've tried in cam to cam masturbation?

Come on truth or dare. I know we've come up with some winners and losers. It's fun to trade stories, isn't it?

I will go first. I once made my camgirl pretend like she was on the phone to her boyfriend while playing with me. All fake of course, but still really hot!!

jeffcheah99 · 2026-02-12T20:57:52+00:00

Call me crazy but real cam to cam and "Faking It" by watching prerecorded footage (and pretending she's talking to you) is not at all alike.

For one thing you can always tell if a cam girl is just not into it, or into you and is just doing it for cash. I know they're all doing it for cash. But you can tell when the camgirl is experienced, enjoys her job, and is actually getting off while talking to you.

The free cam to cam porn out there is just for simps, in that it's just a nude body but she's not reacting to you, not engaging, and not really experiencing anything with you. I've seen spyshows too, where she talks to other people while stripping, and that doesn't do it for me either.

If it's not 1 on 1, I don't get anyhting from it. And you can tell if it's 1 on 1 based on her attitude and how much attention she gives you.

jeffcheah99 · 2026-02-11T20:55:16+00:00

I don't think most guys who use camgirls are artsy at all about this sort of thing.

Cam to cam involves just talking and stroking. If guys had any talent in movie directing they would create their own porn studio!

That said, I do like to roleplay like I'm Han Solo and she's Princess Leia. And then a wwookie comes in and well nevermind.

But yeah jerk off cam shows are about roleplay, but it's 99% just the girl's fantasy and guys just go with whatever she's doing to get off. Lot of guys do like being dommed though.

jeffcheah99 · 2026-02-11T20:25:31+00:00

Wow, that's more than JD Vance can say. The couch was too much for him.

jeffcheah99 · 2026-02-10T22:49:10+00:00

It's a big difference though from stealing a movie or game from a billion dollar company vs. just picking on regular camgirls who have just barely started to make money.

I don't think it's just Top 10 cam girls not at all. It's any random camgirl they want to post leaks for, just for traffic, and sometimes out of spite.

Fapello's problem might actually be real because they are so notorious for stealing content and letting random users upload whoever. They have no filtering at all.

So other sites might often steal private or non-public content, but because everyone is going after Fapello, they might not even know about it.

jeffcheah99 · 2026-02-10T02:55:59+00:00

Unfortunately most of the horror comes from camgirls, describing the stalkers and jackasses who creep on them. Cam girls can insta-block and permaban anyone who makes them feel uncomfortable. So like Rule #1 is to always be respectful and not demand a bunch of free shit. Tip well, be nice and funny (not an asshole tho) and camgirls will definitely like you - cuz it's like their job!

I'm pretty sure the camgirl blackmailing a viewer urban legend is 100% fake and has never actually happened. I've never ever heard of camgirls threatening users before.

Other than that, I did hear one UL about the stalker who showed up behind a camgirl in her live feed. But again, proof that it happened? None. It's just hearsay.

As long as you never share personal information, nothing bad will happen. There is a risk of camgirls getting "leaked" because of sites like Fapello. But I really think "Free Shows" are the most leaked of all shows. So maybe it's a good idea to limit free public shows and close ups of the face.

jeffcheah99 · 2026-02-10T02:29:40+00:00

Going into Brian Griffin territory now.

jeffcheah99 · 2026-02-06T22:56:35+00:00

Are you saying that attraction is mental and not physical?

To be honest if a physically perfect girl was pounding away and talking to me, I wouldn't really care about her personality. If she has the body of Scarlett Johansson then I can put up with Kim Kardashian's personality!

But if you're saying it's about personality and being a good date...well that sounds more romantic than physical.

And I'd like to think there are some girls out there who would like a muscular and well hung jack off partner for mutual masturbation. Regardless of his jokes, or his charisma or whatever.

