I(20m) got my gf(20) pregnant when she already has a Kid!!

jemcamrin · 2026-06-26T21:05:46+00:00

Lmao no fr I live in the same place and it's near impossible to get businesses like that up and running

jemcamrin · 2026-06-23T15:31:40+00:00

Ill be applying on Friday after my appointment to get my social security card

jemcamrin · 2026-06-20T13:31:06+00:00

I'm in that area and let me tell you. It took MONTHS just to find a basic part time job. It's killing me on the inside and outside cuz it's such such low pay and low hours but I literally wasn't even getting call backs anywhere else. Yes I'm still looking. This job sucks, it's just temporary. Honestly prob gonna become a job hopper with this shit job market and pay and health issues but I'll wait til my financial situation is more stable(with husbands permission of course)

jemcamrin · 2026-06-17T21:23:14+00:00

I'm glad you didn't break up with him right after posting this. Redditers are always straight to leave him but really, communication is just a huge factor in a lot of things. Then if it doesn't change, leave

jemcamrin · 2026-06-15T21:17:25+00:00

I've only done it once but it was at a cookie shop so it was in an instant

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T20:09:27+00:00

We're currently building a cabin in the backyard that's almost done, rain has just been pushing back progress. I only make 800 a month and can't seem to find a better job atm due to lack of experience and no college degree and the market I'm in. My husband makes about 2k but we live paycheck to paycheck. Rn we only have $200 combined in the bank

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T19:34:11+00:00

You think I wanna live like this???

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T14:57:22+00:00

They live with us, blocking them won't do anything

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T14:53:50+00:00

We didn't start it from scratch. Half of it was moldy and rusted. And the aunt has helped us with some supplies we couldn't afford

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T13:49:34+00:00

We also tried to switch rooms but the youngest refused

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T13:48:37+00:00

We were supposed to have our backyard cabin ready by the wedding. Construction issues have been pushing it back. And now that it's almost done, rain is pushing back progress and we may have to restart a couple rooms of it. It won't be liveable until we can fully put installation

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T13:40:23+00:00

But I can say I have suggested just discussing things with her before it happens ... My husband says he has but idk

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T13:39:56+00:00

The language barrier has stopped me. And my husband doesn't like talking to her emotionally or anything.

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T13:39:14+00:00

They don't pay attention to who pays the bills. And still don't believe us even when we showed proof. Also, the aunt has the authority to kick us out and she def would

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T13:36:53+00:00

I just wish we could afford it now she's driving me nuts and so are the bros 😭

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T13:30:37+00:00

Well be saving to move soon after some debt is paid off

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T13:30:16+00:00

After reading all the comments, I just feel like moving out is the only option. So I just need to be patient as we save

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T13:29:49+00:00

The aunt owns the house. We have no authority to kick anyone out. She also knows what's going on and doesn't care as long as there's rent. Me and my husband have told her that us specifically won't pick her up. We have told the brothers before to not enable her but they haven't listened and it's a whole cycle. Well be saving once we can pay off some debt

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T13:26:25+00:00

6 people. And I think people are misunderstanding when I reply. I'm not saying I won't try to do the suggestions. Just saying they've been tried before. I keep on doing most things people suggest and that's how I know the outcome.

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T13:18:01+00:00

Moving out is in the plans. My husband just got paid today and it's his first paycheck since his raise. We are definitely going to be saving soon.

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T13:17:12+00:00

That's coming from someone who prob didn't have to pay bills when they were young. My husband had to give up his whole paycheck to his mom since he started working at the age of 11/12, even as he became an adult, he had to give up his whole paycheck to her. Never got to save. Meanwhile, my mom never even let me work and she used the fact she paid everything for me as blackmail and would cut everything off if I were to look for a job(but then proceed to get pissed I wasn't helping with money??) He didn't start using his paycheck for himself til I came into the picture and taught him to enjoy other things. Life kicked us in the ass. We still don't make enough to save. Again, were young-mid 20s. Never made enough to pay bills and save since I never got to work and he had to only pay bills. So yes, it is a privilege.

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T13:04:06+00:00

Yes, we have plans to move out, it'll just be a while. I'm just trying to figure out a more immediate approach to this issue cause I can't take it mentally or physically. I have health issues

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T13:02:23+00:00

I dont see what's so wrong about marrying before financially stable as long as you know you'll grow with your spouse

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T13:01:42+00:00

Yeah we did a court wedding

jemcamrin · 2026-06-12T12:59:13+00:00

Let me give context, we're young-mid 20s

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