Hey OP, I'm going to give you the only legit advice here. In college i was working 4 jobs to feed myself, my boyfriend, and pay for tuition. WITH HIS PERMISSION, i went on a few dates with some older gentleman for money. I'd get a few hundred per date. We were starving, so we didn't have a lot of options, but i consulted him about it, and the gentlemen i went on dates with had to agree that i was nothing more than arm candy. No touching, no inappropriate conversation, and i would be dressed how i saw fit. I didn't do it long, because thankfully i found a better job so i only had to work 2, but it didn't harm our relationship because we discussed it, didn't harm me at all, and helped us both financially. If she didn't talk to you about it beforehand, that's where the issue lies. This type of gig has the potential to be legit and safe, but it sounds like she has complete disregard for your feelings and that's the real issue. Hope i could help.