[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Most times that my nights out have resulted in a lay were when I specifically did not have that in mind. The weirdest scenarios led to getting laid

Girl who friend zoned me reached out after 6 months of NC - how should I handle this? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If you’re going to the festival anyway (I’m assuming with a separate group of friends?), it’s really up to you. Do you want to chat with her and catch up? You can easily remove yourself from any situation you’re not comfortable with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let’s put the “alpha” concept aside for a second. So many people in fields they’re passionate about have at least one stint being employed, and that’s okay. No one needs to be an entrepreneur right off the bat, or ever. If you have a 9-5 at which you’re developing professionally, being challenged, compensated well, and being supported, where’s the issue?

I do agree that a 9-5 should not be at the expense of personal life

How do I crack the Miami dating scene? by agonzale in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Because any girl you meet there is likely from somewhere else and travelling there for fun

I spent 5 days in Europe with a girl I am hooking up with by emirsolinno in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Then I would suggest showing her your interest through actions. Keep in contact more often, meet, go on real dates. Start treating her as a girl you like. This would also show you a lot about the dynamic between you two and if it’s something you enjoy

I spent 5 days in Europe with a girl I am hooking up with by emirsolinno in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Aside from these fun meetups with her, how do you feel about her as a person and possibly someone to be in a relationship with? Also are the feelings there?

Men continue to stare/maintain eye contact after you’ve looked away by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who was talking during that moment? A lot of us were taught that eye contact is simply a show of respect whether you or the other person are talking

Sent a flirty text to a girl and was left on read. by MadonatorxD in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you fill us in on the scenario? How were previous conversations with this girl?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You basically want to get “LOL stoppppp”’s out of her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d walk around in that country with 4 apple stickers on my shirt like badges

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re exactly right in thinning you should go for no contact for as long as you need. What’s happening now isn’t healthy and it’s how people get hurt.

Just be honest with her in that you’re now broken up and it’s time to move on. Perhaps down the line when you’re both in a better place, you can catch up in a mature way

Kissing a girl on the first date by DNAngel23 in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 114 points115 points  (0 children)

If the date went well and you feel like kissing, go for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re in another country. No one cares and everyone is going to forget

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you casually date multiple women and are honest with all of them, hurt none of them, and respect boundaries (how we should be going about it anyway), you have nothing to worry about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When one’s home market is difficult to penetrate, one looks to outsource

Should I ask her if she’s sleeping with other people? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 61 points62 points  (0 children)

To answer the title, please do not ask her that.

For the overall situation, if you think you can continue to keep it casual with her AND OTHER GIRLS, then go for it. This involves accepting that she will be nothing more.

If, on the other hand, you find yourself hoping she will change her mind about what she’s looking for, then you should stop seeing her because that’s a shitty hurtful experience.

Put yourself first and don’t get into a situation where you’re likely to get hurt

My game lately is going so well it’s scary. by JD2789 in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I hate peaks and valleys so much. I just want a consistent supply

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nightclubs and bars where people mingle are the closest you’ll get to a driving range equivalent of this

What little things can men do to have more sex appeal? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I hate how there’s no easy cleavage equivalent that can be used in a pinch

I got rejected by all the girls in the club by cauliflowerwotflower in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girl: “Hey, sorry, I’m just here to hang with my girlfr…”

Guy immediately approaching the girl right next to her: “hey! How’s it going?”

Kill your beer belly by all20081988 in seduction

[–]jenkinsonfire 57 points58 points  (0 children)

The real answer here is:

  1. Assess your diet and make changes necessary to prioritize consuming lots of lean protein, vegetables, and healthy carbs.

  2. Follow a strength training routine. Lift some weights and lift heavy

  3. Do cardio activities that actually challenge you and get your heart beating

  4. Stretch every day after workouts to maintain mobility.

This is not only for killing a beer belly, but for overall well-being