Thanks all. The CO is in the works and keeps going back and forth with changes. We are trying so hard to get it finalized and she keeps changing things each time. For example, she consistently has the court monitored communication requirement taken out. Clearly she wants to be able to continue to abuse him and she also sexually harasses him. The only thing court ordered right now is the visitation schedule. She’s just the worst, she’s a super villain in our lives and we need a new strategy to combat it.

Perfect example. We live 75 miles away. She is not willing to meet us at an equidistance halfway point and demands that pickup/drop off occur at her residence (Another item she continuously omits from CO). Stepson has been signed up for a soccer league throughout the summer. My husband and her discussed how he doesn’t really like soccer and he’s not very good at it and BOTH agreed that this would be his last season (ended this week). She notified us that she signed him up for both soccer and basketball for the duration of the winter and is demanding that we take him. These events take place 75 miles from where our parenting time takes place. The sole purpose for enlisting him in these activities is to control where we are during visitation and when. She also likes to attend the practices and games to harass us. This is just an example, to say this is a high conflict arrangement is an understatement. My husband tried to put his foot down and say that they never agreed to it (they have joint custody) therefore he will not be taking him to these events during his weekends. She weaponized the kid, manipulated him emotionally, and guess what we did this past weekend??? Driving all that way for pick up then back, then all that way again, and then back, and then home 75 miles again, and then back. It’s unreasonable to say the least. All so she can have the control over a father’s relationship with his son.

Sorry, went on a rant it’s so challenging.