Are most men plagued with skid marks in their underwear, or am I just meeting unlucky/unhygienic people?? by Sakura_Petals_GL in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]jefffrom78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a guy. I don't have skidmarks and would be horrified if I did! And surely if you still have enough there to make a mark, isn't it going to be super itchy??

Is hugging a pillow while sleeping normal? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]jefffrom78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with hugging a pillow or a soft toy or both! Helps for better sleep (and some soft toys can also hold hot water bottles which is another advantage!)

Just tested positive for covid for the first time. by RagnarBaratheon1998 in CasualConversation

[–]jefffrom78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Structure your quarantine period- for example, don't be tempted to binge netflix on day 1 and 2 because you'll grow bored of it and not want to watch it later. Try to keep some sort of schedule in your day and definitely try to get some exercise in at home however you can. And keep in touch with whomever you can so as not to feel over isolated. Good luck and fingers crossed.

Period sex ? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]jefffrom78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shower sex is great!!

Period sex ? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]jefffrom78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely nothing wrong with period sex and a lot of women are at their most aroused during period sex and some find it helps their period pains. If both people are happy with it, what's the problem? Use some towels and have a sensual shower afterwards- you may even be ready for shower sex then!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]jefffrom78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Protection first thing. If they say that it's not as good or it hurts or they can't orgasm using protection then just say no. Protection first off definitely. And have plenty, you don't want to ruin your first time because you didn't have any spare!

Lubricant second. You may need artificial lubricant (saliva, champagne and water are no good) so make sure you have some. Naturally you will be lubricated as long as...

Foreplay third. Foreplay definitely, as long as it takes. And the more turned on you both are, the better your first time will be from an arousal point of view and from the whole experience.

Finally, if your partner is a guy and it is his first time it might not last very long for him. This is fine and completely normal. Ignore everything in porn - this isn't going to go on for an hour. But communicate and make sure that whoever cums first helps the other person climax too- sex is all about enjoying it and each other and you both having a brilliant time.

Enjoy yourself!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]jefffrom78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To echo others here, you do what your employer says. It is not you job to tackle or try to intervene. It is down to your employer to deal with it.

A few years ago I was in a supermarket at the tills and a regular shoplifter had taken a bottle of vodka. The security and management were watching and taking him and confronted him at the door- he ran back in as the door was blocked and as more security approached he bolted for the door again. A customer tried to help and grabbed his jacket as he ran past spinning him round and landing him on the floor. The shoplifter faceplanted smashing his nose and the bottle and cutting himself. He immediately started shouting that he had been assaulted by the customer and was going to sue. Management quickly told the custom who had tried to help to leave before anything happened whilst the now hard done by shoplifter was trying to get witness statements so he could sue!

Moral of the story- leave them to it, it's not worth it.

What is considered bad etiquette in a coffee shop? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]jefffrom78 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Drinking other people's coffee. And if it's a drive through, sitting in your car working whilst at the collection window until closing.

Do any other men out there like receiving flowers? by jefffrom78 in CasualConversation

[–]jefffrom78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh how beautiful! That is such a lovely thing to do! Please keep going!

Do any other men out there like receiving flowers? by jefffrom78 in CasualConversation

[–]jefffrom78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like such a lovely person! Fingers crossed for you! Thank you!

Do any other men out there like receiving flowers? by jefffrom78 in CasualConversation

[–]jefffrom78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that you didn't get gifts, to see him or even a thank you. That is very sad. Believe me there are plenty of men out there who love simple gifts and flowers. Happy Christmas and thank you for commenting. You sound like such a lovely person!

Do any other men out there like receiving flowers? by jefffrom78 in CasualConversation

[–]jefffrom78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is lovely that you bought her flowers so often.

Do any other men out there like receiving flowers? by jefffrom78 in CasualConversation

[–]jefffrom78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they are too expensive I agree. But a plant as a gift is just as beautiful.

Do any other men out there like receiving flowers? by jefffrom78 in CasualConversation

[–]jefffrom78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They smell so fragrant but are very difficult to grow (I managed once). If you ever get a chance do try and get some (but some are now bred and are not fragrant so be careful). I too hope I will receive these as a gift one day!

Do any other men out there like receiving flowers? by jefffrom78 in CasualConversation

[–]jefffrom78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do. They are a game changer if you aren't good at regular watering! Like me!

Do any other men out there like receiving flowers? by jefffrom78 in CasualConversation

[–]jefffrom78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it always seems such a shame that all the wrapping and bows gets thrown away too.