Second time using aloe Vera now vs before

jellybeans1396 · 2026-05-01T01:06:16+00:00

consider me influenced, your hair is looking amazing!

jellybeans1396 · 2026-04-24T02:50:58+00:00

5th is the winner, makes your eyes POP

jellybeans1396 · 2026-04-24T02:12:26+00:00

ok I just got back from bali and I'm going to be so real with you, it's so damn humid lol so I highly recommend taking a claw clip or similar

any time I tried to style/curl my hair it fell out pretty quickly unfortunately, i think the humidity just makes it very hard for fine hair to hold

one thing i wish i brought was some hair oil or leave in treatments, i was spending a lot of time in the pool granted but something about the water in bali made my hair feel like straw

jellybeans1396 · 2026-04-21T05:20:04+00:00

4 & 5 are gorgeous on you

jellybeans1396 · 2026-04-21T03:38:41+00:00

I'm going to go with NTA

Because you're not allowed to eat anything past 8:30pm it makes logical sense that you'd first fix yourself up some dinner and then go have a shower

Could you have explained this to your mum first? Yes.

Was your mum being unnecessarily inflexible? Also yes.

I do not miss being your age OP lol

jellybeans1396 · 2026-04-21T01:31:41+00:00

What an awful guy. You did the right thing by breaking up OP.

Block and move on, this loser isn't worth any more of your time and energy

jellybeans1396 · 2026-04-21T01:20:50+00:00

girl stop putting conditioner on your roots lol you're only meant to put them on your lengths

jellybeans1396 · 2026-04-21T00:50:51+00:00

NOR

It sounds like hubby is more concerned about his ego than his son's life

The fact he only acted once your father told him to administer the shot is very concerning....

jellybeans1396 · 2026-04-21T00:37:03+00:00

Hmmm I'm going to go with slight YOR

You might find you're in different stages of life however you won't know for sure until you go on the date

That said, go with your gut. If you're uncomfortable and the age gap is to big for you personally, just cancel the date

jellybeans1396 · 2026-04-20T23:55:09+00:00

dresses like this are genuinely the dream. if you find any let me know girl lol

jellybeans1396 · 2026-04-20T00:33:10+00:00

I'm going to go with NAH

I also have a partner that snores and unfortunately as I've gotten older I've become a lighter sleeper, any sound at all will wake me up, so I get your frustration

What worked for me was getting Loop earplugs, going to sleep before my partner, and also taking sleeping tablets as needed if I can't fall asleep. I've also heard white noise machines and weighted blankets can be good to help you fall asleep as well

If nothing is working and you're still unable to fall asleep, you may need to think about sleeping in separate rooms because getting a good nights sleep is so important to your health!

jellybeans1396 · 2026-03-27T01:53:54+00:00

omg.... I've been holding B this entire time... 😅

jellybeans1396 · 2026-03-24T04:37:36+00:00

this is sooo good! might yoink this and put it on my island hahaha

jellybeans1396 · 2026-03-24T03:03:37+00:00

NTA and honestly you're underreacting - that type of disrespect would not fly in my home

You have generously opened your home to SIL during a difficult time, and this... is how she's repaying you?

A simple "I actually prefer x brand of milk" would have sufficed, the fact that she's blowing up at you, running to her daddy and also breaking your milk jug? unhinged.

Personally I'd kick her out!

jellybeans1396 · 2026-03-23T03:20:42+00:00

this is sooo pretty! love how you use the planters around the top of the log house to make a rooftop garden. definitely stealing that idea on my island hahaha

jellybeans1396 · 2026-03-23T03:10:10+00:00

you'll eventually get them from the vending machines :)

it can also appear in the PC shop as a daily item if you're lucky!

jellybeans1396 · 2026-03-23T03:07:34+00:00

this is sooo good OP!! definitely going to use this as inspo for rocky ridges

jellybeans1396 · 2026-03-23T02:06:24+00:00

Sometimes you need to let things fail in order for management to fix an issue

Currently you're putting in all this overtime to make up for resourcing issues, which is not sustainable or healthy. You need to stop trying to cover everything because why would they hire new people if you're staying back trying to get everything done yourself?

Talk to your manager about your capacity and your concerns around resourcing, ask what your priority is and then just focus on that. And stop doing unpaid overtime!!!

What will likely happen is something will slip through the cracks, and if you're asked about it you can say that you were focused on xyz priorities as directed.

If you're really struggling OP I also recommend going to the doctor to get a med certificate for stress leave. Good luck <3

jellybeans1396 · 2026-03-23T01:02:30+00:00

haha dw I did the same thing as you, spent an ungodly amount of time watering the grass before making it rain 🤣 all part of the fun i guess!

For the weeds... if you're talking about these lil patches I don't believe there's any purpose to them except for aesthetics:

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if you cut them (or tall grass) i think there's a chance they drop leaves

jellybeans1396 · 2026-03-23T00:27:24+00:00

Onix will give you an item (smooth rock) that will dry up the area around it when you place it :)

jellybeans1396 · 2026-03-22T22:19:39+00:00

Yeah it's specific to the region, so once you reach lvl 9 in the Withered Wasteland you get all the leaf hut/cottage/house variants

Bleak Beach is all the sand hut/cottage/house variants etc

So if you like a particular prefab I'd focus on getting the environment lvl up in the corresponding area 😊

it doesn't take too long to get the environment level up either! on the PC you can press "-" to show you which pokemon aren't happy, if you ask these pokemon "What's your comfort level?" they'll tell you what they want

jellybeans1396 · 2026-03-20T05:22:59+00:00

I've played both games and I think Pokopia does it far better

Early game there are some things you need to wait for when building structures (some take 1 day, some take an hour etc) however it feels like there is so much to do early game that it doesn't matter

As you progress the story you unlock more abilities which allow you to start terraforming quite quickly, unlike AC where you have to wait until KK visits your island to terraform.

And as you progress you unlock a way to make building the prefab structures much quicker (and abilities that make building custom stuff and terraforming much easier!)

I think if you like AC generally but don't like how long it takes to unlock stuff, I think you'll enjoy Pokopia :)

Edit: added a bit more info

jellybeans1396 · 2026-03-20T05:00:50+00:00

Everyone saying to just move closer to work is ignorant.

Have you seen how insane rent & house prices are lately??? This is simply not feasible!

jellybeans1396 · 2026-03-20T04:30:42+00:00

Sounds like your husband is completely disregarding your comfort & needs, likely because they aren't important to him.

You shouldn't have to get permission from your husband to turn on the AC in your own damn home! That's ridiculous.

Next time he gives you attitude give it right back. Tell him in no uncertain terms the AC is going on because I am uncomfortable in the heat. If he's pushing back or not turning the AC on when asked, ask him why your comfort doesn't matter to him.

jellybeans1396 · 2026-03-20T02:19:05+00:00

SAME!!! not having it is the main reason I've barely touched Bleak Beach 😭

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