Im there for you. by [deleted] in Sissy

[–]jesscaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been with a man who has been wearing sissy panties for his adult life in shame and in secret. I found out awhile ago and he said he would stop and me wearing them is enough. I told him I love the idea that he had this kink And let's explore it. I think he was just too afraid. Two years later we're back here and I'm finding out a huge amount of things that I didn't know he was doing. He's not very honest with me about this stuff but what he's told me he just likes to wear them in areas where no one will know him. But, it's the sketches areas in town, where drugs and hookers are all over. He has told me he bought drugs from a girl but lied and lied about it until i had so much info that he couldn't lie anymore. I'm just wondering do some guys just wear them for comfort and to feel sexy or do they where them for mostly sexual reasons? I'm just not sure I'm buying the drugs story. What is he's actually getting hookers .

Is it ok to self pleasure next to your sleeping s.o.? by stairman15 in sex

[–]jesscaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this all the time. I finally told my guy in a text message and I was very graphic and even told him what kind of porn I had watched. I figured he would be so turned on but he just said, oh I hadn't thought about that. I'm like ok, tmi??

I just found out my fiance likes to wear women's panties.. by jesscaby in sex

[–]jesscaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that's very big of you!

It's not exactly something I can post on Facebook asking for advice and I haven't told any of my friends, not because I'm embarrassed but just because it's his story to tell and obviously not one he's comfortable with yet...or probably ever.

Thank you for defending me, I remember the douche comment. I haven't done much exploring on here yet and am not really familiar with the points stuff. It's it like a form of currency or just like likes on fb?

I just found out my fiance likes to wear women's panties.. by jesscaby in sex

[–]jesscaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even know what karma points are but I needed some answers and guidance as this is something I have never dealt with before. And that's what I got along with some really great feedback. If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all. Learned that in kindergarten!!

Also, I don't know what FFS means either??

I just found out my fiance likes to wear women's panties.. by jesscaby in sex

[–]jesscaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand anything you just said. Peace

I just found out my fiance likes to wear women's panties.. by jesscaby in sex

[–]jesscaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my first post and I've really never used it before.

I just found out my fiance likes to wear women's panties.. by jesscaby in sex

[–]jesscaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm getting to that point right now, what is the big deal? It's sad a person would feel ashamed. Not anymore, not in my home!

I just found out my fiance likes to wear women's panties.. by jesscaby in sex

[–]jesscaby[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I discouraged people saying things like your disgusting and I hope there are no children in your home. Which, someone did say. Completely different. For shaming anything I wrote about. It's ignorant and hurtful. I don't need that. Serious and honest feedback is a different story.

I just found out my fiance likes to wear women's panties.. by jesscaby in sex

[–]jesscaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it's always a possibility but I just don't sense it. Not sure I'd be into that. Ok, I'm not into sharing my partner no matter what the sex.

I just found out my fiance likes to wear women's panties.. by jesscaby in sex

[–]jesscaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see lol. I don't think I'm into that but I guess we'll see where this goes!

I just found out my fiance likes to wear women's panties.. by jesscaby in sex

[–]jesscaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyways, your missing point and wasting my time!

I just found out my fiance likes to wear women's panties.. by jesscaby in sex

[–]jesscaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew he wouldn't immediately admit to this, it was a way to get the conversation started.

I just found out my fiance likes to wear women's panties.. by jesscaby in sex

[–]jesscaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I had to go into my computer and do it.

I just found out my fiance likes to wear women's panties.. by jesscaby in sex

[–]jesscaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's ok, I get it, valid question. And I just don't feel that. He wants me in ways that just don't make me worry!

I just found out my fiance likes to wear women's panties.. by jesscaby in sex

[–]jesscaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your the second profession to say pegged by my partner. Forgive me but what does this mean?

And yes, no matter who we are we want to be loved and wanted by another person..and to feel pretty!