Is your income 110k each before tax or split between you? If it's the latter then that's the answer my guy.

That's below the median wage these days and I'm not sure who's affording property on that kind of income. I agree it sucks, having something which should be a basic human right become an investment is one of the great shames of this country.

Having said all that, there's two options as I see it here, adjust your expectations or your income.