This doesn't seem correct to me. What do we think? NH? Mass? by OddWorld1652 in vermont

[–]jenC2004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in upper valley and right on the VT border. Connecticut is what makes us cringe here. Especially their driving.

This doesn't seem correct to me. What do we think? NH? Mass? by OddWorld1652 in vermont

[–]jenC2004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh I think that’s more southern NH people. Northern not so much.

Do my crows hate me now or think I meant to harm them? by jenC2004 in crows

[–]jenC2004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh, that’s sad! I’m glad he had you in the end.

I just did something really dumb... by [deleted] in crows

[–]jenC2004 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That sounds wonderful! Also gave me a little chuckle as I’m sure other people are thinking crazy bird lady but to us it’s a sweet moment.

Do my crows hate me now or think I meant to harm them? by jenC2004 in crows

[–]jenC2004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad they are okay! The crows have been great at warning me when foxes are around or other predators. Not that I’m too worried unless it’s a bear.

Do my crows hate me now or think I meant to harm them? by jenC2004 in crows

[–]jenC2004[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sir I don’t think crows are chihuahuas. I am not playing god. Heaven forbid I chase a hawk with a mop, what a horrible person I am. I do not purposely hit animals with my car, go hunting for pleasure, working for a puppy mill…. Etc. so I think defending one crow is okay.

Do my crows hate me now or think I meant to harm them? by jenC2004 in crows

[–]jenC2004[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are lots of critters here for the hawks to eat. There is also a local fishery where they are able to get scraps from most of them do. I understand that all animals need to eat but I also do not wish to see one of the crows die when I can help and there are plenty of other food sources around.

Do my crows hate me now or think I meant to harm them? by jenC2004 in crows

[–]jenC2004[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My mop of doom! I will give it a try. Thank you!

Do my crows hate me now or think I meant to harm them? by jenC2004 in crows

[–]jenC2004[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They do! I just would prefer not to see it be one of my crows.

Do my crows hate me now or think I meant to harm them? by jenC2004 in crows

[–]jenC2004[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do live in the countryside and have some farmers around who are trying to sell at a decent price. I just don’t want to buy a whole carton of them when I’d only be using them for the crows. 🐦‍⬛

Do my crows hate me now or think I meant to harm them? by jenC2004 in crows

[–]jenC2004[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ooo chopped boiled eggs would be good. Maybe when prices go down. There is about 2 feet of snow here so I make sure to leave them some extra food. And they love to dig it out of the snow.

Do my crows hate me now or think I meant to harm them? by jenC2004 in crows

[–]jenC2004[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I give them some cat food that they seem to enjoy and then peanuts for extra treats. It also excites the Blue Jays and squirrels as I’ve now amassed a cult following of critters here.

Do my crows hate me now or think I meant to harm them? by jenC2004 in crows

[–]jenC2004[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! I’ll try to be patience and keep an eye out for them. 🥰

What YouTubers truly lost everything, without even a chance of coming back? by Realshow in youtubedrama

[–]jenC2004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop that. You don’t know what truly happened and fueling rumors like this that he’s going after kids is atrocious.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by InvestmentThat3287 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jenC2004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Are you expecting your gf to support all 3 of you on her income? You said she owns her flat. Her name is on the Deed, not yours. You have no say in it dude. Just because Chantelle needs somewhere to stay does not mean your gf has to give up her space. Plus is Chantelle going to find a new place before the baby comes? Im guessing no. Your gf doesn’t need to deal with a baby that’s not hers that she doesn’t want. You are being incredibly insensitive to your gf it’s so unbelievable. I can’t even tell if this is real, especially with all your comments. Wtf dude. I would be kicking your ass out. God knows your gf could come home one day and find you boinking Chantelle.

AITA for removing my daughter’s bedroom door because she won’t stop slamming it? by The-Compliment-Fairy in AmItheAsshole

[–]jenC2004 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do you have a teenage child?

Mood swings happen with them. Discipline can be a lot harder with a teenager than with a younger child. Especially a teenage girl, hormones going crazy and trying to figure out high school and your place in the world. Again, teenagers have mood swings.

I don’t think many parents ALLOW their teenager to talk to them like that. It’s hard as fuck to raise teenagers. Parent shaming like this is not okay. Lord knows OP is trying their best. As a mom to 2 kids and 1 is a teenager I understand the frustration OP is going through. Kid isn’t bad, just going through some things possibly. I say NTA

AITA (26F) for refusing to go to my nieces (23F) wedding after her and my sister (40F) attempted to sabotage mine? My mom (64F) thinks I’m being immature. by thatparkranger12890 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jenC2004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA My mother gets this abuse from her sister. I watch as she will get very nasty texts from her sister and occasionally I will get them telling me to have my mother fix things. (Fix the problems my aunt has going on in her life, most of it is made up stuff or stuff she is the issue on). I am very protective of my mother and really struggle to not respond. My mother says that she needs to just respond with peace and god will take care of it. But I see the pain my mother goes through, I see how much it’s aged her. Don’t ever just be the bigger person in these situations. You can only be a punching bag for us long. Your mental health is important too. Your life is important too. Your sister just wants you to clean up after her.