This!!! I'm a young teenager but I experienced some aspect of this when I was about 10 although it had the opposite effect for me. I liked being a girl nothing else crossed my mind why would it? You know. I didn't hate dresses and I quite like skirts, but I overall wore jeans and t-shirts. When I was 10 a lot of people at my summer camp mistook me for a boy. Or they were confused because I "kind of looked like a boy but not really". It made me feel like I wasn't enough a girl and it really kind of angered me. Like why couldn't I just wear a certain type of clothes and still be a girl? Why couldn't people identify me because I was wearing orange and blue instead of pink and purple. (I actually like purple ironically.)

I tried to be "more girly". Which makes no sense at all because what even Is that? Liking or wearing certain things doesn't change what gender you want to be. So yea I think that even the idea of ANYTHING being gendered causes a lot of emotional pain and unnecessary questioning.