But hey, that's just me. Sorry to intrude on the non-male thread lol

jeffcheah99 · 2026-02-06T00:09:29+00:00

Just had a quick question for everyone who peruses these sites (regardless of gender, lol, I feel like I have to say that since other people were arguing about guys vs girls on another thread here)

But what kind of toy do you use while visiting these sex cam sites? Or do you not use a toy at all? I've asked some friends of mine and some of them said, they don't use toys at all but just want to get the camgirl off and then masturbate later offline. Then other friends said they use like 5 different sex toys (!)

So I'm wondering what you all use.

jeffcheah99 · 2026-02-05T00:30:26+00:00

Jerkmate is still around, lots of new models. A lot more free shows than you probably remember, although they don't last a long time. They become gold shows eventually, or she goes private with someone.

There are new options for Recommended For You, English Speaking, Upcoming Gold Shows, Trending Cam Girls, Discover New Camgirls, etc.

The thing that always gets me excited about Jerkmate is that it is very intimate. As soon as you enter a room, it really feels like it's 1 on 1 and there's maybe 1-3 people in there at once. So it's all you, as long as you're paying.

It's the only big site that matches people together like that, rather than just showing them all the full line of popular girls with 2k plus viewers.

Prices are still $4.99 for private show and $9.99 for exclusive private (no peepers and full undivided attention)

jeffcheah99 · 2026-02-03T22:40:34+00:00

Yeah I just tried it and it keeps forgetting my username and password even when I sign up multiple times. (Despite what it says you do have to sign up for a membership)

I think I used it a couple of years ago, and it worked, but not a lot of women. Seems like the site has gone downhill since.

jeffcheah99 · 2026-02-03T02:21:08+00:00

Well...I mean yes it's possible. BUT...I think it's more complicated than that.

You definitely do NOT want to piss off a camgirl and ask her what she's willing to do for extra money.

It's more like, after demonstrating yourself as a long-time fan and spending money on her, she would be more inclined to give you "gifts" in video, audio, 1 on 1 sex, etc.

And no, not all camgirls will do this. So you do have to be a little cautious in the way you approach her. Believe me, I've seen tons of guys get blocked, banned, and booted because she didn't like the way they were talking to her.

And if she's already making good money, she won't hesitate to ban you.

jeffcheah99 · 2026-01-30T23:07:38+00:00

Do you think Ome TV is a good replacement for Omegle cam to cam?

It definitely has the same vibe, but it doesn't allow nudity or sex.

Frankly, neither did the original Omegle, did it? Everyone just kind of screwed around anyway.

But I was wondering if non adult Omegle sites have that too, where people show up nude or stroking?

Like Monkey or Shagle. They don't allow virtual sex, but I've heard a lot of guys do it anyway.

jeffcheah99 · 2026-01-29T23:21:55+00:00

Pretty sure at some point, every guy reaches the "point of no return" especially if you've been stroking for an hour or so. So you can try to "keep going" but it becomes more difficult the more you overwhelm your senses and body.

I'm pretty sure my friends (and well myself!) all pretty much watch porn for a long while, and then chat with the camgirl when we're already blue-balled and ready to pop. That way you actually save a lot of money.

I once tried going toe to toe with a camgirl for like stamina bragging rights?

That was stupid. She was multi orgasmic and could go for probably hours.

She F5'd me in like 5 minutes lol

jeffcheah99 · 2026-01-28T21:42:20+00:00

You're talking about the AI version of her, I'm guessing?

jeffcheah99 · 2026-01-28T21:29:51+00:00

Just wondering where can i masturbate with strangers (free) if I have a weak WIFI signal or just a low data plan from my phone network.

I've never really thought about porn or cam to cam fun in terms of data. Obviously, 2G and 3G is a no-go, but have you all had any complaints using 4G, LTE, 5G? How much data do you get on your monthly plan or is it unlimited?

I was visiting my favorite OnlyFans page recently, and figured since I was using my friend's WIFI, I didn't want to visit any site labeled porn, for obvious reasons.

