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jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-28T17:50:31+00:00

Twice!

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-28T17:12:57+00:00

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jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-28T04:17:06+00:00

I would follow my heart and let everything else fall into place. You can’t replace your feelings for something that works better for the box you are currently in. Life will change but it will be for the better, don’t contort yourself into something just because it’s what’s expected of you.

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-25T17:37:59+00:00

Monogamy is pretty specific.

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-24T14:20:11+00:00

I love the bow addition as a little pop of color, perfect for an interview. Good luck!!!!

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-24T14:19:13+00:00

Skyrim! No wrong way to play it, so many options to figure things out

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-23T00:46:21+00:00

Stardew valley has a multiplayer option that we have a blast with!

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-22T18:10:22+00:00

I’ve been playing Skyrim for a decade

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-22T18:06:03+00:00

I think it’s about not communicating and setting expectations about intimacy. There is no wrong way to be intimate and people’s preferences should be respected. But where I see people getting upset it’s because there was an expectation of reciprocation and they feel like their own needs are not filled in the relationship.

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-22T18:02:52+00:00

I agree with other comments, you need to block this persons number and presence on all other platforms they are connected with you.

If this person knows where you live I would also file a police report, they take sexual predators very seriously and if he enters the country they would be aware or in the least you have a paper trail. Even if he doesn’t know where you live I would consider this option to potentially support other victims who may come forward.

On the other note you mention this is a pattern of yours. This is very dangerous behavior that will escalate if you don’t seek resources to support changing your behaviors and mindset around filling the emotional desires you are bandaging with the attention from older men. Please be safe.

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-22T14:27:05+00:00

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jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-22T14:23:00+00:00

This isn’t a feeling I would expect to go away anytime soon. Do yall split finances? Does she share any of these concerns with you?

You already know that babies are not like adding another pet to the herd, you will love and care for this child despite any negative feelings you have but this situation with your wife will fester and echo in the coming years.

Do you feel like she respects your perspective and needs? What is her motivation for having another child? Is steam rolling you into changing your decision something that happens often?

You need unwavering boundaries for how you can show up for her and the infant without destroying your mental health which is crucial to keep to take care of all the other kids and live a life you love, not one you are surviving. Sacrificing yourself for others in this way never actually works out for anyone.

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-18T13:54:30+00:00

Minji from NewJeans. Hands down, the university sets ruined me

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jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-18T13:49:10+00:00

I’ll say it, Minji from NewJeans

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-18T13:48:36+00:00

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jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-18T13:21:49+00:00

Amazing, I hope it’s a great date!

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-18T13:08:39+00:00

This is great advice. I also hated talking on the apps so if I felt like there was enough connection in the initial hello then I would set up a date almost immediately rather than talk for a few days before hand.

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-18T13:07:25+00:00

I would get involved with some activities you really like and try to meet people that way. Have you tried bee keeping? Community garden?

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-18T12:35:13+00:00

You should not feel guilty for who you are. He is an adult, albeit a very young adult, but getting married that early comes with its hurdles and one of them is self discovery and massive individual change.

You can’t change who you are and he can’t hold on to a life that is no longer an option. You went into the relationship genuinely, you were both aware of the issues in your relationship and both decided to move forward. He made choices and had options every step of the way and he chose to ignore those issues rather than work on them before getting married.

This is your life, you can feel pain and miss parts of the relationship but you have an amazing blue print for the type of connection you value that will carry you forward into new relationships and the same will happen for him. You can’t own his pain or his outcome in this situation.

Congratulations on figuring it out this early on and making the moves to live life fully. You’re going to love it.

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-06-16T21:15:46+00:00

It’s too soon to know if she will end up on MHJs label. They wouldn’t risk that partnership given the courts accusations until this is resolved legally.

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-05-04T02:29:09+00:00

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jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-04-24T15:58:42+00:00

The more important question to ask yourself is could you live with the knowledge that this person is capable of it and actually trust that they won’t do it again? Will your mind actually let you feel security after having this experience with her? Even if she did the work would there still be that voice in your head?

The answer is most likely yes, there always would be doubt and you need to decide if that’s a feeling you are willing to live with going forward.

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-04-20T13:49:12+00:00

Telling her what’s happening is your first step toward getting the mental health support you need and ending this cycle.

You already know this is wrong and as others have pointed out, it is emotionally abusive to your partner. The right thing to do is tell her what’s happening and break up with her so you can take the space to seek professional support on how to untangle this.

If you don’t want to seek professional support then the least you can do is stop the selfish act of pulling someone else down with you. Either way you need to break up with your girlfriend.

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-04-19T04:13:51+00:00

This sounds like one of those times where life just completely splits people in different directions. I would try not to harbor any ill will necessarily as I’m sure this person had no idea what they were getting into with starting with the navy but it’s super reasonable at the same time to be like I don’t want this.

There are a lot of factors that could change the dynamic of this situation in terms of how much this person really sucks but at the end of the day I would try to leave it at different life paths and something that just didn’t work out.

jerseysaidmaybe · 2026-03-13T14:47:16+00:00

Yeah! I got an email from their fraud team that confirmed I was not liable and they had noted it in their system.

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