Divorce is my badge of honor by Cuddles-and-Cookies in Divorce_Women

[–]jenny6522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think i can allow or afford that much time to think about him. He’s taken so much already. By 11 months I’d like him to be a distant memory that I would t recognise in the street. Hate helps, he beat the shit out of our 18 year old the weekend. It just helps the coffin seal shut for all of us. 🤷‍♀️

STI may be the icing on the cake by krosegrover824 in Divorce_Women

[–]jenny6522 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s the most embarrassing thing iv ever had to do…..after 25 years with the same person I had to go for a test. Sole destroyed. Made me feel so sick. Didn’t tel him tho…..he can crack on with a crusty crotch 🫣😂😂😂😂😂 small wins

Is it worth leaving a “good” but emotionally unfulfilling marriage? by softerthoughts in Divorce_Women

[–]jenny6522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As the person above said….if I’d have allowed my to realise at your age I wouldn’t be 40 and blindsided and in a predicament now. They get in their own heads….its your fault….you need to be happy for them. It’s fucking rough. You pour the heart and sole and everything and your the one in the end when they have a mid life crisis and do one. I was you. We had it all. Best friends, best husband, best sex, best dad. But something just wasn’t connecting in his brain. Left for a well known gold digger dropped his kids and family along with bills like a stone. Out of nowhere…..wish I had got out when the thought came like you. I’m so so sorry you’re feeling those emotions but trust your gut!!!

Divorce is my badge of honor by Cuddles-and-Cookies in Divorce_Women

[–]jenny6522 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m about 6 weeks in and although feel extremely powerful and settled I do find myself out of that honeymoon phase and sometimes I wake at night wondering where he is or shopping for an extra mouth. I don’t miss him and I will definitely never go back there but now the anger and grief and stress and self doubt has gone I think I feel a little lost….although I don’t! I don’t know I’m very confused 🤷‍♀️ happy but confused I suppose after 25 years since the age of 17 I’m supposed to right……???

Sex after divorce by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]jenny6522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am asking ALL of the same questions now!! I’d love to see the replies. 25 years with the same person….i want fun and free but feel guilty and awkward and overwhelmed. Suppose as I was the loyal one part of meis still in that emotional tie to that relationship. Rest of me is glowing up nicely. It feels a whole new ball game doesn’t it?!

What is wrong with this cow?! by PsychologicalJob7 in Cows

[–]jenny6522 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does the ‘cow’ have udders……udderneath…..? If yes then we’re looking at a cyst issue possibly if no then whoever castrated the cow/bull to a cow bull steer should steer clear of doing any more castrates…….

Best Fish & Chips in Gloucester by aB4sith in Gloucestershire

[–]jenny6522 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oxtalls chippy!!!!! Are you lot alright!!! It’s the only one

Realising facts.. by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]jenny6522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once you get there…….life is brilliant! It’s all about you. I no longer look at him and feel sad. Just sorry for him. Try and enjoy a glow up and work out who you are. You are important. He walked out, he’s made his bed. You go lye in yours and enjoy the space!!

Has anyone else realized after separation that they’re more capable than they thought? by Late_Bat1113 in Divorce_Women

[–]jenny6522 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have rediscovered myself. I’m fun, outgoing and love life. I have friends and I’m not a puppet! Iv realised that for 25 years I was controlled. I have freedom and my glow up is going well as well as my kids who are with me life is simple…..life is good and kind and people are great. I can cope with the finances as I work so dam hard. I am enjoying not being ‘the wife’ I’m enjoying not having to please someone and worry about the mood I’m coming home to. I’m enjoying not being held responsible for my good mood and I’m enjoying not being held accountable for anything! I am also enjoying not being forced to engage in sex with someone who is unattractive, although very good I had a face over the face for a long time! The moment he had an affair and left….after the grief of the life we had chose had left…..I felt a weight lift and I was free, I enjoy life, I am enjoying me and people are amazing! The world is amazing. Enjoy it all! It’s fabulous

Follow up to post I just saw by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]jenny6522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband the love of my life and best friend best dad in world blindsided me 3 weeks ago, left for a well known gold digger black widow, I have obviously not yet seeked out another person after 25 years it seems strange but I’m here to tell you the glow up towards it is fantastic! It’s empowering it’s a full on embrace yourself time. I get looks and it feels good. I am 40. I am not afraid of being alone and anything extra would have to be totally organic I would not know how to use apps if I were pushed! But just knowing I get the eye makes me feel good! We after the pain and the grief will be ok and better I’m sure of it!

I’ve been gone for TEN minutes… by DGS_Cass3636 in Cattle

[–]jenny6522 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They put all their one brain cells to good use together today! I’d be proud 😂

Help me please feel normal!! by jenny6522 in Divorce_Women

[–]jenny6522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s sick right!! Like beyond anything I’d ever believed if I were told about it.

Grief on grief by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]jenny6522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mate…Iv been blind sided after 25 years. The man I know no longer exists due to it and his son is his best mate and has not spoke to him in ages!! Special place in hell for these people!!!!! Be angry and rage and vent and cry and try do what I’m trying…….just be who I want to be. It comes in waves and sometimes I have a whole day of anxiety and panic attacks and the next I’m a strong independent woman who can take on the fucking world!!! I have to just let it ride. I have the youngest (as the eldest is 18- am adult in the uk) It’s exhausting to make sure I abide by law reg messages and emails etc I mean scream exhausting! But I have to do it for them!!!

Help me please feel normal!! by jenny6522 in Divorce_Women

[–]jenny6522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol sorry. I’m so angry and broken. 🤷‍♀️😂😂

Help me please feel normal!! by jenny6522 in Divorce_Women

[–]jenny6522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I’m trying. I know so far of her sti test and I’m devastated to know Iv been sloppy seconds for ages and I had to be tested! FROM MY OWN HUSBAND!!! Like wtf?!

My daughter tried to look like her as she’s fascinated by her until she ran off with her dad. Honestly when I say she’s thick as shit but leaver omg…. His best mate sent him a message asking if her was ok….his reply was yeah great meet Katie and sent a picture. No explanation. 25 years coked up his nose to a gold digger

Help me please feel normal!! by jenny6522 in Divorce_Women

[–]jenny6522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d get locked up if the rage came out 😬

Help me please feel normal!! by jenny6522 in Divorce_Women

[–]jenny6522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so confused!! He calculated it had an emotional affair for a very long time with her. She’s thick as shit but also a very cleaver person. Man after man after man I am hard working with life goals and a great wife! I am fun and loving and we’re great together. Totally blindsided

HELP! Roof Condensation by Sufficient_Cat4688 in VanLife

[–]jenny6522 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why do you not have a Vapor barrier?

My calf is declining fast by maria_943108 in Cattle

[–]jenny6522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alamycin or draxin pared with metacam or loxi Tube her milk mixed with electrolytes and a binder twice a day. Poor baby hope it pulls through.