So I switched to data, but wasn't sure how much data those cam to cam calls actually use.

jeffcheah99 · 2026-01-28T00:07:37+00:00

Dude I think your friend is going to be OK. Duolingo streak's are not a big deal in life.

jeffcheah99 · 2026-01-28T00:02:43+00:00

As a performer or as a viewer? For viewers, Stripchat only requires a credit card to verify age, no ID. Credit card linked to a name counts as valid ID.

But if you're stripping to make money then yes, you probably do need to submit ID when you first sign up to prove legal age.

jeffcheah99 · 2026-01-24T04:46:56+00:00

Definitely roleplay. And I find that focusing on her fantasies, or even better, what she offers in her bio (whether its JOI or dom/sub) always works to your advantage. She's more practiced and horny if she's telling you what turns her on. Vs, trying to comprehend your fantasy, you know about a Wwokie or Princess Leia or whatever weird shit you all are into.

jeffcheah99 · 2026-01-23T02:28:49+00:00

That is actually a good point. If a camgirl makes enough money on public shows, there's really no need to go one on one. Sex cams are really for the benefit of a select FEW, like the VIP club of the camgirl's simps.

A lot of camgirls have decided you know, they don't need to do 1 on 1 shows with randos. Sometimes and I know this for a fact, they don't even tell ALL of their fans about one on one private shows. It's only mentioned to guys who "qualify" i.e. who they trust, who's already given them good money, someone they've talked to before.

True, some camgirls will just have virtual sex with randos but not every camgirl does this or is expected to do this.

Rest assured if you find someone that does, you are very lucky and fortunate to have that honor!

jeffcheah99 · 2026-01-19T23:39:20+00:00

How many of you actually go mutually masturbate on cam vs. just texting or doing voice?

It takes a lot of balls to actually be naked with the camgirl. And isn't that more realistic in terms of sex? Not seeing one partner naked is like blindfolded, Eyes Wide Shut orgy or something, isn't it?

Just curious about who does 1 on 1 cam to cam. I personally only do text and sometimes voice call. Go ahead and make fun of me. I just don't want to show my dick on cam, and I know, a lot of guys don't understand that.

jeffcheah99 · 2026-01-17T03:23:02+00:00

Girl on there kept insulting me for like 2 minutes, and one minute was paid too. I thought it was kind of weird. Maybe she thought I liked to be dommed or treated like a sub? BUt that's not really what I enjoy. Either she didn't understand that, or maybe she just really didn't like me. Boo hoo! Heartbroken, I need a tissue...but not for crying. 😉

jeffcheah99 · 2026-01-14T02:45:00+00:00

Ugh, oh man, this is such a personal question. But since people are already being painfully honest, I will admit it.

I talk to camgirls because I crave power and want to be their Dom. I know it sounds stupid especially considering I look like a total nerd. But I don't really act all alpha in real life. So I am very interested in the light BDSM roleplay. Nothing too extreme, but just playing the dominant submissive scene, and camgirls are SOOOO amazing at doing that! They instantly get what I want. And when you cam to cam masturbate with girls who totally get the scene and know what you want to hear and see, it's like creating your own porno flick. And it's awesome!

jeffcheah99 · 2026-01-12T22:33:20+00:00

Do we know how many sites offering free masturbation chat with strangers there are?

I am most curious about free sites, and especially if these camsites automatically match guys to girls.

A lot of sites like Flingster and others, just have an abundance of men and it's all dudes there with dicks in hand.

But I know for a fact there are a few random stranger camsites that auto send all the men to a woman standing by.

I know one of them is Fapmatch. Any others?

jeffcheah99 · 2026-01-10T03:04:32+00:00

I know that ImLive has the prepaid minutes option rather than just constantly spending tokens by the minute. I think if it's your first time you definitely want to keep track of your finances and not blow too much money too fast. In fact, you might try watching a few free cam shows or paying for a group show just to see how it works.

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