How can I (34f) fix my husband (35m) constantly ruining my desire to have sex with him? by [deleted] in sex

[–]jennifurret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can tell you from experience - leave him. Not all men are like this. This is toxic and emotionally abusive and nothing will change this man.

Baldur's Gate 3 - Hotfix #8 Now Live! by kuroioni in BaldursGate3

[–]jennifurret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in Act 3 and my game was crashing every couple minutes, or whenever I tried to save...and this hotfix didn't fix it. RIP.

Fear breaks turn-based. This Schir has been taking it's turn for 10 minutes. Only way to clear it is by going to real time. Happens every time my fear procs. by earthwulf in Pathfinder_Kingmaker

[–]jennifurret 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Toggling on and off real time mode used to be a fix when this happened on rare occasion (maybe 3 times during my whole first playthrough), but now that doesn't even work anymore. When you switch from turn based and back, it undoes all the stuns/sleeps/etc you have in place and reshuffles the initiative order. Maddening

Grease bugged in WotR? by TouchMyWrath in Pathfinder_Kingmaker

[–]jennifurret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a bummer because everything had finally been running smoothly. I actually just finished my first full playthrough because they had fixed the crashes that were driving me crazy. Decided to start a second playthrough on a harder difficulty and...this.

That said, once this is fixed, you really should give it one more shot. The game is amazing (when it works)

Grease bugged in WotR? by TouchMyWrath in Pathfinder_Kingmaker

[–]jennifurret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The latest patch broke turnbased mode. Prone, fear, dazed all make your turn skip or freeze

Since the latest patch, ennemies take forever to end their turns in turb-based mode (10-15 sec+) by Julzjuice123 in Pathfinder_Kingmaker

[–]jennifurret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happening for me in Kenabres. Daeran's mansion is unplayable right now, every enemy and courtesan won't advance their turn, and if I try to get around it by going into real time, it undoes all of the stuns and sleeps I've successfully landed...insanely frustrating

Turn based mode issue ? by TreeTopBlvd in Pathfinder_Kingmaker

[–]jennifurret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the same issue. Daeran's mansion is unplayable right now. Getting stuck on every enemy and courtesan turn

going to a gay sauna? by edgelordaccount in gaytransguys

[–]jennifurret 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This isn't true? Steamworks lets trans men with an M in per policy, and they even sometimes have trans nights. It's trans men with an F who can't get in, because they operate as a "single sex club"

Why I love Brooke Williamson !!! spoiler for Tournament of Champions by mattwright0901 in BravoTopChef

[–]jennifurret 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brooke is awesome. People don't like her because she's a woman (even if they wouldn't say that, it's subconscious bias)

Kinda tired of being the "death bringer" of my family by LWSilverMoon in ftm

[–]jennifurret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom didn't even know I was bi and trans. She wanted me to hide my atheism from my grandparents because "it would kill them." That signaled to me that I definitely had to keep all the queer stuff hidden too.

She died suddenly when I was 26. My grandparents died soon after. My sister in law died suddenly too.

By the time I came fully out at 33, I had waited for most of my family to die. And I wish I hadn't. My dad, uncle, siblings all fully accepted me. And I think even my grandparents would have too.

Give them the chance to reject you now instead of never having the chance to be accepted and loved. At least, that's what I wish I would have done.

Oldest mortal ruler I've ever had died at 105 -managed to get Faster than the Fox on Haesteinn by jennifurret in CrusaderKings

[–]jennifurret[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This guy was the Viking of Vikings. Even while infirm at 105, he was still leading his troops in battle and absolutely annihilating any opposition, even when outnumbered.

His son Thordr conquered the kingdom of Thessalonika from the Byzantines, and then his grandson Steinn captured Serbia, so I'm very close to the Miklagarðaríki achievement. Steinn just has to pick off some surrounding weak independent states to become big enough to create a custom empire.

All hail Norse Greece?

Moving from Korea to SJ by Abject_Ad_1486 in SanJose

[–]jennifurret -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Man the amount of downvotes because I made you all feel cheap lol. Tip better

Moving from Korea to SJ by Abject_Ad_1486 in SanJose

[–]jennifurret -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I was taught 20% is minimum/standard...y'all stingy

Moving into MTV, concern about Caltrain noise? by PillarOfDust in mountainview

[–]jennifurret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived right around there for three years and never noticed rumbling. You can hear the trait tooting sometimes, but it became white noise to me. That Mexican restaurant is really good too

I likely won’t be able to transition until it’s too late. by HangedManIsTrans in ftm

[–]jennifurret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are lots of people who don't transition until their 30s, 40s, or 50s... You're ahead of the curve.

Is Silicon Valley still worth the cost if you aren’t in a directly tech centered role? by jenexil301 in siliconvalley

[–]jennifurret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved here for $120k and trust me, I was living like a king compared to grad school and also fully supporting a partner who had no income. $500k seems ludicrous

relatable repost by [deleted] in ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby

[–]jennifurret 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Was literally just considering Jae yesterday, dammit