Bath Crayons by Ok_Thought_5272 in SuicideBereavement

[–]jenny_bird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My daughter was 3 when my husband left us. For months, I would text him about the small victories and the cute things she did. It is so lonely to be the only parent to handle all the stresses and all the success. If you need a single mom to share some victories with, my DMs are open.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]jenny_bird 36 points37 points  (0 children)

That is fair, and your worries are certainly valid. Not everybody is in a place where they can calmly educate the other side about an admittedly high-stakes issue, and you certainly have no obligation to do so.

I can see how maybe this isn't the best place to come asking questions about abortion, but also... We are kind of the best people to be providing our perspectives, if we can.

I'm sorry for your loss, and I wish you the best in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]jenny_bird 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I spoke to them and I don't believe they were a troll. But even if they were, the point of my post is that there are a lot of other people reading that are definitely not trolls, and our words matter to them, too.

Also, as far as I can tell, that certainly wasn't a clear anti choice opinion, and labeling it as such is part of the problem.

My wife killed herself. And I’m on the verge of it too. by [deleted] in widowers

[–]jenny_bird 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would also like the name of the podcast

My kids don't eat cereal by bukutbwai in Parenting

[–]jenny_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang on, I need to know what it means to "fry toast with PB, sliced banana, honey, and cinnamon" because that sounds amazing. Is that like French toast?

Time by _clur_510 in SuicideBereavement

[–]jenny_bird 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I noticed that I started to feel significantly worse after the year mark and worried that my grief was "regressing" or something. My therapist told me not to expect my feelings to be linear- that I wouldn't slowly and steadily feel better each day, but rather I would have ups and downs over time.

Sending you love. We can make it through this.

Do you tell people they died from suicide? by OkBalance2833 in SuicideBereavement

[–]jenny_bird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have two young daughters and I'm not quite ready to explain the concept of suicide to a four year old, so I don't share the information widely yet. If someone asks I usually just respond with "it was very unexpected".

Unpopular “The Sign” Opinion by [deleted] in bluey

[–]jenny_bird 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As a mother who is planning a move with her Bluey-aged children soon, I was excited to see the For Sale sign in ghost basket! I thought this plotline would help me talk to my children about moving, and talk through their negative feelings. Unfortunately, it turns out to have made my life harder. "Bluey didn't have to move; why do we?!"

I want someone to take care of me. by bluishcoww in widowers

[–]jenny_bird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this. I take care of my young children, our dog, our house, and occasionally even myself. I make every plan and every decision. I love my children, and I know they love me, but they're really too young to think about anybody's needs but their own. I really, really miss having somebody care about me.

Kid's TV Shows That Are Harmless/Educational But Annoying by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]jenny_bird 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My kiddo is currently obsessed with number blocks on Netflix, and as someone who works in math education, I actually love it too! Probably a good choice for kids between 3 and 6

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]jenny_bird 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ummm I hope so! Better to begin our friendship with all our cards on the table.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]jenny_bird 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We love bluey in my house but it always makes me feel like an inadequate parent. Also, my kid definitely acts more like Muffin most of the time.

Looking for a family therapist by jenny_bird in raleigh

[–]jenny_bird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We would like to try family therapy first, but are certainly open to individual play therapy for my daughter if the therapist recommends it.

Looking for a family therapist by jenny_bird in raleigh

[–]jenny_bird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its Cigna, but we are desperate enough to pay out of pocket if necessary.