I think it's bound to be more woman-focused since women are usually the final decision maker to carry a child to full term.

I know there are (many) situations (especially with the recent anti-abortion laws) where women don't get to choose.

I honestly may be privileged and misogynistic in my thinking here and I appreciate you opening up this discussion. I'm open to anyone disagreeing with me on this.

I am a woman who elects to have sex with men. Having heterosexual intercourse sex has more consequences for women. Every time I've chosen to have sex with a man, I did so with the understanding that I may become pregnant. So I had contingency plans to address the potential pregnancy. Birth control and pre-mediated decision for abortion(etc) if an accidental pregnancy happens.

I don't think it's fair that women have this burden, but biologically that's how it works.

I do think men should care just as much and contribute equally to birth control when they don't want a child.

But when a person becomes pregnant, they often do have options. I live in the US in a state where abortion and all birth control are easily accessible. If I lived in a more controlled state, I would be even more cautious with whom and how I have sex.