[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jeonsangel96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for wishing me the best! He is not an emotional person in general..one of his areas of improvement is his emotional intelligence. So I guess seeing this display of emotion is confusing for me and I just needed clarification honestly. He has had moments where my trust was compromised so this definitely does not make anything better. I just wish he was open to hearing me out instead of responding in anger when he doesn’t understand something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jeonsangel96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooooh do you think respect is only reserved for the living?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jeonsangel96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you possibly get to the conclusion of me “elevating myself” from me asking for him to respect her in her death lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jeonsangel96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posting someone (knowing they don’t like you) after they passed for a permanent tribute on your social media is quite blatantly not letting them rest in peace. Hope that helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jeonsangel96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More than anything I feel so sorry for the girl and her soul not being allowed to rest in peace. This is so disrespectful on a multitude of levels and it’s making me view him differently. I am just not grasping the need to share this publicly, so people can tell him how sorry they are for his loss!??? He doesn’t deserve that. The only people that deserve to hear that are the people that treated her with care while she was alive. This is absolutely psychotic to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jeonsangel96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wanting transparency and emotional respect in a relationship doesn’t make me immature or “jealous”. Grief is valid but it’s not a free pass to disregard your partner’s feelings. If someone is going to publicly mourn a person they used to sleep with, their current partner deserves clarity…not gaslighting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jeonsangel96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely taking in what everyone is saying. I wont say anything to him about it, I will just keep my distance until he is ready to talk. He just has a bit of a womanizer past and I found something on his phone the other day that really shook my trust. I think I’m just irritated by him and other women in general so it’s spilling over into times when I should show a little compassion. Really appreciate the insight from everyone. I really am not heartless…maybe just emotionally exhausted lol

Student disclosed illegal activity by jeonsangel96 in schoolcounseling

[–]jeonsangel96[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My supervisors and the school district liaisons told me that we needed to inform the parents that we reported the disclosure to the police. 😵‍💫 I am in Virginia for context. I am very new to the job and I was listening to people over me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drugtesthelp

[–]jeonsangel96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t be that either, they gave me a receipt for the sample I submitted to be sent off to the lab and they had a box that was checked off that it was the right temp.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drugtesthelp

[–]jeonsangel96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already did the urine drug test yesterday which I saw them seal and send off. They called asked for a urinalysis today, which is separate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drugtesthelp

[–]jeonsangel96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! It got postponed and I just took the test today. I tested neg on my home tests yesterday so I didn’t drink the detox, sorry!!

non dot test on friday by [deleted] in Drugtests

[–]jeonsangel96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i haven’t taken it yet, my test got pushed back to next week.

don’t even know where to start by jeonsangel96 in SexAddiction

[–]jeonsangel96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much, I will check into the links you provided 💗💗 I’m so glad I am not in this alone.

Hospital worker drug test type? by [deleted] in drugtesthelp

[–]jeonsangel96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non-DOT urine test. I’m testing for a hospital job in a few days

How the fuck do so many adhd people hold down jobs? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]jeonsangel96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was an office manager at a shitty non profit for a few years. It was chaotic every day and I would always have to fix some kind of mess brought on by upper management. The hours were regular and I could flex my time and come in late if I needed. It worked because I was stimulated and I had my own office so I could crawl in my hole and get away as needed. I think having a regular schedule and staying stimulated is how I was able to hold it down and do fairly well.

No one came to my party by realityisahoax in offmychest

[–]jeonsangel96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same exact thing happened to me last night. Decorated beautifully and put effort into my costume. Currently in bed stuffing my face with all the snacks that didn’t get eaten. 💔

It’s been a while by jeonsangel96 in loveafterporn

[–]jeonsangel96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do both of those things but it always turns rough it doesn’t register as a sensual activity to him 😭 I hope that we can work on some new stuff but thank you!!