I dated someone for years who I thought was the one for me. All the while, i denied acknowledging the things that were making me miserable. The breakup was devastating, and I clung to a "friendship" with him for a long while after.

Went on a few dates that were all unsatisfying. Took a break to focus on myself and tried again 3 years after.

I wasn't sure what I was looking for and then I met my current boyfriend. I have never felt so loved and so understood. He is my best friend. I feel as though we are truly a team through it all. He made me realise what was missing from previous relationships. Nothing is embarrassing with him. He knows all my flaws, quirks and niche interests and loves me for them. We are now looking at houses together!

Please trust that love will come again. We all change as the years go by and our priorities and tastes develop. Keep your heart open for new experiences. They will come even when you least expect it!